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Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Drjones109(m): 9:00pm On Apr 30, 2023
"After our wedding a sister started calling my husband. She will even pray for us on the phone and advise him like a good sister.

Some weeks later my husband asked me to follow him to a friend's office, that the friend wants to give us our wedding present because she missed our wedding. I followed him to her office, we spent hours and she was just running Helter skelter, opening and closing her drawers till we finished the soft drinks she offered us and left without any wedding present as she promised.

One evening my husband asked me to follow him to some where, that a friend invited him over. So we drove to town. To my greatest surprise it was the same sister in the Lord, in her dimly light room with the blues playing and her anointed body hug. That day she didn't even offer us any drink and no meaningful conversation. She was just fiddling with her phone all through then we left. She reduced the rate at which she calls because each time she calls my husband will make sure he gives me the phone to greet her even though he did not explain anything to me, I already caught the joke and was so proud of him.

Finally, we were sleeping one night around 11pm. This sister called, that she was stranded on the road with 5 other sisters that the anointing program dismissed so late and they could not get transport back to town that my husband should please help them. I heard her clearly in the loud silence of the night. My husband got up, sat for sometime before tapping me. He begged me that I should please accompany him. Honestly it was a very big disturbance to my sleep but I just had to get up.

As we got close to the junction she mentioned, I was busy looking out for a group of ladies only to see one person standing there like a ghost. She was even carrying her very big sized Bible. Immediately my husband stopped, she rushed to hop into the front seat where I was perfectly glued. My dear husband then directed her to move to the back seat. As we dropped her at her gate, she was so furious to the extent she couldn't say thank you and bluntly refused to respond to the goodnight I managed to greet her. I watched my husband as he silently smiled till we got home. Since then she has not called again" from her story she thought us that

1. It is not easy for these our husbands especially the ones that are good looking and can feed themselves.

2. it doesn't matter how sanctimonious the sister might pretend to be, the devil can use anyone.

3. Don't overgeneralize that all men just love cheating, some of these ladies never give up easily.

4. When you don't pray for your spouse, expect anything in your marriage.

5. Be there for your spouse always, you don't need much arguments and accusations all the time, just your companionship is enough in most cases.

Some of us might conclude that she was just lucky to have such a dedicated and God fearing husband, but believe me, you too are lucky. So always pray for your spouse and be there for him or her.

Single lady, marry a God fearing man. A man who fears God will never cheat on you.

May our husbands never fall into the traps of strange women in Jesus name

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Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by money121(m): 9:01pm On Apr 30, 2023
Noted
Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Nobody: 9:06pm On Apr 30, 2023
God fearing men with money scarce ehn, as soon as a man has money he begins to misbehave.
Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 30, 2023
Facts only @OP

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Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by almarthins(m): 9:07pm On Apr 30, 2023
Drjones109:

"After our wedding a sister started calling my husband. She will even pray for us on the phone and advise him like a good sister.

Some weeks later my husband asked me to follow him to a friend's office, that the friend wants to give us our wedding present because she missed our wedding. I followed him to her office, we spent hours and she was just running Helter skelter, opening and closing her drawers till we finished the soft drinks she offered us and left without any wedding present as she promised.

One evening my husband asked me to follow him to some where, that a friend invited him over. So we drove to town. To my greatest surprise it was the same sister in the Lord, in her dimly light room with the blues playing and her anointed body hug. That day she didn't even offer us any drink and no meaningful conversation. She was just fiddling with her phone all through then we left. She reduced the rate at which she calls because each time she calls my husband will make sure he gives me the phone to greet her even though he did not explain anything to me, I already caught the joke and was so proud of him.

Finally, we were sleeping one night around 11pm. This sister called, that she was stranded on the road with 5 other sisters that the anointing program dismissed so late and they could not get transport back to town that my husband should please help them. I heard her clearly in the loud silence of the night. My husband got up, sat for sometime before tapping me. He begged me that I should please accompany him. Honestly it was a very big disturbance to my sleep but I just had to get up.

As we got close to the junction she mentioned, I was busy looking out for a group of ladies only to see one person standing there like a ghost. She was even carrying her very big sized Bible. Immediately my husband stopped, she rushed to hop into the front seat where I was perfectly glued. My dear husband then directed her to move to the back seat. As we dropped her at her gate, she was so furious to the extent she couldn't say thank you and bluntly refused to respond to the goodnight I managed to greet her. I watched my husband as he silently smiled till we got home. Since then she has not called again" from her story she thought us that

1. It is not easy for these our husbands especially the ones that are good looking and can feed themselves.

2. it doesn't matter how sanctimonious the sister might pretend to be, the devil can use anyone.

