As it stand now..Ur mother has hand in Ur father's death..

What u must do is this...if ur father built that house, pursue that Ur so called mother away from that house.

Do it any how u can do it, if not...if Ur mother marry, d armed rubber of a new husband will convince Ur mother to sell the house....as for now, stand and fight for d honour of Ur late father.
I hate Nonsense

Obamamessi wan kill this forum pkatapkata

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

Walai if you leave, I fit find you come give you proper janetting wey coward like you deserve.
Na she suppose pack go her new husband house naa.

Justbehave:
When a fool thinks he is making sense.So in your own wisdom now his mother is supposed to remarry into his father's house?

choose your words carefully next time you engage me or stay out of my mention.
I never insulted nor do I refer to you in comments

I don't entertain bunch of re.tard toxic folks

Mercury12:
choose your words carefully next time you engage me or stay out of my mention.
I never insulted nor do I refer to you in comments

I don't entertain bunch of re.tard toxic folks

Try get sense Shaa. Even females here are talking sense more than you.

Mad woman.

wow

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othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

Why do you like to twist justice? Where is it done that a man would get married to a widow and pack in to live with the woman in the late husband's house even when the widow has child/children with the late husband. If one wish to marry a widow, marry and let her pack in to your house. Abeg let's fear God ooo.

It might be pre-menopausal syndrome. Such behaviour is atypical to onset of menopause. I had a similar experience.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

Her own husband's house you mean?

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

Focus your future and leave your mother to live her life.

othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

Not only are you daft, you are also stupid and unwise. I'm sure you are one of those untamed feminists.

othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

What sort of nonsense talk is this naa,is it by force to comment?

Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

I like your words of motivation to the Op, but you see that part you said This is a push for a new start I no too agree. If it be a push to strong shege if he is not financially stable to feed himself 3 Square meals a day talk more of paying for rent and other bills. Make he no go jam shege outside.

God forbid bad thing,you sure say na your biological mother OP?sending you out of your own house(it's your own house now after your father's death), to bring another man into the house, God forbid bad thing,let her move into the man she's getting married to own house,this is Africa,na woman de move into her husband's house, not the other way round,I doubt if she's your biological mom though,what T.H did I just read

Women can be so unreasonable and carried away.
Because of a proposed new marriage(husband),a mother becomes hostile to her child and even wants to kick the child out of her house.

It's pathetic.

Preeq that will come and go?

Damn

othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

Are you saying the mother should remarry and move the new man into his father's house?

If the mama remarry, make she follow the new husband to his house na. Why would the boy move out from his father's house because of her marriage?

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

Omo go no where, that house is your inheritance not hers. Just be ready to hustle and fend for yourself. Is she trying to bring the new guy into the house?

It's obvious there's no love between Op and his mother. The way he talks about her is proof that there's no single love he has for her.

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

Don't leave that house but tell her and her husband to get their own.


You are in your father's house. You will win this case in court.

She has no right to chase you from your father's house, you can decide to stay or rent it out. If she wanna remarry let her move to her new husband's house......Nor be your popsy house dem go dey do Romeo and Juliet.



Some people got no shame at all.

OP please never allow any bagga into that hauze. If your mother wants to remarry then it's better for her to move to her new husband's place and not the other way round.

Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?

Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

Why must he Leave His Father's House...and for What,Pls? The Mother Should Pack and go Join her Husband,Pls. That is d Very Right Thing to do. She wants to Scare him away...She had been Playing Ball since secretly...I hope She didn't Involve in Killing his Father with Attitude?

No vex oò,shey d man no get him own house?

OP which tribe are you from? We will like to know which tribe in our dear country commits this abomination. How can a man marry a widow and and want to move into the house of the widow's late husband.
Either your mom is going insane because of lack of dick or the man use charm.
If it's dick buy her a vibrator let's see if she can forget the useless man in question.

What exactly are you saying? He should run and leave his father's house for some man to come and take over and screw his late father's wife in his father's house? It's the woman that should leave and join her new husband. I don't know where Op comes from, so ...

Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

Op I'm available

This boy again. Nairaland will delete this thread like they did the former. Now these idiots are farming comments for money.

Let this lady remary then

Mercury12:

If you knew what to do you won't be wailing on nairaland in the first place.
Baby like you. You really needs to grow up and be a man for once
I'm sure if we are to even listen to your mama side of the story I bet you won't get anyone support
This one that you are already proving stubborn to good advises show your kinda person

You’re truly a baby lol