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I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by AllDModsAreMaad: 3:22pm On Aug 28, 2022
Hi People,

I decided to create this post to know if there are others experiencing same thing I am experiencing.

This year will make it two years that I have been planning to settle down without settling for a lady.
It is either they piss me off with one thing or I will just lose interest in them for issues that I would have overlooked few years ago.
Those that show me love and care are not what I'm searching for(in my own view), despite my harshness towards them at times they are still there showing the love and care some times secretly without leaving.

Now, I understand that popular line "Women are many and everywhere, it when you want to marry that you will know that women are scarce."

I initially wanted to opt for BabyMama but that path is a no-go area for many reasons.

I have decided to tell my people to get me one if they can next year because I am tired of searching.

Married men in the house, how did you settle for your partners?

Single guys, how una dey cope?

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Nobody: 3:25pm On Aug 28, 2022
Better remain single for the rest of your life if you don't want to regret your whole life.

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by SUFFERInSMILIIN(m): 3:26pm On Aug 28, 2022
AllDModsAreMaad:
Hi People,

I decided to create this post to know if there are others experiencing same thing I am experiencing.

This year will make it two years that I have been planning to settle down without settling for a lady.
It is either they piss me off with one thing or I will just lose interest in them for issues that I would have overlooked few years ago.
Those that show me love and care are not what I'm searching for(in my own view), despite my harshness towards them at times they are still there showing the love and care some times secretly without leaving.

Now, I understand that popular line "Women are many and everywhere, it when you want to marry that you will know that women are scarce."

I initially wanted to opt for BabyMama but that path is a no-go area for many reasons.

I have decided to tell my people to get me one if they can next year because I am tired of searching.

Married men in the house, how did you settle for your partners?

Single guys, how una dey cope?

The biggest problem is the economical situation in the country which has turned most of the girls into commercial sex workers or prostitutes. There are plenty girls all over Nigeria but most of them are just after money even some of them are in their 40s and 50s. The economical situation in the country has turned a lot of girls into sex worker. Finding a lady in Nigeria which is marriage equality is nearly impossible most of them are snakes once the money is finished they are gone...

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Hollybratt(m): 3:27pm On Aug 28, 2022
Hey, chap, don't be discourage, you get?
you just have to continue searching.
Wetin u dey find for sokoto, it might be under your sokoto.
IRMC

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by SUFFERInSMILIIN(m): 3:27pm On Aug 28, 2022
Try to do like most Nigerian guys if you get a chance to leave the country you can still find a lot of good women in other African countries.

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by fman(m): 3:29pm On Aug 28, 2022
Same with you.
Searching here.
Most be an Adventist.
That is my own

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by OceanEye: 3:30pm On Aug 28, 2022
Due to the nature of my work of which I didn't have time to search for a partner, I was introduced to a lady by my sister and everything moved well.

You can try that too, and maybe, just maybe, you might be lucky .

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Hollybratt(m): 3:30pm On Aug 28, 2022
Mufakirnaqdiun:
Better remain single for the rest of your life if you don't want to regret your whole life.
Hey, chap, Why are you jumping from one thread to the other? And you have no good advice to give.
IRMC

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Machinegun91(m): 3:31pm On Aug 28, 2022
Women are everywhere my brother

They prefer hookup than settling down.

Even married women are into hookup this days

If I mistakenly impregnate any woman now, I will forget about marriage and Bleep all the holes

May God help us

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Nobody: 3:32pm On Aug 28, 2022
Hollybratt:
Hey, chap, Why are you jumping from one thread to the other? And you have no good advice to give.
IRMC
Hey slave why do you keep quoting me like a non entity?
Don't you have better things to do with your life other than keeping tabs of my activities?

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Hollybratt(m): 3:44pm On Aug 28, 2022
Mufakirnaqdiun:

Hey slave why do you keep quoting me like a non entity?
Don't you have better things to do with your life other than keeping tabs of my activities?
Your unborn children are even aware of foolishness, do i even know you exit? not to talk of quoting a nameless Amoeba.
Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by pharycox77: 3:48pm On Aug 28, 2022
Bro...mk I no lie for u, I prayed and fasted when I wanted to get married and also sought advice from a man of God concerning the matt er.am happily married now...five years with two kids .

Las las na only God go fit give u ur own wife ooo

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Hollybratt(m): 3:51pm On Aug 28, 2022
Mufakirnaqdiun:

At least better off than a slave,lol.
you aren't even ashame of yourself, as old as you are, you are here exchanging word with me, you should have stop existing just like dinosuars. Old fool!

