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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Goddyrichie(m): 7:40pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
saphiere:oh so when she met a fine guy or a guy with sugar words and fall in love she will now put d guy name on d properties then d guy find a way to stop d relationship or run away with d properties then d properties become he's God knows I will never do that instead of that I put my serious younger brother or elder brother name on it |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Ashley86400: 7:40pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
greenermodels: Even if she didn’t want to drop money. So long as she cheats and didn’t sign a prenuptial agreement, her wealth will be split into two. Adele did it. Brittany Spears still pays 20k dollars every month to her ex husband for child support (her kids live with him) for over 10 years now. When billionaire women’s wealth is shared, no one shouts but when men’s wealth is shared una go dey shout gold digger even if the women is visibly comfortable and is just subject to the law. After all she born for the guy and now has to spend the rest of her life raising his kids. He is entitled to give his ex-wife at least to a life of comfort to raise his kids na. Or is he not? 2 Likes |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by ncblaze: 7:42pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
cococandy: Are you unfortunate? You are a clear case. Move on! 2 Likes |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by jidxin(m): 8:01pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
saphiere: Lol... Lol again... Usually in Nigeria next of kin inherits liabilities but a beneficiary inherits lots of advantageous things.. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Emdebby2: 8:02pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
The wife |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by damoobaba: 8:12pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Hakimi's mum |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Pimine: 8:12pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
saphiere:Why not her husband? Double standards will not kee you 🙄 |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Pimine: 8:15pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Righteousness2:Dear pastor, don't say what God didn't say. Thank you. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by gbagyiza: 8:43pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
saphiere: Make una stop this. She is his better half n she will find it OK to divorce the man when they have issues or little misunderstanding. Where is the place of forgiveness in the marriage. Is the money that's her problem or genuine love for her family. That woman was supposed to stand by her husband in his difficult time not to run quickly for divorce n even claiming 50% of the guy's wealth to enable her marry another man n continue her enjoyment. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by emmyniftyyem: 8:46pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
It is amazing that people forget that wives eventually become mothers. That 'senseless, undeserving' wife today becomes the 'she-can-do-everything-for-me' mother of your children/someone else tomorrow. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Righteousness2: Only for virgins sir Not for people that have joined themselves to over 50 yahoo boys and have inherited the demon of greed and covetousness from them then finally coming to join me. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by shantti(m): 8:56pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Puss360: But the op thinks otherwise She wants wives to be their husbands ext of kin but want first daughters to the wives next of kin. So see the biasness |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by yusufmurry: 9:04pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
@OP, I am sure you know next of kins does not mean who inherits a man's wealth or property. Na who to call in case of emergency and in related circumstances |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by chaloskyx: 9:25pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
A mans wife based on good behaviour, trust and faithful ness to stick with a man for better or for worse in sickness and in health till death do us apart if she cant do that she has no business being next of kin cause i dont understand how your wife decides to leave you over an accusation yet to be found guilty of na wife be dat or opportunist? |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by habsydiamond(m): 9:25pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Tutu82:do you think all the bad characters can be revealed doing courtship.. some bad behaviours stay hidden until after marriage oo |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by stevups(m): 9:33pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
nabiz: You were not wrong |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by greenermodels: 10:15pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Ashley86400:20k a month is mere alimony or child support, Hakimi's wife would still get it except she loses custody of the children to him. Nothing justifies splitting anybody's life savings over divorce, cheating or not.let everybody keep what he or she made in their lifetime. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by jubrilELsudan: 11:14pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Nobody: 1:39am On Apr 16, 2023 |
greatiyk4u: Please don't generalize, we have lot of wives too that have that sincere and pure love for their husband even more than the man's mum...let men too be good husband and let's see if we won't appreciate and love them sincerely, of course I'm not saying we don't have bad wives too...but for me I will always wish my hubby what I wish for my self, because I have a good one.. 1 Like |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by davidodufote: 2:51am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Ogeni, your next of kin should be your kids. Nothing more nothing less. You can virtually take care of both women very well, but as per properties, Bobo na ur kids o |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by OLULAW: 4:45am On Apr 16, 2023 |
If you're asking this question, you're a boy and not yet a man. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Praktikals1000: 6:24am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Righteousness2:That is if you marry a virtuous woman. If not, you will know why the bible says wisdom is profitable to direct |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Trustworthiness: 6:26am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Righteousness2: How is the quoted verse of the bible in support of the wife? |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Teymanhenry(f): 6:54am On Apr 16, 2023 |
saphiere:Because the daughter will probably get married and another man's son would be taking care of her. So she'll have the time to take care if her parents. It's a simple logic |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Teymanhenry(f): 6:55am On Apr 16, 2023 |
It's simple, some people are smart enough to understand the strength and weaknesses of their partners. There are partners you can't trust with your wealth. It is what it is |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by DevilSignature: 8:16am On Apr 16, 2023 |
My brother at the moment And then later my daughter |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by bepositive11: 9:12am On Apr 16, 2023 |
saphiere: Lol. So a man's next of kin should be his wife but a woman's next of kin should be her first daughter? Isn't that hypocrisy? If a man's wife should be his next of kin, the woman's husband should be her next of kin too. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Ashley86400: 9:28am On Apr 16, 2023 |
greenermodels: Men wrote the law. Question them not me. Wealth is split after divorce because when you married you became one. All what you own are merged together. When you divorce, all what you own are split. That’s the law. Hakimi doesn’t know he just condemned himself for whoever he’s going to be with next. No woman will want to have kids or settle down with a man who’s life savings is still in is his mother’s hand. This is not about teaching your wife a lesson, she’s already rich. This just shows he can’t control his life and affairs. That is not a man. That’s a baby. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by bepositive11: 9:33am On Apr 16, 2023 |
That is not true. Most people do not do proper due diligence. A lot of men use money to win over women. What else should they expect? Of course, if you use money to win over a woman, you will be attracting a gold digger. The same goes for women who use their bodies to win over men. It's superficial. Most people are so busy trying to prove themselves that they forget to allow the other person to prove themselves. Those flashes you're talking about are the signs people should look out for. habsydiamond: |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by greenermodels: 9:48am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Ashley86400:a million and one women would throw themselves at Hakimi, you need to realise that this guy is a Moroccan, a Muslim, most Moroccan women don't expect to take over half of a man's worth in a divorce nor do they expect to have the man exclusively to themselves. They see his Spanish wife as the devil not him. When Mikel Obi got his Russian billionaire's boss daughter pregnant, his relatives in Nigeria went to the press and made it clear that they wouldn't accept her as a wife after what her mother did to her father through divorce, the girl is still with Mikel today without getting married to him and they're happy together. You should also know that even in the USA, some states laws says that in the event of a divorce, everybody keeps what they made for themselves and only shares properties if any they bought/owned together. This 50/50 sharing is applicable only in some states and men often demand that their prospective spouses wave that right away in a prenuptial agreement, millions of women have signed that agreement. If you love a man and have no ill plans for him,why shouldn't you? |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Hardey33: 9:52am On Apr 16, 2023 |
The irreplaceable ones Either mum or Children |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by sweetman2022: 9:59am On Apr 16, 2023 |
Normally if we are to go by the institution of marriage, it is sensible that your spouse should be your next of kin. This days, you should rather go with the most trusted person in your life. |
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