| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by schoolboymatt(m): 4:48pm On May 22, 2023 |
maybe he discovered some of her dirty skeletons. 6 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Jat33: 4:48pm On May 22, 2023 |
Abeg make Una free the man...marriage is not by force...He knows what he saw 6 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Roozzaay(m): 4:48pm On May 22, 2023 |
If him talk say he no dey do again, him no dey do be dat nah 6 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by frozen70(f): 4:49pm On May 22, 2023 |
Anfield247:
Recently, let me say two to three weeks ago, my mom came back from church, discussing about an upcoming traditional marriage and wedding ceremony of the daughter of one of her church members with my dad. They were busy, I mean my mom and dad were busy talking about how the groom is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious
I didn't even pick interest because I got better things to think about.
The bride-to-be is a graduate from akwa ibom, while the groom-to-be, on the other hand, is a pastor of one popular church in Nigeria, I won't mention the name of the church because not all their pastors are the same.
When they started the relationship, the pastor was rushing everything, he was like he can't wait to marry this pretty damsel.
According to the story, the parents of the both families have met each other, and some part of the traditional marriage has been done.
Everything was going according to plans, they even brought out a pre-wedding photo, which I myself saw on her Facebook. Here is how the marriage took a new twist,
Now, three days to the traditional marriage, the groom-to-be came out and said he's not getting married to the Bride anymore, that is no longer interested in the marriage.
When they asking why, he said it was because of the bride price list they gave to him.
Now, his church said there's no problem about that, that they will sponsor everything, the pastor still vehemently insisted that he is no longer interested in the marriage...
The parents of the girl said the marriage list is always open for negotiation, that it is not compulsory to pay everything at once, or even everything no the list to be paid,The young man still said no.
Now the marriage has been called off and the girl is heart-broken.
My Mom follow the mother of the bride-to-be to do the shopping.
They even invited so many people to the marriage ceremony but it unfortunately ended in the most unbelievable way...
What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?
There must be something wrong some where The woman may not be aware but the man was already done Dont be surprise the man was still having double mind till he did the marriage introduction and was still contemplating if to go on or not 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by WhereMyLoud: 4:51pm On May 22, 2023 |
Beebah321:
Fear men. Na wa ooo  If the man didn't see a reason to back out even at the alter its fine but he did and no one knows the reason. Maybe the girl cheated on him and he found out and just want to lay the situation easy by blaming the marriage list just to save her face from shame. Truth be told some girls before marriage will want to Bleep.com their previous boyfriend and know it is done but maybe he caught a wind of it and has decided he wouldn't go on with the marriage plans. Ita only normal for a man to live and trust his girlfriend talk less of a wife to be.. If they pry him further he might disclose the real reason why and i would think maybe it's cause of infidelity. A marriage that thw church knows about it will be wrong for him to say he disppsed her cus of infidelity. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by safarilove(m): 4:52pm On May 22, 2023 |
Go and ask the man na.. |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by AKWATGOLD1(m): 4:52pm On May 22, 2023 |
Maybe when the reached the treasure island, the groom is not pleased with the swimming pool.Anfield247:
Recently, let me say two to three weeks ago, my mom came back from church, discussing about an upcoming traditional marriage and wedding ceremony of the daughter of one of her church members with my dad. They were busy, I mean my mom and dad were busy talking about how the groom is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious
I didn't even pick interest because I got better things to think about.
The bride-to-be is a graduate from akwa ibom, while the groom-to-be, on the other hand, is a pastor of one popular church in Nigeria, I won't mention the name of the church because not all their pastors are the same.
When they started the relationship, the pastor was rushing everything, he was like he can't wait to marry this pretty damsel.
According to the story, the parents of the both families have met each other, and some part of the traditional marriage has been done.
Everything was going according to plans, they even brought out a pre-wedding photo, which I myself saw on her Facebook. Here is how the marriage took a new twist,
Now, three days to the traditional marriage, the groom-to-be came out and said he's not getting married to the Bride anymore, that is no longer interested in the marriage.
