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What Will You Advice Her To Do. by Jozilinn: 5:37pm On Apr 25, 2023
She got married to the love of her life,he told her he had a younger sister who was 17 years old.before getting married she went to visit him and met the girl at the house, the girl refused to greet and hissed at her, when her fiancee came back she told him what had happened but it was the girl's mother that sympathize to her... now 6 months after that they got married traditionally and did church wedding it was grand and so expensive.

3 months later, the sister said she wanted to come over to the brother's place to write her exams, she arrived at the house, knocked and when the brother's wife opened the door she walked in and left her luggages outside.
Without even recognizing the brother's wife, the brother asked where her luggages were and she said they were outside. He ordered her to go and get them,few days in the house she started ordering her brother's wife to make semovita for her, which she didn't asking her to make it herself since she doesn't want to eat eba... So on this particular day she brought her friend home and they were so loud the brother's wife asked them to leave, these girl left with her friends, when the husband came back he didn't want to hear any thing from her and left as well. She was so shocked as to what's going on, now the girl came back and when they were alone at home she went to the brother's room and poured hot water on the wife.

The burns were very serious, her brothers had to intervene she left the husband's house to the father's... now an unknown number texted her saying " Well deserved oniranu oshii, idiot you want to come and put sand sand in the garri right, good for you for trying to destroy the relationship of a father and his daughter,I am the mother of the girl rubbish".
Now she was so shocked as to all of these drama and is wondering on what to do to her husband and his extended family for making her go through all these.

What do you advice her to do,heard this from the radio.
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:03pm On Apr 25, 2023
jejely walk away from this evil family, divorce the deceitful bastard of a husband.... and never look back.

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Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by LuvSwollenPussy(m): 6:26pm On Apr 25, 2023
You have to leave. You should be happy you're not pregnant yet but before you leave, you should challenge and ask him to be sure before you take a concrete decision. If you just depend on your feminine instinct of just hearing on the surface without making clear findings, you will just pack out for life on a flimsy mistake.

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Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by GboyegaD(m): 6:34pm On Apr 25, 2023
She should first talk to the husband to understand what is going on. She needs know the truth as not every text message should be relied on. Once she establishes the truth, she can decide on what to do.

As for the girl, she could take it up and ensure she goes to a juvenile home for correction since she is below 18. If she lets it slide, the girl would do worst to others and then, it would be too late to help the girl.

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Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by Kemadealadire(f): 7:17pm On Apr 25, 2023
Can you imagine That marriage started on the faulty foundation of lies and deceit, it won't stand.
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by StreetFight: 7:20pm On Apr 25, 2023
If the wife is my sister, there would be several people at the intensive care unit of the university teaching hospital because I will go with my Niggas and destroy people, family, generation, and destinies

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Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by Jozilinn: 7:38pm On Apr 25, 2023
Kemadealadire:
Can you imagine That marriage started on the faulty foundation of lies and deceit, it won't stand.
Abi and to think the man's family were all in it.
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by Jozilinn: 7:38pm On Apr 25, 2023
StreetFight:
If the wife is my sister, there would be several people at the intensive care unit of the university teaching hospital because I will go with my Niggas and destroy people, family, generation, and destinies
Na man you be ❤️❤️
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by StreetFight: 7:40pm On Apr 25, 2023
Kemadealadire:
Can you imagine That marriage started on the faulty foundation of lies and deceit, it won't stand.

The fact that the guy has a child before marriage is not much of a problem, but for the bastard child who colluded with her Olosho mother to cause havoc, I will destroy many destinies. Then, members of the far extended family whom were not known to me and so would have escaped my genocide will meet me in Court
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by StreetFight: 7:58pm On Apr 25, 2023
GboyegaD:
She should first talk to the husband to understand what is going on. She needs know the truth as not every text message should be relied on. Once she establishes the truth, she can decide on what to do.

As for the girl, she could take it up and ensure she goes to a juvenile home for correction since she is below 18. If she lets it slide, the girl would do worst to others and then, it would be too late to help the girl.

After my genocide on the family of the husband and the family of the Olosho baby Mama, then we will talk. There is no discussion until I cause unimaginable damage to the two families l.

Do not pay evil with good, you will be encouraging the evil doers to do more evil

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Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by poshestmina(f): 9:12pm On Apr 25, 2023
StreetFight:
If the wife is my sister, there would be several people at the intensive care unit of the university teaching hospital because I will go with my Niggas and destroy people, family, generation, and destinies


😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by Kobojunkie: 9:20pm On Apr 25, 2023
Jozilinn:
■ The burns were very serious, her brothers had to intervene she left the husband's house to the father's... now an unknown number texted her saying " Well deserved oniranu oshii, idiot you want to come and put sand sand in the garri right, good for you for trying to destroy the relationship of a father and his daughter,I am the mother of the girl rubbish". Now she was so shocked as to all of these drama and is wondering on what to do to her husband and his extended family for making her go through all these. What do you advice her to do,heard this from the radio.
1. What other advice is there? If na your sister you go send her back after dem don use hot water burn her finish? undecided

All further communications between them until the end will be restricted to phone, text and email , and maybe FedEx. undecided
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by Divoc19(f): 9:31pm On Apr 25, 2023
Babe, Move. Before you get pregnant. Don't bring a child to this mess
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by GboyegaD(m): 9:51pm On Apr 25, 2023
StreetFight:


After my genocide on the family of the husband and the family of the Olosho baby Mama, then we will talk. There is no discussion until I cause unimaginable damage to the two families l.

Do not pay evil with good, you will be encouraging the evil doers to do more evil

I no sabi this one ooo. I no get power for "an eye for an eye", abeg.
Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by Foodqueen(f): 10:10pm On Apr 25, 2023
The said sister was actually his daughter.

Waoh!!!! Just waoh!!!!!!!

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Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by JeffreyJunior: 2:06am On Apr 26, 2023
This is not right at all.

Why would a man lie about such a sensitive issue? Why deny and hide a child from a woman you intend to spend the rest of your life? If only stupidity were a human.

I'm still of the opinion that she does thorough investigation on her own and most importantly have a talk with the hubby before throwing in the towel.

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Re: What Will You Advice Her To Do. by Jozilinn: 6:30am On Apr 26, 2023
GboyegaD:


I no sabi this one ooo. I no get power for "an eye for an eye", abeg.
😂😂😂😂

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