Lucrativress:

"The lucky and blessed one"
Women has suffered in this life
Why not the "good one"?
Why not get a Manager instead of a Wife?
Since you're all about managing your business here?
All these men that don't tell themselves the truths ehn, it's getting nauseating.

Why taking it personal?

First of all, is it your life?
Are you the one getting OR planning to get married?
Don't I have freedom to choose or plan my life anymore?
Should a man just close eyes and marry without considering certain things?
Will you advice your bro(let us be real) not to consider his business(hustle), his kids etc when making such plan?
Do you know that the same way I am looking out for certain things is the way ladies also look out for certain things in men?
I can go on and on...

A lady may be good but not compatible with a man, vice versa.
From your understanding, a man who is always traveling due to the nature of his job or who works onshore for half of the year i.e 6 months onshore, 6 months leave(or similar job nature) can marry a woman who is always busy with her job i.e leaves home very early in the morning and come back home very late in the night because both are good without considering their compatibility and children etc?

Again, a good type C USB cable won't be compatible with an iPhone device no matter how good it is.
Can you give a hungry fellow water? Does that affect the goodness of water?

That is the problem you people are having, leaving the point and focusing on another thing.

Now, read well...
For her to be lucky and blessed to me have many meanings, which includes she is good for me, even if she is not good for another,
We are compatible,
I am also lucky and blessed to have her etc.

I guess you read to reply/comment not to understand.

Demigod22:
Marriageable girls are scarce. This hookup and serial cheating is scary. These girls are doing some irredeemable stuffs for money and when you want to marry, you have to think twice and judiciously search.

I have been introduced to some girls, even my mom try to match make me with her friend's daughter, but I am not even interested in marriage.

Me want to live my life and enjoy my peace of mind and be grateful for the blessings that come my way.

That statement in bold is just the point bro.

Lucrativress:

Are you blind no
Will you see? No
Cause what you need is not what you want
"Those that show you love is not what you want"
Let me guess their type
They're hardworking?
Not slayers?
Not feeding off their pussies?
Not damn trendy and physically dazzling like drip drip everywhere?
Then the ones in the shape and sizes you want, you're worried they can't keep a Home?
Happy Married Life in advance,cause you'll end up with what you want.

LoL
Anyway, I am not the type that is after beauty only, but that doesn't mean I should go for someone that doesn't come up a bit wrt look.

FYI, one of those people I referred to is someone men do admire openly when she visits me, some men make remarks like "oga/bro/guy na your woman/wife be this, Omoh she too fine and all that."
I mean she is physically BEAUTIFUL.
Aside her beauty and care, do you even know why I am not considering her?
You don't know but you are quick to badmouth me.
Others are also modest in look.

Aside look there are other things like temperament etc, to consider o.
So dey reason well abeg.

When it comes to things I look out for in a woman, beauty is not even at the top level. I am good looking, I can always go well with a moderately(modest) looking woman.

The koko is peace of mind and not look, get that into your head.

Women are everywhere. Pray for urs

AllDModsAreMaad:


Why taking it personal?

First of all, is it your life?
Are you the one getting OR planning to get married?
Don't I have freedom to choose or plan my life anymore?
Should a man just close eyes and marry without considering certain things?
Will you advice your bro(let us be real) not to consider his business(hustle), his kids etc when making such plan?
Do you know that the same way I am looking out for certain things is the way ladies also look out for certain things in men?
I can go on and on...

A lady may be good but not compatible with a man, vice versa.
From your understanding, a man who is always traveling due to the nature of his job or who works onshore for half of the year i.e 6 months onshore, 6 months leave(or similar job nature) can marry a woman who is always busy with her job i.e leaves home very early in the morning and come back home very late in the night because both are good without considering their compatibility and children etc?

Again, a good type C USB cable won't be compatible with an iPhone device no matter how good it is.
Can you give a hungry fellow water? Does that affect the goodness of water?

That is the problem you people are having, leaving the point and focusing on another thing.

Now, read well...
For her to be lucky and blessed to me have many meanings, which includes she is good for me, even if she is not good for another,
We are compatible,
I am also lucky and blessed to have her etc.

I guess you read to reply/comment not to understand.

Ah sorry Sir
E ma binu o

AllDModsAreMaad:

LoL
Anyway, I am not the type that is after beauty only, but that doesn't mean I should go for someone that doesn't come up a bit wrt look.

FYI, one of those people I referred to is someone men do admire openly when she visits me, some men make remarks like "oga/bro/guy na your woman/wife be this, Omoh she too fine and all that."
I mean she is physically BEAUTIFUL.
Aside her beauty and care, do you even know why I am not considering her?
You don't know but you are quick to badmouth me.
Others are also modest in look.

Aside look there are other things like temperament etc, to consider o.
So dey reason well abeg.

When it comes to things I look out for in a woman, beauty is not even at the top level. I am good looking, I can always go well with a moderately(modest) looking woman.

The koko is peace of mind and not look, get that into your head.

Badmouth you ke
Sorry
Let me zip up and mind my business before you give me e-slap

AllDModsAreMaad:

I get your point bro, that is even why I canceled any idea of getting married to someone from afar. I decided to limit it to someone close, except if she is an extremely rare OR special breed(lady).
Getting married to someone from far has its own effect on the couple's families. There are a lot examples around.
I am not saying getting married to someone whose place is not far from yours gives a perfect home but the probability of the lady misbehaving is lesser than the farther one.

Honestly, I used to have that concern about marriage. i.e a woman bringing division and all that, and also a situation where someone is doing well before marriage and then after marriage, they start having problems they never had when they were single instead of growing.

But, I have planned things in a way it won't get to that, and I have also committed that into God's hands.

Anyhow e be, our homes and unions will be blessed, peaceful and joyful in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Amen!

I think what somebody like u need is babymama or contract marriage, just gv belle, then carry ur pikin

AllDModsAreMaad:


That statement in bold is just the point bro.

LoL, thanks man.

Lucrativress:

Ah sorry Sir
E ma binu o

Pele ti e!

Mi o binu o.

Happy Sunday to you!

Demigod22:


LoL, thanks man.

You're welcome bro.

emmanuelbrown26:

I think what somebody like u need is babymama or contract marriage, just gv belle, then carry ur pikin

LoL, I am getting married anyway.

No matter what, I will marry well, right(rightly) and happily.

Lucrativress:

Badmouth you ke
Sorry
Let me zip up and mind my business before you give me e-slap

LOL, you are free to advice, comment etc, but do it constructively and with courtesy.

AllDModsAreMaad:

LOL, you are free to advice, comment etc, but do it constructively and with courtesy.

No o
I'm not saying anything again o
You aff cover my mouth

AllDModsAreMaad:

Pele ti e!

Mi o binu o.

Happy Sunday to you!

Same to you too Sir