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How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Cashsteady(m): 11:12am On Feb 27, 2023
Good morning..


We all have this ex we really can’t get over after break up ..forget all this redpill ..There are some guys who still can’t get over their ex and some even still spam their ex ..myself their is still a girl I can’t get over I don’t spam her tho ,no text and calls,but anytime I think of her its usually painful to me that she broke up ..In my mind I will just be like so this girl Dey with another nigga like this😞..


How do y’all get over someone you really liked ?

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Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Powerbando(f): 11:35am On Feb 27, 2023
Cashsteady:
Good morning..


We all have this ex we really can’t get over after break up ..forget all this redpill ..There are some guys who still can’t get over their ex and some even still spam their ex ..myself their is still a girl I can’t get over I don’t spam her tho ,no text and calls,but anytime I think of her its usually painful to me that she broke up ..In my mind I will just be like so this girl Dey with another nigga like this😞..


How do y’all get over someone you really liked ?






Na because say you single
My babe left me, for two years I was single, I was still stalking her, until I realized I did not put my emotion on someone else, right now if I see her now it like seeing a random girl

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Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Bluezy13(m): 11:41am On Feb 27, 2023
"We all have this ex we really can’t get over after break up ..forget all this redpill..."

Point of correction: We do NOT all have any ex we can't get over after breakup.
We do NOT all have Exs in the first place because some of us are still dating that same person.
We do NOT all have Exs in the first place because we do NOT all date and some of us have NOT dated before let alone having an Ex.

I just want to correct that impression.
As for your question, I do not have any answer to that as I haven't dated before.

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Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by obinna58(m): 11:42am On Feb 27, 2023
Can’t get over someone is a very stupid silly statement from an amateur

When you’ve grown responsible enough you’ll understand how silly and stupid it is to say “I can’t get over her”
Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Fahvvy: 11:54am On Feb 27, 2023
OP sir undecided...
Not everyone is like this o...

It's not a red.pill matter, it's just a product of individual differences undecided...

And if you can't still get over an ex after a couple of month post break-up, then it's proof that you seriously need help undecided...

Because I can't understand how a guy can't get over a girl who dumped him, even after a couple of months has passed, likeeee....

Them tie your placenta keep there?!!
Abi did they use jazz on you?!!

Lemme end with this ...
I understand the place of emotions and all, but if you're still in love with someone who doesn't love you, guy then we need to confirm if you have a psychiatrist condition

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Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by kelspinall(m): 12:28pm On Feb 27, 2023
We all have this ex we really can’t get
over after break up.....lame not all


exclude redpill...it has nothing to do with it...

had lots of shits with my exes but I don't feel okay giving those memories a chance to get into ma mind,no.

lastly be responsible,when you are 100% responsible, you won't have a room for nonsense...

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Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Medianna(f): 12:47pm On Feb 27, 2023
You will eventually get over it.
It requires time and other factors.

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Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Tallesty1(m): 1:23pm On Feb 27, 2023
I don't have any ex, she becomes a distant cousin the moment we break up.
Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Dyfynezz12(m): 1:26pm On Feb 27, 2023
Baba it's not easy esp if she is very hot, she will raise ur standards and u will always find ur self comparing her to any new girl u meet.Had one like dat when she broke up with me shit hurt like hell it took me almost a year to get over her,dat period was one of my most difficult time. forget,matters of the heart will always humble u no matter how strong u feel u re.But am gud now sha and I promised myself never to give my heart to any Nigerian girl again.

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Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by ArmedArmada: 2:27pm On Feb 27, 2023
grin grin

Is she the first woman you fell in love with? Those ones are usually the hardest.

If you feel you can't let go, then maybe you should swallow your pride and try to iron out your differences? She may be missing you too but pride is just choking both of you.

Lol. It's going to be worse if you see her being openly intimate with another guy. If you cannot bear it, either solve your issues with her or get out of that physical space.

Put some space between you guys. Also allow time to do its work.

Get involved in work, new projects. Do some workouts, blow off some steam by exercising.

If you know any girl who really likes you, hit her up, go for a hangout or away match (depending on your relationship with said girl).

That can help boost your ego and could also have the added advantage of making your ex jealous. wink

✌️

Good luck.
Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by faceLAGOS: 5:14pm On Feb 27, 2023
Think about her fk & how she fu(ked you up.

Think about how she didn’t even care about you or how you feel.

Think about how the new guy is smashing her.

Think about how she’s your leftover & there is nothing “there” again.

Then,





























Think about your future & how to be a better person.
Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Dreadlock69(m): 6:18pm On Feb 27, 2023
Smoke 💨 loud or colos you loose some love brain cells

Listen to trap , durkio king von , lil baby , flip dinero, gunna , young thug , future,
omah lay , bella shmurda,

Try dey visit brothel, carry hookup life no hard

Have a hobby , swimming , football , music

Dress more on black

Focus on a goal and achievements
Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Medianna(f): 8:54pm On Feb 27, 2023
faceLAGOS:
Think about her fk & how she fu(ked you up.

Think about how she didn’t even care about you or how you feel.

Think about how the new guy is smashing her.

Think about how she’s your leftover & there is nothing “there” again.

Then,
Think about your future & how to be a better person.
See talk like mess. Please grow up
Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Fedrick100: 7:36am On Feb 28, 2023
It’s not easy, same thing I’m kinda experiencing but I’ll get over it regardless.
Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by seasy: 8:01am On Feb 28, 2023
Time heals.
Give it time.
Re: How Do Y’all Deal With Someone You Can’t Get Over by Queendera(f): 8:16am On Feb 28, 2023
Cashsteady:
Good morning..


We all have this ex we really can’t get over after break up ..forget all this redpill ..There are some guys who still can’t get over their ex and some even still spam their ex ..myself their is still a girl I can’t get over I don’t spam her tho ,no text and calls,but anytime I think of her its usually painful to me that she broke up ..In my mind I will just be like so this girl Dey with another nigga like this😞..


How do y’all get over someone you really liked ?



you don't get over someone easily especially after spending time, energy and resources in the relationship.

It took time to build your relationship to a certain level.

In those times, you were taking deep roots into the ground.

You don't just wake up and uproot yourself at once.

Give it time and more time. There are guys you feel like i couldn't get over especially after all the crazy things.

But that's because I had invested a lot in those relationships.

But with time everything go dey alright.

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