Firstly, what tribe are u from. I am Igbo from Anambra and our calture is when a woman decides to remarry after her husband's death, her family retures d dowry paid on her head and she returns to her parents house. She can go with her children if they're not of age. If you can get hold of all documents to your father's properties before you unleash VAWULENCE while appling caution

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

Simply put if she is remarrying then she will have to move to the man's house. This is not even an argument

Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

LOL. Crawcraw infested prick indeed.

fineboynl:
Did your father build the house? If yes the house belongs to you and she has no right to send you away. Stop touching her things or money. Stay put there but spend yoir money for feeding and other things don’t use her things.

If she plans to bring a man into that house never allowed it. Destroyed the marriage and give reasons why it shouldn’t hold. Except they plan to rent house. Never allowed that in that house.

Thank you for this.

The perfect advice

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

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Have you found out how your father died?

Solve the puzzle first.

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Traditionally, it is very wrong in Nigeria... She can't possibly bring another man into their matrimonial home? Maybe this ur mom fit be winch o

STAND YOUR GROUND BOY

Greattestman:
Is this the only idea you can come up with? You are still a baby.

How old are you that she’s already chasing you out?

Greattestman:
You are very stupid for this stupid idiotic words of weed. Unhealthy entitlement, if i am not entitled to my father's property who else would I? Will you pay my rent or provide my basic needs?

Don't step out to anywhere... She should pack out instead.

Greattestman:
Which stupid side of the story permits a mother to send her son to go and suffer while she brings in a useless street dick to enjoy the son's father's hard labour? You don't know how irritating it is that is why you are running your mouth like water tap. Wait until it happens to you.

Bro, I don't know you, but never you allow your mother to push you out of that house... You will regret ever leaving there. She can go leave the house and remarry

Mercury12:
choose your words carefully next time you engage me or stay out of my mention.
I never insulted nor do I refer to you in comments

I don't entertain bunch of re.tard toxic folks

How will you advise the young guy to leave his father's house for another man and his mother. For Christ sake the house belongs to him asthe first son and only child. This is tradition.If the mother wants to remarry, then she must leave the house and move over with her new husband.

fetrillion:


She might be hypnotized.Don't fight her,pray for her and play safe.
If you can get a new apartment,leave ASAP.

Give him money to get the new apartment. So he should leave his father's house for a stranger to come mess his mum? Abomination.

Victoronah1:
if you were to see me, you would have been greeting me. He should work and move out. As long as the mother is alive, there is nothing he can do. There is. Nothing like inheritance. Since the people who built the foundations is still alive. Get that In Your skull.

Gibberish.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

She can remarry but not in your father's house. She should go to the man's house. He idiot is definitely a gold digger. Where are from?

Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

forget the age and job nonsense for now. He said his father's house. If indeed his father built the house why would the woman marry a liability to come stay in another man's house? Again why is she the one saving up for the traditional thing? I don't know why women crave so much for dick after they have had every children they wanted. The rate of cheating among women today is disturbing.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

send her away imidiately if it's your father who truly built the house

Devonelle:
How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you afford to rent a small place or even squat with friends and extended family?


Omo, if I were you, I’ll run and leave that toxic mother, she will drain you mentally over time. When she don’t see or hear from you after some months, na she go come beg.

Mark my words, she will not enjoy her new marriage. The man will show her pepper! This one she is saving up money and kicking out her own blood for crawcraw infested prick. It won’t end well.

Op be strong. This is a push for a new start

You are toxic and unhappy... don't spread your hatred but share love and hope

Greattestman:
So i can pack into your house?

I'm available to marry her..


We can give you one room to live.

othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

You mean he should abandoned his fathers house for his mother's lover?

I don't advice that.

Let him stay and frustrate the marriage untill they go out to rent theirs.

I have a very strong feeling that your mother lover is a gold digger if not he should not plan to come live in the Widows House.

Oga call your father's family to come and send her out if the house. It's your inheritance, I am 200% sure the stupid man wanted her so to inherit your property, nor allow am..

If she wants to remarry make she move out not you..

Greattestman:
All these unreasonable advice irritates me like hell. Will I build the house with my mouth? Is it easy? Can you bear that?

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

Take their means of breathing....make it look like an accident.
God won't be angry.

