chccho:

Hmmmn!!! I feel time is passing me by, I should have been married at least 10yrs ago.
Anyways I appreciate your advice and will master this calmness!!!
Thanks

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

Killbillz:
Don't let ur emotions fool u. Stop stressing about it. The world is a cycle. What has happened before u will experience again. So chill and keep building so u will be ready when it comes again.

AbdulMagaji:


It's been over a year now and it always seems fresh each day.

I haven't given up though but there is nothing like love in my dictionary again, especially from any lady.

franchasofficia:
Do not ever make the mistake of marrying for romantic love, love is a fallacy, its a tool used to manipulate weak minds.

If you want to marry without regrets, marry based on the qualities and things that will ensure the growth or expansion of your financial wealth, sustainability of your success and lineage. Marry like the Royal families.

Before you pick any lady to marry, consider her:

personality; is she respectful?

Is she reliable ?

Does she enjoy working and earning?

Does she have a career prospect?

Does she have clear plans to grow on her own with little help from you?


If something happens to you and renders you incapacitated, can she sustain your family success without resorting to begging and turning miserable?


Does she have luck on her side? If she is not lucky, its a risk marrying her cos her ill luck will mar your life unless your destiny is too bright to outshine her ill luck.

Who are her immediate family members ? Are they leeches or people you can run to for help if need be?

Watch her utterances about life and money management.

Is she a money maker or a money spender?

What's her belief? Does it align with yours?

Will her profession, career, business, handwork or craft help you grow or mar/distort your own growth?

Don't marry for sex, sex is overrated, you will bet tired of sex in marriage even if your wife fine pass mami iwota, especially as a man, so forget about romantic vibes or sex vibes.

Love is not enough to marry anybody, it will expire when financial lack sets in.

1Alex:
This I have been saying. Till you want to get married, you will know there are few wives out there.

Op, you are even lucky you are looking for a wife. What of guys who are hopeless about getting married because they have no resources to marry and manage a family.

Yet some Id!ots in their 20's will open their gutter mouth to call their elders chronic bachelors. Make dem no worry e go reach everybody.

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

iLoveYouToo:



If I point you in the right direction now I know you’ll disappoint. Happy Searching

pansophist:
Fun fact. It's easier to make money as a man, than to meet a good woman. Making money is within your control, but meeting a good woman (or man) is based on the society. In Nigeria, you'll meet forkboys and runs girls, in the West, na feminist you go jam.

Good women are minted in societies where the men are strong (some idiots will understand strong as tyranny/oppression, all ye neurotic modafukas). Feminine women are as a result of masculine men. If a society lackss one, it will lack the other.

I'm a Christian myself, but I'll admit that you'll find wifable women more within the Muslim communities, and more importantly, with girls that their survival instinct have not been forcibly sharpened by the harsh realities of life.

Meliziz:
What is the meaning of soul mate. Someone created for you? Or probably created from your ribs? You're a mugu. Nobody is created for you. Hook into one if it work fine it it doesn't fine.

womenareapezz:
you have been searching at the wrong country

Why will you be searching for a wife here in naija?
Don't you know that they are mostly animals out there looking for who to devour
Don't go to the Zoo to look for a wife because you. Will only find baboons and gorillas,

chccho:

Hmmmn!!! I feel time is passing me by, I should have been married at least 10yrs ago.
Anyways I appreciate your advice and will master this calmness!!!
Thanks

blaquebelle:

Who said the two lists can't be found in one person?

@op, never settle for less. There are 7 billion people on this earth, there is definitely someone particularly suited for you. It is better not to marry than to marry the wrong person. Just be patient and build yourself in the mean time. And I don't mean just career wise, build your self emotionally, physically, spiritually and psychologically.

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

GOFRONT:
In whatever you do, when you finally find one, pls make the move to check her genotype and yours too.....

You may find your soulmate and yet genotype becomes a barrier.

chccho:

Hmmmn!!! I feel time is passing me by, I should have been married at least 10yrs ago.
Anyways I appreciate your advice and will master this calmness!!!
Thanks

franchasofficia:
Do not ever make the mistake of marrying for romantic love, love is a fallacy, its a tool used to manipulate weak minds.



If you want to marry without regrets, marry based on the qualities and things that will ensure the growth or expansion of your financial wealth, sustainability of your success and lineage. Marry like the Royal families.



Before you pick any lady to marry, consider her:


personality; is she respectful?

Is she reliable ?


Does she enjoy working and earning?

Does she have a career prospect?

Does she have clear plans to grow on her own with little help from you?


If something happens to you and renders you incapacitated, can she sustain your family success without resorting to begging and turning miserable?


Does she have luck on her side? If she is not lucky, its a risk marrying her cos her ill luck will mar your life unless your destiny is too bright to outshine her ill luck.


Who are her immediate family members ? Are they leeches or people you can run to for help if need be?


Watch her utterances about life and money management.


Is she a money maker or a money spender?


What's her belief? Does it align with yours?

Will her profession, career, business, handwork or craft help you grow or mar/distort your own growth?


Don't marry for sex, sex is overrated, you will bet tired of sex in marriage even if your wife fine pass mami iwota, especially as a man, so forget about romantic vibes or sex vibes.




Love is not enough to marry anybody, it will expire when financial lack sets in.

debbaron2011:
Just relax your time will come. I got married ate 36, today all my children are graduates, ask God to lead you the rite one will come

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

AbdulMagaji:


It's over a year now and it always seems fresh each day.

I haven't given up though but their is nothing like love in my dictionary again especially from any lady.