When they asking why, he said it was because of the bride price list they gave to him.
Now, his church said there's no problem about that, that they will sponsor everything, the pastor still vehemently insisted that he is no longer interested in the marriage...
The parents of the girl said the marriage list is always open for negotiation, that it is not compulsory to pay everything at once, or even everything no the list to be paid,The young man still said no.
Now the marriage has been called off and the girl is heart-broken.
My Mom follow the mother of the bride-to-be to do the shopping.
They even invited so many people to the marriage ceremony but it unfortunately ended in the most unbelievable way...
What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?
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| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by hardon1(m): 4:54pm On May 22, 2023 |
Perhaps may have gotten some discomforting info about the bride which she didn't disclose to him earlier. The marriage list is just an excuse.
Na info like this dey cause sudden breakup of. Marriage plans. That's why it's good for intending couples to disclosed necessary info about themselves to their spouse 4 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by uptownemmygee(m): 4:55pm On May 22, 2023 |
He dodge a bullet just to avoid future bombshell 1 Like |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by OluwaEbuka1: 4:56pm On May 22, 2023 |
Anfield247:
Recently, let me say two to three weeks ago, my mom came back from church, discussing about an upcoming traditional marriage and wedding ceremony of the daughter of one of her church members with my dad. They were busy, I mean my mom and dad were busy talking about how the groom is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious
I didn't even pick interest because I got better things to think about.
The bride-to-be is a graduate from akwa ibom, while the groom-to-be, on the other hand, is a pastor of one popular church in Nigeria, I won't mention the name of the church because not all their pastors are the same.
When they started the relationship, the pastor was rushing everything, he was like he can't wait to marry this pretty damsel.
According to the story, the parents of the both families have met each other, and some part of the traditional marriage has been done.
Everything was going according to plans, they even brought out a pre-wedding photo, which I myself saw on her Facebook. Here is how the marriage took a new twist,
Now, three days to the traditional marriage, the groom-to-be came out and said he's not getting married to the Bride anymore, that is no longer interested in the marriage.
When they asking why, he said it was because of the bride price list they gave to him.
Now, his church said there's no problem about that, that they will sponsor everything, the pastor still vehemently insisted that he is no longer interested in the marriage...
The parents of the girl said the marriage list is always open for negotiation, that it is not compulsory to pay everything at once, or even everything no the list to be paid,The young man still said no.
Now the marriage has been called off and the girl is heart-broken.
My Mom follow the mother of the bride-to-be to do the shopping.
They even invited so many people to the marriage ceremony but it unfortunately ended in the most unbelievable way...
What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?
Why should bride price list be subject to "negotiation"? Are they selling a goat or a cow that you will need to price? What is wrong in giving your in-law to be a reasonable list? Why are SOUTH-SOUTH and SOUTH EAST people like this? Don't come and attack me, I am from the SOUTH EAST too. I think State Governments need to step in and put a cap on the price list that bride family can hand over to a groom to be. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by OneMillionBTC: 4:59pm On May 22, 2023 |
Maybe they modified the list and it looked like a rip off to him. Like they wanted to "oppress" him with the list and collect excess......... And No one likes to be oppressed |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by CsRockefeller(m): 5:00pm On May 22, 2023 |
tuzle:
He must have seen something he didn't like. There is this girl I am dating now, when we started chatting she told me she was a virgin with her own mouth o and she has only had one bf before, I didnt ask her about the virgin part and it wasn't like I was looking for a virgin. Then after a month she changed mouth that she had sex with her former bf, and it was only with him she has ever had sex with(she made a statement then that it isn't possible for a bf and gf not to have sex together, so I questioned her about, after like 3 month again without asking she told me again that she lied then, that she had another bf she didn't tell me about and they so had sex multiple times, that it is guilty conscience that made her talk. Imagine I wanted to marry her and she keeps lying to me every time and this is someone who keeps telling me she isn't ready for sex even when I have never asked her about it. Why are you still in the relationship? |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by babyfaceafrica: 5:03pm On May 22, 2023 |
This story isn't complete, too many holes.. |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by emperor4love(m): 5:03pm On May 22, 2023 |
Maybe de list, not all men love to be sponsored in marriage stuff make de church no use am do mouth tomorrow, possibly not cheating, person way go marry u go marry even if after hearing ur past or com across u cheating sef 1 Like |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by izubext007: 5:04pm On May 22, 2023 |
people who graduated from akwa ibom are some thing else |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by socialmediaman: 5:07pm On May 22, 2023 |
Anfield247:
What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?