Mercury12:
First of all what is your tribe?
For Bini people in Edo state
First born male usually inherits the parent property.
Yoruba culture. The parents properties are share among the male and female kids.
Igbo culture. The properties goes to the males alone
I don't know much about other tribes aside these 3

All these happen only in the absence of a will.

I will advice you leave for a rented apartment.
Nah person wey dey alive dey inherit property o.
It is a cold world and expect the unexpected from anyone including ones family members. So before someone harm you any way use your head and focus on your life.
Its a life challenge. Accept it.

You sef go build the house wey pass that your father own .

your second line is wrong using the word parents property.... Yes first son inherits the "father's" property.. A mother property is shared by all using the discretion of the family... Also the first son and father property also depends on family.. Some family, senior son owns everything, for others if the property if much and the man was polygamous, the property is shared to each first born of the entire Wives, after the overall senior son might have been given the lions share..

Take the matter to your father's family,everything will settle .


quote author=Greattestman post=118664142]I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!![/quote]

Op, if you leave,just forget the property because ur mother might be sell/will the property to the new husband.you don't know the plan of the man and you need to be one step ahead..if ur mother want to remarry best of luck to her but not in ur father's house..and you mentioned ur uncle,is the uncle ur dad brother ? You need to involve ur dad family now and collect ur property,she is free to remarry but can not hang on to the property or remarry in ur father's house.

Report her to the police and human rights.

Mercury12:

If it happen I will go and hustle and built a mansion that surpass that of my father. My father hustle to have his properties and as a man I will struggle to do same and even surpass him so he can be proud of me wherever he is. . .

Your problem is seeing your mom with another man and you can't stand it. You hate it and it same for many boys. But what can you do?
Stand your ground against your mom and get poison or you mistakenly harm her or your future step daddy? The constant back and forth between yall will be toxic and life threatening so the earlier you move out the better for everyone...
Nobody is taking away your right or claim to the property because no can take that away if that is your fear

U talk as if u r even d step father talking. Take this advice 2 ur children simp.

U expect him 2 leave his father's house 4 another man's?

Don't send ur mother away nor stop her if she want 2 remarry. But serve her notice that should she intend 2 remarry, she should move in with her new hubby but if she dare allow d idiot of a new husband 2 move in with her in ur father's property, she n her new hubby MUST quit.

Don't even allow that man one night in ur father's property except u want 2 die. Ur mum may not come after ur life nor support same but ur stepfather may secretly come after ur life. Just b careful!

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

if you were truly fathered by your real father, don't take nonsense from anybody. Stand your ground.

othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.

Not an entitlement. That house belongs to him not the mother.

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

.I am tempted beyond bounds to mention you.I would do worse than you just said if I should be in your position.In as much as I would not have loved to encourage you to go to war with your mum, it is also evil for me to advise you to quit your father's house for another man because of your irrational Mother. I really would not have loved to say that you don't have a mother,but trust me, that woman is not qualified to be a mother to even a goat. All you need to do is to go no where and fight for your right.But While at this, avoid eating her food and touching anything that belongs to her and as well be very careful with her because that woman can kill you. finally, be prayerful.This type of mothers should never exist in the first place.

Greattestman:
I've noticed the drastic change in my mother's behaviour towards me such as compelling me to rent my own house, shouting at me for any little mistake, not helping me financially and even badmothing me to neighbours.

I took the case to my uncle (her elder brother), he said for not helping me with money, the reason is that my mother is saving money for her upcoming traditional wedding. I was surprised.

When I came back home and asked her, she unleashed anger on me and almost curse me to death. The worst part of it is giving me ultimatum to vacate my own father's house. Who the hell does that? I can't take that!!!

do you even know if it was your mum that killed your dad, your own death in from her hand will be a chicken feed, them they give you Godly advice you dey form DON, his either you kill ur self through ur actions or or ur mama do it her self, that might be her childhood lover.

How can he leave a house his father built for a step dad. At the end, argument go begin come btw step children say na deir PApa house. The woman supposed leave d house to b wit d step dad. It doesn't show respect 4 a woman to bring or marry a man to her late husband's house.

Don't leave. If the mum go poison her son because of man then mak she do am. A woman saving money 4 her marriage. D man wen she wan marry, u go ask ursef if that one na man