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Nobody: 3:58pm On Aug 28, 2022
Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Hollybratt(m): 4:02pm On Aug 28, 2022
[quote author=Mufakirnaqdiun post=116140066][/quote]that's interesting, senseless married man. Atleast your children can know how useless and brainless you are
Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Nobody: 4:03pm On Aug 28, 2022
Hollybratt:
that's interesting, senseless married man. Atleast your children can know how useless and brainless you are
Be careful,lol.
Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Hollybratt(m): 4:08pm On Aug 28, 2022
Mufakirnaqdiun:

Be careful,lol.
Since you've plan your life to remain jobless and brainless just like your Ancestors. I will give you enough time to perform your lunatic display. I'm out of here ! ! !
Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Nobody: 4:09pm On Aug 28, 2022
Hollybratt:
Since you've plan your life to remain jobless and brainless just like your Ancestors. I will give you enough time to perform your lunatic display. I'm out of here ! ! !
Na you dey talk this thing oo, congratulations.
Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Slmgirldippussy: 4:10pm On Aug 28, 2022
Chai the girl wey I camp no let me go out.
One cele church dey do harvest today
Omo my guys don go there to harvest kpekus.
Chai this one jus dey do love love for me
How I wish I can go with them

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by jeromestarks: 4:23pm On Aug 28, 2022
Women (pvssy bearers) are everywhere. Wives (virgins ) are hard to find.
Better struggle to get the best and have a happy home for a lifetime than get the worst and which you didn't.

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by lawrenzooo: 4:38pm On Aug 28, 2022
pharycox77:
Bro...mk I no lie for u, I prayed and fasted when I wanted to get married and also sought advice from a man of God concerning the matt er.am happily married now...five years with two kids .

Las las na only God go fit give u ur own wife ooo
Na which airport Abi park God drop d wife for you so that op go go wait for the airport.,�

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Demigod22: 5:26pm On Aug 28, 2022
Marriageable girls are scarce. This hookup and serial cheating is scary. These girls are doing some irredeemable stuffs for money and when you want to marry, you have to think twice and judiciously search.

I have been introduced to some girls, even my mom try to match make me with her friend's daughter, but I am not even interested in marriage.

Me want to live my life and enjoy my peace of mind and be grateful for the blessings that come my way.

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Nobody: 6:03pm On Aug 28, 2022
SUFFERInSMILIIN:


The biggest problem is the economical situation in the country which has turned most of the girls into commercial sex workers or prostitutes. There are plenty girls all over Nigeria but most of them are just after money even some of them are in their 40s and 50s. The economical situation in the country has turned a lot of girls into sex worker. Finding a lady in Nigeria which is marriage equality is nearly impossible most of them are snakes once the money is finished they are gone...

Truer words have never been said. If you love your dear life. Better take this advice so dearly..

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Nobody: 6:11pm On Aug 28, 2022
pharycox77:
Bro...mk I no lie for u, I prayed and fasted when I wanted to get married and also sought advice from a man of God concerning the matt er.am happily married now...five years with two kids .

Las las na only God go fit give u ur own wife ooo

Rubbish!!! Keep deceiving yourselves. You wey marry almost 8 to 10years ago when "INTERNET" haven't reached It PEAK In Nigeria Is comparing yourself with someone looking for a Wife In 2022 wey Internet have reached almost every corner. Even some Almajiri sef dey use android now. "POVERTY, HOOK UPS, YAHOO PLUS, FRAUDSTERS, WICKEDNESS, PORN" have scattered everywhere now both Online and Offline. You Just try do mistake make that your wife leave you ehn and Let that your Pastor come back again and pray for you and You should also fast 40days and 40nights. Last last na Pretending Olosho you go marry or make you no see Woman marry at all sef lol. Make God wan con catch you big time, Make you go be POOR MAN chaiii..grin

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Princeaniemeka: 6:14pm On Aug 28, 2022
I decided to create this post to know if there are others experiencing same thing I am experiencing.

This year will make it two years that I have been planning to settle down without settling for a lady.
It is either they piss me off with one thing or I will just lose interest in them for issues that I would have overlooked few years ago.
Those that show me love and care are not what I'm searching for(in my own view), despite my harshness towards them at times they are still there showing the love and care some times secretly without leaving.

Now, I understand that popular line "Women are many and everywhere, it when you want to marry that you will know that women are scarce."

I initially wanted to opt for BabyMama but that path is a no-go area for many reasons.

I have decided to tell my people to get me one if they can next year because I am tired of searching.

Married men in the house, how did you settle for your partners?

