Kobojunkie:
How did you arrive at the conclusion that it is not a solution yet?

because that is life.

Lotta shits out here

ruffhandu:
because that is life.

Life according to your interpretation or her reality which you admitted earlier not knowing?

Kobojunkie:
Life according to your interpretation or her reality which you admitted earlier not knowing?

Whichever suits you

Only her sabi wetin she dey go through. She should complain and open up to her husband though. I believe there'll be a solution

ruffhandu:
Whichever suits you

This is obviously not a me-issue since the very same you admitted not having enough details yet that didn't hold you back from jumping to conclusions regarding someone else's life situation. Almost like you are telling us that it does not matter what OP's true situation is.

Kobojunkie:
This is obviously not a me-issue since the very same you admitted not having enough details yet that didn't hold you back from jumping to conclusions regarding someone else's life situation. Almost like you are telling us that it does not matter what OP's true situation is.

That's fine

Ballzproblem2:
go and find a single guy with better gbola 😉 thank me later

You like vawulence

placeofallure:


What if she doesn't have any children to face?

She stated she has children
If she doesn't have any child, she should just work on herself and find peace

Johnkie:


When it comes to the relationship with the children, its her children.

But when it’s about the welfare of the children, it’s his children.

Woman clap for yourself

Oh yes, it's the responsibility of the man to provide for his family, take it or you leave
The woman can only assist if the man is unable to perform his duties.
She can't be doing all her own duties and the man will just sit their doing nothing

Kobojunkie:
How does anyone who really is interested in obtaining peace from living according to these ideas of yours? Reads more like a recipe for accepting struggle as one's lot in life!

Very possible, and it has worked for some. Makes the man to come back to their senses

Pinkyposh:
Very possible, and it has worked for some. Makes the man to come back to their senses

Please let's kindly stop deceiving ourselves this year!

So many people are stuck in that rut, calling it a marriage when it is not even fit to be defined as a real relationship because communication at that point is nearly nil between the parties involved. Stonewalling is never a good conflict resolution tactic.

benjackugo:
A Nigerian lady, Precious Aneke, has taken to Facebook to seek advice on how to stop loving her husband because he makes her cry and overthink, IGBERETV reports.

In a post shared on a Facebook group on Thursday March 2, she wrote;



https://www./2443977612304623/permalink/5973932272642455/?app=fbl

She already knows what to do so far she is not an underage girl

Pinkyposh:


Oh yes, it's the responsibility of the man to provide for his family, take it or you leave
The woman can only assist if the man is unable to perform his duties.
She can't be doing all her own duties and the man will just sit their doing nothing

Listen to me, there’s no situation that warrants calling the children her children or his children as where convenient. At any point in time, the children are their children.

Johnkie:


Listen to me, there’s no situation that warrants calling the children her children or his children as where convenient. At any point in time, the children are their children.

Well I purposely used that pronounce because I've been using her children, so in order to ensure the man is involved, I said his children.
Didn't you see where I mentioned "make sure she provides what her children will eat?
Because I said the man should take care of the children's welfare, it becomes an issue

Kobojunkie:
Please let's kindly stop deceiving ourselves this year!

So many people are stuck in that rut, calling it a marriage when it is not even fit to be defined as a real relationship because communication at that point is nearly nil between the parties involved. Stonewalling is never a good conflict resolution tactic.

So what is your point?

Pinkyposh:
Just act like he doesn't exist.
Don't complain about anything concerning him
Make your children your priority, love them, be there for them
He should be responsible for the warfare of his children
Ensure you and your kids have what to eat
Keep the house clean
Most importantly be independent, make your own money.

By implications, being independent is how most of you women practice misandry? Interesting!

Pinkyposh:
So what is your point?

Marriage no be by force and it is not supposed to be a prison sentence for anyone. If it ain't working, there is nothing wrong with getting out of it so you, as a human being, can experience peace and joy which can be found even outside of marriage.

emmyN:


By implications, being independent is how most of you women practice misandry? Interesting!

When a man has refused to provide, what do you expect? To continue begging the man to provide? no dear, we have passed that stage.
Women now wants to be part the bread winners too, so they can support

Kobojunkie:
Marriage no be by force and it is not supposed to be a prison sentence for anyone. If it ain't working, there is nothing wrong with getting out of it so you, as a human being, can experience peace and joy which can be found even outside of marriage.

Well that's your opinion, like she said she doesn't want to hurt her children. The husband is not beating her, I would have advised her to quit.
But the issue is that of hurting her emotionally not physically

Pinkyposh:
■Well that's your opinion, like she said she doesn't want to hurt her children.
■ The husband is not beating her, I would have advised her to quit. But the issue is that of hurting her emotionally not physically

1. Do raising children in unhealthy marriage situations such as the one you advised not hurt them just as much?

2. She said a lot by indicating that she currently does not have peace of mind. Do you know what it is like to not have peace of mind in a relationship— any relationship?

FAKE STORY or someone using this newly created Facebook profile to express a concern unanimously check the pic attached

Pinkyposh:

When a man has refused to provide, what do you expect? To continue begging the man to provide? no dear, we have passed that stage.
Women now wants to be part the bread winners too, so they can support

Interesting info still. It's best to avoid the "independent" women then, because it's apparent from your comment that their quest for resource control has nothing to do with getting a better life for themselves, but due to a deep seated hatred they've had nurturing against men.

Greedy ho€.

The money don hook am.

I just 8 that gender.

If not for kids, no reasonable man should have anything worthwhile to do with that biologically defect gender.

All this social media family meetings.

ruffhandu:

No, you have not heard all the story. At what point did the attitude start? What if the man used to do otherwise untill she cheated on him?

Oh didn't hear the cheating part, did she say that?

The husband is a fine young man, younger than the woman.
He is a dude who loves what he sees.
Madam has turned herself to a seventy-year-old-looking-wrapper-tying woman.
She even transferred her love for wrappers to her son and dresses him with a wrapper over his shoulder.
No neat hair, no sexy clothes, and you want your husband to love you like he used to? At his age?
Nah! Nah!! Nah!!!
She thinks it's still the time when the husband use to beg for her attention and she'll be making him beg for her love.
After having three children, she is yet to realise that she needs to go the extra mile to get her husband's attention.
Even Grandpa Ned Nwoko goes for fresh things, let alone her handsome young under-35 bearded husband.

Okiton:


I'm not joking

I'm serious here

I've never make jest of any lady here

I know you are joking.

Even if you are 50.Your wife should not be older than 25.
That's the rule in Nigeria

I thought you would give up on this obsession by now

DMCA:

I want to hold you, squeeze you, tease you and show you how a man should treat a woman sexually.

A trial with me in bedmatics will make you surrender.

LastProphet:


Oh didn't hear the cheating part, did she say that?

Just wondering

benjackugo:
A Nigerian lady, Precious Aneke, has taken to Facebook to seek advice on how to stop loving her husband because he makes her cry and overthink, IGBERETV reports.

In a post shared on a Facebook group on Thursday March 2, she wrote;



https://www./244397761230462


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And am here wishing I could be loved. Even if it's half love. Please woman don't stop loving your husband. Use that love to pray for him to change and he will.

royalfly:
And am here wishing I could be loved. Even if it's half love. Please woman don't stop loving your husband. Use that love to pray for him to change and he will.

So, because you wish to be loved, she should endure that which doesn't give her peace of mind?

You should please seek mental health counseling to figure out why you feel any kind of attention that pretends to be love is good enough for you.