I really don’t know how to stop thinking, not even for a second my mind is always faraway please help I’m slipping away....

I’m a woman in my mid 20's, lonely, don’t have a relationship, not financially ok , don’t have any skills even though I just graduated waiting for mobilization and I planned to acquire one while in service.

I never actually thought about life much till I graduated, I gained admission when I was 20years and I actually thought I still have much time to achieve a lot of things in life . It was now I realized how much time I had wasted in not paying much attention to my life even when I know that it never too late.

My financial life has been basically sponsored by me Incase you are wondering how I get funds to live by. Last year, I got a casual job , did a thrift business though not something big but I was able to saveup and was able to live on that even now I still have something I can depend on without asking from anybody by living within my limit.

My relationship life has been ok too, I left my last relationship early last year and that was the last time I got laid. It has not been easy to abstain but with determination here I’m going months without it. I must say I’m lonely, I crave to love and be loved yet I don’t want to get into any relationship now because I don’t want to fall into unsafe hands and having unnecessary sex.

I feel like a failure like I don’t have purpose for my life, I crave for intimacy but even if I get someone who likes me or wants to settle down with me I’m not sure I’m ready for that now because I’m not financially stable yet.

Is there something wrong with me or I’m just over reacting?

ikeno:
But you don't look mid 20 in your pic and beside your moniker says iyatola(abi tola no be your pikin).I came in peace

Lee99:
Go do hook up your mind go rest, you'll get both the money and the d!ck you're lacking

imagrg:
Work on your kpekus before it goes stale.

Freshtruth:
person.wey dey enter 38 this year they call herself mid 20s chai mama
This one na old layer

Freshtruth:
person.wey dey enter 38 this year they call herself mid 20s chai mama
This one na old layer

faceLAGOS:


Can I be your friend?

I can cheer you up from time to time.

It’s a cold world out there.

frozen70:


I think you are fighting yourself

You have to start solving your problems one by one

Start dating, that will prepare you to handle other sensitive issues with you