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Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by royalfly(m): 7:13am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: As a Christian, am only saying that the love for her husband is good and that she should pray for her husband to change. A prayer said with love is easily answered. As for me I only wish I could be loved by my wife. To be loved by a wife gives a man wings. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Okiton: 7:25am On Mar 05, 2023 |
spiceadole:I'm not joking here I mean what I say If u are a female can we chat on Whatsapp? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Kobojunkie: 7:31am On Mar 05, 2023 |
royalfly:Who will be the one to answer this prayer? Is it the same God that said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God? Or are we talking also of the same God who said He does not answer the prayers of sinners? You folks like to whip up God's mention anyhow without first considering whether it makes sense to mention Him or not in the situation. Unbelievers also love in their marriages , so it is flawed to assume love automagically means God is in a situation. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by damoobaba: 7:50am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I understand this Gen Z generation and the desire to move from one place to another, theres usually no willingness to work things out, but to move around. I wish her well too. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Kobojunkie: 8:04am On Mar 05, 2023 |
damoobaba:Leave Gen Z out of this abeg! Divorce has been around since even the time of your forefathers so let's not pretend this has to do with willingness to work things out. Also, divorce is also a solution in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by placeofallure(f): 8:18am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Pinkyposh: You answered the question already. Some are facing similar challenges and more, especially when the union hasn't produced any child. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by IamAsiri: 8:47am On Mar 05, 2023 |
damoobaba: I am also not the type to believe that the woman is bad. Just like you rightly pointed out, they both have to sit down to make things work. It might even be misunderstanding by both parties that is making them to rub off on each other the wrong way. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by damoobaba: 8:53am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Well, maybe its common among your people. Where I come from, women who get divorced are usually hoes who are known to be public Properties (You know what i mean), and they're VERY FEW. Most times, as their peers ostracize them due to advise from their husbands, it doesn't take long before they leave the town. Widows are respected. Young are given proper upbringing, they're made to understand that their body is for their husbands alone, failure to keep themselves will make them end up like those FEW rejected women that NO MAN wants to ever be with. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by ddeola: 8:53am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Get on your knees and report him to God. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by royalfly(m): 9:38am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Okk. Ur belief ur stand. My beliefs, my stand. Av a lovely day. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Pinkyposh(f): 10:05am On Mar 05, 2023 |
emmyN:Well if that's what you understand by what I stated, all the best to you. A man should provide for his family, if he is not capable of providing, the woman can step in What is so difficult to understand here? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Pinkyposh(f): 10:13am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: If you're advice to her is to leave the marriage, you can advise that way I have given my own opinion, which worked for some hard hearted women, not for everyone |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by FahBuLous: 10:14am On Mar 05, 2023 |
You go advice her finish, she go dey with her husband for bed de laugh. She go be like "see this mumu say mk I leave my husband" Person de use una catch cruise |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by 256laye: 10:21am On Mar 05, 2023 |
No be us go tell you wetin you go do, alakoba😒No be us go tell you wetin you go do, alakoba😒... |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by GoodLord95: 12:12pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Peace of mind kwa Come to my house let me pray for you And hold some parcel of cooooooooooooo |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Caseless: 12:34pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2:she will fall in love again and that's what she's trying to run away from. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by BRATISLAVA: 1:04pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
laskab: Worst advice ever. These elders are people who are largely illiterate in counseling, but are ready to use religion and their interpretation of it to shake and oppress people who put their trust in them. |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by forexprophet(m): 1:26pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
benjackugo: |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by forexprophet(m): 1:28pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
benjackugo: POISON HIM OR KILL YOURSELF |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by DMCA: 2:41pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Wordsfrombimpe: Can we meet? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Kobojunkie: 5:52pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
damoobaba:1. I am very much well aware of how your forefathers, and fathers as well, conveniently demonized and even ostracized their women who went against their will while they themselves tool the pleasure of abandoning their own women whenever they liked without consequence. It was all about them and them alone. 2. Their body is for their husbands? Are the husbands raised with the same rigid rules? Ofcourse not! Anywho, what you see happening today are failures that have resulted from the rigid one-sided approach to managing society that your forefathers and fathers before you had in place for at least the last 60 - 80 years. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Kobojunkie: 5:55pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Pinkyposh:1. I don't need to advise her to leave as she knows what she needs to do. 2. Your advice does nor work for anyone though because in order to say something has worked, one needs to be able to prove it benefited all parties involved in some way. But when only the one side or no side benefits then it can't be considered a true solution, can it? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Pinkyposh(f): 7:11pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:That's your own opinion It must not benefit both parties for it to work, at least it kept the woman at peace with themselves |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Kobojunkie: 7:48pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Pinkyposh:If it doesn't benefit both parties then it ceases to be a marriage --- an agreement between a man and a woman --- right? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 10:10pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by DMCA: 12:32am On Mar 06, 2023 |
Wordsfrombimpe:Offline... What flavor do you prefer? Vanilla, chocolate, strawberry, lavender etc....? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 4:24am On Mar 06, 2023 |
You don craze DMCA: |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by DMCA: 11:05am On Mar 06, 2023 |
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Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by kelspinall(m): 12:23pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
ask ya family members? |
Re: Nigerian Lady Seeks Advice On How To Stop Loving Her Husband by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 3:50pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
You dey inside dream dey dream this You better wake up DMCA: |
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