3. Don't overgeneralize that all men just love cheating, some of these ladies never give up easily.

4. When you don't pray for your spouse, expect anything in your marriage.

5. Be there for your spouse always, you don't need much arguments and accusations all the time, just your companionship is enough in most cases.

Some of us might conclude that she was just lucky to have such a dedicated and God fearing husband, but believe me, you too are lucky. So always pray for your spouse and be there for him or her.

Single lady, marry a God fearing man. A man who fears God will never cheat on you.

May our husbands never fall into the traps of strange women in Jesus name

Front page worthy. But this people no like the truth, then just wan label all men the same.

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Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by garriAndsugar: 9:24pm On Apr 30, 2023
The man just wan gain her trust.. and maybe him no like that girl self
Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by internationalman(m): 9:51pm On Apr 30, 2023
Same as divorce..

The internet space would make you think there's more divorce cases than successful marriages..

But I look around my family and my vicinity, the number of successful marriages far outweigh the number of divorce cases...

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Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Nobody: 6:55am On May 01, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
God fearing men with money scarce ehn, as soon as a man has money he begins to misbehave.
We no much sha
Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Nobody: 7:34am On May 01, 2023
Killbillz:

We no much sha
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the omo'noba himself have spoken, I hail you sir
Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Dogalmighty17: 7:47am On May 01, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
God fearing men with money scarce ehn, as soon as a man has money he begins to misbehave.

Few men mistreat their wives who were there for them when things were not rosy. For a man to become successful and start mistreating his wife or cheating on her, that woman must have disrespected him or maltreated him when he had nothing.

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Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Nobody: 7:50am On May 01, 2023
Dogalmighty17:


Few men mistreat their wives who were there for them when things were not rosy. For a man to become successful and start mistreating his wife or cheating on her, that woman must have disrespected him or maltreated him when he had nothing.
This is untrue, I've seen women who were there for their poor husband's, even aided them and made sure they become financially ok only for the men to pay them back with betrayals, torture and eventually divorce, then bring in a new woman as wife. Yul Edochie is one example of such men
Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Nobody: 7:57am On May 01, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the omo'noba himself have spoken, I hail you sir
Lol... why the hailing. I'm just saying the truth 😏

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Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Nobody: 8:00am On May 01, 2023
Dogalmighty17:


Few men mistreat their wives who were there for them when things were not rosy. For a man to become successful and start mistreating his wife or cheating on her, that woman must have disrespected him or maltreated him when he had nothing .
Exactly.
Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Kiddogarcia(m): 11:46am On May 01, 2023
Yes,good men exist,look at me now.


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Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Rokiat(f): 12:06pm On May 01, 2023
Yes Good men do exist but don’t go online praising them too much, give word of affirmation to them and show appreciation to them but don’t talk about it with your friends because trust me females can be very jealous for no reasons they make it their life mission to make your husband cheat just to prove a point.

Afterall your man is still a man with a dick, and blood running through his veins so he’s not above temptation. Even Joseph a prophet almost fell to a woman’s temptation.

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Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Karlifate: 1:57pm On May 01, 2023
Some of the reasons why supposedly good men cheat includes, but not limited to:


1:
Lotsa women cannot just keep shut. They parrot everything happening in their homes to whoever cares to listen, the jealous 'friends' & envious acquitances will now begin to target their unaware husbands, that didn't know his matter has reached several high tables.

2:
Sometimes, they're caught up in situations that represent the devil & the deep blue sea. Since this situations has a short time frame, they'd rather choose the one that seem of a lesser evil to them.

3:
Don't deceive yourself, you can't be guarded all the time: 24/7. A sumptuous daughter of eve might just decide to shoot her arrow when your guards are down.

4:
The religious ones are easily manipulated cos Religion is one of the most potent manipulative tool in the hands of women (The story above is a good example).
Re: Not All Men Cheat On Their Wives(from A Nairalander) by Nobody: 2:08pm On May 01, 2023
Some men don't cheat and they are not religious either. I was hoping to read praises of these men and words of encouragement, possible measures for men still struggling but hell no what did I read? emphasized blame game, luck and prayer.🤧

So women who were cheated on don't pray enough, or were unlucky? Excuse me, are we ever going to acknowledge and promote men's deliberate effort to stay faithful here?

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