Single guys, how una dey cope? [/quote]



My brother if truly you want to marry then do this things.
1) Reduce your standards... what you want is a friend, someone you know you can tolerate and love at the same time. Someone that is from a home and not leaving outside her home. Someone that is God fearing. My advice is for you to look deeper in all those your ex and pick your better HALF AND MAKE HER WHOLE.

NOTE: DO NOT LET ANYONE CHOOSE YOUR LIFE PARTNER.
AND YOU MUST SHIFT GROUND'S TO ACCOMMODATE THOSE THAT LOVE YOU. TRY TO SEE THINGS FROM HER OWN VIEWS.

WHAT YOU NEED IN A MARRIAGE IS A SUBMISSIVE WIFE AND WHAT SHE NEEDS IS A LOVING HUSBAND.. SHALOM

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Nobody: 6:16pm On Aug 28, 2022
Slmgirldippussy:
Chai the girl wey I camp no let me go out.
One cele church dey do harvest today
Omo my guys don go there to harvest kpekus.
Chai this one jus dey do love love for me
How I wish I can go with them

Na Thunder go strike both of you there. Awon eleribu omo. And na one mumu go still wan carry the werey wey you dey Bleep for house oOo. I Thank God for my life. No Virgin No Marriage. Nigeria Men dey suffer Abeg..

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by gerizzim: 6:26pm On Aug 28, 2022
AllDModsAreMaad:
Hi People,

I decided to create this post to know if there are others experiencing same thing I am experiencing.

This year will make it two years that I have been planning to settle down without settling for a lady.
It is either they piss me off with one thing or I will just lose interest in them for issues that I would have overlooked few years ago.
Those that show me love and care are not what I'm searching for(in my own view), despite my harshness towards them at times they are still there showing the love and care some times secretly without leaving.

Now, I understand that popular line "Women are many and everywhere, it when you want to marry that you will know that women are scarce."

I initially wanted to opt for BabyMama but that path is a no-go area for many reasons.

I have decided to tell my people to get me one if they can next year because I am tired of searching.

Married men in the house, how did you settle for your partners?

Single guys, how una dey cope?

my friend, I understand what you are saying . Give yourself a break from the search. relax the tempo. Infact, stop worrying about who , when and how it wil come.
Not that you should be docile or non chalant about finding a woman but dnt allow the obsession of your search keep bothering you.

It is when you go silent and still that's when some of this things we desire in life miraculously comes . Not just it coming but it comes effortlessly. it comes without you struggling to get it.

Not that you don't put some little effort in that direction . You will definitely but dont throw all your resources into it to get it.

It's very good we take action in issues that concern us so that we get results but paradoxically there are som things it takes the divine to actualise in our life not hinged on the action we took or dint take. marriage is one of them.

I mean searching and following the right process of bringing a woman into your life(as wife) not d wrong way of getting a random gal preg and she ending up as a wife of circumstance. you can call her a situational wife. marrying her because she got preg for you.

Adam was busy doing sometin else. it was God that directed eve to Adam. Keep engaging ursef with wateva is noble that is keeping you busy.

Take a break from your worry. Don't allow your age or the passage of time put you in worry Nd impatient mood.

You are not doing badly weather you tink loneliness or boredom is killing you. If others share their own experience to you. you will understand that yours is beta.

The woman with a reasonable amount of spec you desire in the first place is what the divine will direct or bring towrds you.

Am not jst sayin this. It has worked for me and so many other testifiers.

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by SerikiFulani(m): 6:26pm On Aug 28, 2022
Finding a marriageable woman in Nigeria now is like looking for a christian in Iran.

The problem now is no woman wants a broke or comfortable man...They need a already successful man who can take care of them and their family....We still have some decent women but they're rare to find.

Also the alarming rate at which nigerian women are into hookup this days is flaggerbasting.... Infact,once I see a nigerian woman,I see a potential prostitute.

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by marlow1962(m): 6:43pm On Aug 28, 2022
Boys are plenty but Men are scarce.
Girls are plenty but Women are scarce.

Don’t use cus of beauty, breast and nyash put someone that’s going to burn you into ur home.

No gal wn suffer again, all of them looking for already made men.
It takes the grace of our Almighty Lord to see a decent gal nowadays. Many of them are fake and snakes disguising under the pretense of being a woman.

Look before you leap( ppl wer talk am no be fools)

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Re: I Do Think Women Are Everywhere But I Just Realized WOMEN Are Hard To Find Now by Savedday: 7:03pm On Aug 28, 2022
When you give urself one reason to marry a 9ja girl, she will give u five reasons why they are unmarriageable.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

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