Am a young man in my late 30s and ve done anything a man should to better his life outside rituals,but things not working out as planned that atimes I feel like ve been forsaken by Almighty God, although am not worried cause I ve a strong believed that all will b well. reasons why my BP is rising now is my inlaw who passed way around June this year and we all agreed for final burial by October but the funniest things is I lost my job same June and ever since ve been struggling with menial jobs Jst to put food on my tables with wife and two kids, now the days are drawing nearer and I Dnt ve anything to.contribute even my clothes ve not.paid for it and wat could b more shameful than this, sincerely my last options now is suicide cause Yoruba will say Iku ya ju esin lo, all friends are complaning ve played bet to the extent that I lost a 148k yesterday.......I said God what ve I really done wrong, that am going through this serious challenges I need to say it's beyond me and Dnt knw where else to turn to..........Pls matured and intellectual advice only, pen down for now.

You must not contribute. Your inlaws including your wife is already aware of your present condition. So you can help to plan and in other areas you must not contribute.

If you die thinking,your wife and inlaws will move on.

Visit those on hospitals beds wishing to be like you!

Visit those on hospitals beds wishing to be like you and say hi too to those in the mortuary. You will be more appreciative to God after the visit.

U are in a deep already...and u went on digging.


Keep digging...for the fact,that u had money to play a bet worth that amount means u don't have a problem.

Nigeria is already bad and pls,just remember to vote wisely.

LUGBE:
You must not contribute. Your inlaws including your wife is already away of your present condition. So you can help to plan and in other areas you must not contribute.

If you die thinking,your wife and inlaws will move on.

I Jst pray I should b able to join them, all my inlaw children are all females if we the husbands didn't contribute our lz, how will d day look like

ibechris:
U are in a deep already...and u went on digging.


Keep digging...for the fact,that u had money to play a bet worth that amount means u don't have a problem.

Nigeria is already bad and pls,just remember to vote wisely.

I Jst tried with d last 100 hundred on me not that am playing game of 1k, where will I get that, and reasons why am doing that if my luck can come from there, my son is very ill now Dnt even any sisi yo take hin to d Hospital so why am involving myself in such bet if I can see something to take care of my ouse

yomcity:

I Jst pray I should b able to join them, all my inlaw children are all females if we the husbands didn't contribute our lz, how will d day look like

y do on laws not allow their daughters husband rest? Once woman marry, leave her to plan her life with her husband, but for Nigeria, no way

I do thank God everyday of my life and once I wakes up from sleep and I live God so much so Dnt knw why am going through this tough challenges and its really telling on me I swear

Stop adding pressure to yourself. I believe when you had money, you supported your in-laws, now you don't have, they shud support you, or understand that you don't have right now. If you don't have money to pay d tailor for the cloth, wear ur old one, if you don't have cash to support the burial process, let them know, no shame in it.
And stop gambling away the small money you have, Wen you lose, you'll be blaming God, so you want God to support gambling.
Pray to God and have faith, things will turn around for good.

Creamypie:
y do on laws not allow their daughters husband rest? Once woman marry, leave her to plan her life with her husband, but for Nigeria, no way

Seriously truth b told my inlaws Dnt put pressure on anyone but bruv what is worth doing is worth doing well, this woman we are talking about means alot to me while was alive and I cnt imagine myself not contributing my own quota is wat is given me a sleepless night............makes me cry like a baby

My dear, na who chop belleful dey contribute to family function. Your wife knows what you're going through, she needs to support you by telling her family what you both are going through and that you people cannot contribute financially to the burial but your support in other ways.

No go Kee yourself.

yomcity:
Am a young man in my late 30s and ve done anything a man should to better his life outside rituals,but things not working out as planned that atimes I feel like ve been forsaken by Almighty God, although am not worried cause I ve a strong believed that all will b well. reasons why my BP is rising now is my inlaw who passed way around June this year and we all agreed for final burial by October but the funniest things is I lost my job same June and ever since ve been struggling with menial jobs Jst to put food on my tables with wife and two kids, now the days are drawing nearer and I Dnt ve anything to.contribute even my clothes ve not.paid for it and wat could b more shameful than this, sincerely my last options now is suicide cause Yoruba will say Iku ya ju esin lo, all friends are complaning ve played bet to the extent that I lost a 148k yesterday.......I said God what ve I really done wrong, that am going through this serious challenges I need to say it's beyond me and Dnt knw where else to turn to..........Pls matured and intellectual advice only, pen down for now.

Chat me up on 08089456258 we need to talk ASAP

The solution to being down is to rise again better.. death is not a solution. Its the killer of dreams don't let depression take ur dreams from u.. buckle up mehn!!

I hope you are not supporting the lifeless one because if you are supporting him, I know na

You want to kill yourself because of in-law's burial? Go ahead. Your head no correct

yomcity:

I Jst pray I should b able to join them, all my inlaw children are all females if we the husbands didn't contribute our lz, how will d day look like

You're a fool...


You want to kill yourself over your lack of contribution to meet up with your inlaw's burial....


Will anyone kill themselves for not being able to help you out?

Over thinking no fit solve problem.
If you kill yourself, will it stop them from burying the woman?
If your in-laws know that you do help before now, they will understand unless they are ingrate.
Lastly, your death will only be more troubles for your lovely wife and little kids.
Your children go suffer oh because of your cowardice.

Is even female children that run things in the houses now. You have no justification for your worries because you cant change it.

Please just know it that you have two children, make sure they are comfortable and also know you will be buried too if you take your life as you are planning.

yomcity:

I Jst pray I should b able to join them, all my inlaw children are all females if we the husbands didn't contribute our lz, how will d day look like

U played bet With 148k

God will see you through...no kill ya self for nothing abeg.....if I narate my own story for you...you go wonder..just be hopeful.. meanwhile please don't add to ur wahala by giving birth again ooo..the two kids are ok for now...pray too

dust yourself up,start with the little around you

yomcity:
Am a young man in my late 30s and ve done anything a man should to better his life outside rituals,but things not working out as planned that atimes I feel like ve been forsaken by Almighty God, although am not worried cause I ve a strong believed that all will b well. reasons why my BP is rising now is my inlaw who passed way around June this year and we all agreed for final burial by October but the funniest things is I lost my job same June and ever since ve been struggling with menial jobs Jst to put food on my tables with wife and two kids, now the days are drawing nearer and I Dnt ve anything to.contribute even my clothes ve not.paid for it and wat could b more shameful than this, sincerely my last options now is suicide cause Yoruba will say Iku ya ju esin lo, all friends are complaning ve played bet to the extent that I lost a 148k yesterday.......I said God what ve I really done wrong, that am going through this serious challenges I need to say it's beyond me and Dnt knw where else to turn to..........Pls matured and intellectual advice only, pen down for now.

Before you take your life, think of your kids and lovely wife who will eventually suffer for your action. Things cant remain the same for ever, this hardship shall pass, and you will have a reason to smile again.

As for your in-law, just do what you can and let anyone who can talk to talk. That is why it good be rascal sometime, I know a guy that if he is in your shoes, he would just tell them he don't have money or simply switch off his phone if they keep threatening him.

TINUBUISMAD:
I hope you are not supporting the lifeless one because if you are supporting him, I know na

Same question I always ask those on suicide mission here

yomcity:
Am a young man in my late 30s and ve done anything a man should to better his life outside rituals,but things not working out as planned that atimes I feel like ve been forsaken by Almighty God, although am not worried cause I ve a strong believed that all will b well. reasons why my BP is rising now is my inlaw who passed way around June this year and we all agreed for final burial by October but the funniest things is I lost my job same June and ever since ve been struggling with menial jobs Jst to put food on my tables with wife and two kids, now the days are drawing nearer and I Dnt ve anything to.contribute even my clothes ve not.paid for it and wat could b more shameful than this, sincerely my last options now is suicide cause Yoruba will say Iku ya ju esin lo, all friends are complaning ve played bet to the extent that I lost a 148k yesterday.......I said God what ve I really done wrong, that am going through this serious challenges I need to say it's beyond me and Dnt knw where else to turn to..........Pls matured and intellectual advice only, pen down for now.

you had 148k and you are here complaining, you went and used it to bet and lost it. if you had won, we wouldnt have seen you here complaining.

yomcity:
Am a young man in my late 30s and ve done anything a man should to better his life outside rituals,but things not working out as planned that atimes I feel like ve been forsaken by Almighty God, although am not worried cause I ve a strong believed that all will b well. reasons why my BP is rising now is my inlaw who passed way around June this year and we all agreed for final burial by October but the funniest things is I lost my job same June and ever since ve been struggling with menial jobs Jst to put food on my tables with wife and two kids, now the days are drawing nearer and I Dnt ve anything to.contribute even my clothes ve not.paid for it and wat could b more shameful than this, sincerely my last options now is suicide cause Yoruba will say Iku ya ju esin lo, all friends are complaning ve played bet to the extent that I lost a 148k yesterday.......I said God what ve I really done wrong, that am going through this serious challenges I need to say it's beyond me and Dnt knw where else to turn to..........Pls matured and intellectual advice only, pen down for now.

If you continue like this, you may go down before burial of your inlaw

You have to be calm

Wether you contribute or not to she must be buried

If you have nothing to pit down, discuss with your wife

If you have a good relationship with your wife, she can look for financial help to dress you guys and you bring few of your direct family especially your parents to attend

What if it's your own biological that is to be buried that means that you will dig ground and enter before her burial

What if you develop BP because of the financial stress you are going through

Who will get drugs for you

Look the worst case, let them laugh at you

When you have enough money you can sponsor her anniversary

Just talk to your inlaw especially that one that will reason with you

You have 148k and you used it to play bet??! You don’t deserve any pity. Even God won’t pity you for your stupidity. I don’t have any iota of advice to give/waste

Foodqueen:
U played bet With 148k

No
He wan chop 148k with 100 naira stake

Starz825:

No
He wan chop 148k with 100 naira stake

ayoncox:

Chat me up on 08089456258 we need to talk ASAP

I wil Jst do that bruv

StPete:
You have 148k and you used it to play bet??! You don’t deserve any pity. Even God won’t pity you for your stupidity. I don’t have any iota of advice to give/waste

Pls try to read,digest before apportioned blame bruv

Wizywiz:
God will see you through...no kill ya self for nothing abeg.....if I narate my own story for you...you go wonder..just be hopeful.. meanwhile please don't add to ur wahala by giving birth again ooo..the two kids are ok for now...pray too

Ve done that long before now, thank you so much