It could likely be that negotiations broke down and he changed his mind. Perhaps he didn't think it was worth it anymore. Perhaps he didn't want to deal with "difficult" in-laws. Perhaps he felt disrespected by in-laws during the negotiations, e.g. if his in-laws made a disrespectful remark like "your mates are dashing their in-laws money and you're here pricing brideprice". Perhaps the brideprice was just an excuse, he may have already lost his attraction but used the brideprice as escape ticket Many things could've prompted his decision, only he and the girl's family can tell us 1 Like |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by mastermaestro(m): 5:08pm On May 22, 2023 |
Dude is smart. He had seen a mysterious red flag at critical point. But he couldn't explain to anyone because nobody would understand. So he began praying for an opportunity to abort the 'deadly' mission. Boom! Bogus family list comes to the rescue. Dude grabs it by the balls and refuses to let go. Spiritually smart folks will understand my point. Nor blame am, him know wetin him see o.  9 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by EmptyGarden(m): 5:11pm On May 22, 2023 |
tuzle:
He must have seen something he didn't like. There is this girl I am dating now, when we started chatting she told me she was a virgin with her own mouth o and she has only had one bf before, I didnt ask her about the virgin part and it wasn't like I was looking for a virgin. Then after a month she changed mouth that she had sex with her former bf, and it was only with him she has ever had sex with(she made a statement then that it isn't possible for a bf and gf not to have sex together, so I questioned her about, after like 3 month again without asking she told me again that she lied then, that she had another bf she didn't tell me about and they so had sex multiple times, that it is guilty conscience that made her talk. Imagine I wanted to marry her and she keeps lying to me every time and this is someone who keeps telling me she isn't ready for sex even when I have never asked her about it. That’s an apprentice prostitute. 3 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by iHateFraudsters: 5:11pm On May 22, 2023 |
Akwa ibom marriage list no be here o 2 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 5:11pm On May 22, 2023 |
hardon1:
Perhaps may have gotten some discomforting info about the bride which she didn't disclose to him earlier. The marriage list is just an excuse.
Na info like this dey cause sudden breakup of. Marriage plans. That's why it's good for intending couples to disclosed necessary info about themselves to their spouse Ladies wey don sleep with half of Nigeria no go gree take that advise cause they know wetin go sup.. 3 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Successlane: 5:12pm On May 22, 2023 |
Anfield247:
Recently, let me say two to three weeks ago, my mom came back from church, discussing about an upcoming traditional marriage and wedding ceremony of the daughter of one of her church members with my dad. They were busy, I mean my mom and dad were busy talking about how the groom is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious
I didn't even pick interest because I got better things to think about.
The bride-to-be is a graduate from akwa ibom, while the groom-to-be, on the other hand, is a pastor of one popular church in Nigeria, I won't mention the name of the church because not all their pastors are the same.
When they started the relationship, the pastor was rushing everything, he was like he can't wait to marry this pretty damsel.
According to the story, the parents of the both families have met each other, and some part of the traditional marriage has been done.
Everything was going according to plans, they even brought out a pre-wedding photo, which I myself saw on her Facebook. Here is how the marriage took a new twist,
Now, three days to the traditional marriage, the groom-to-be came out and said he's not getting married to the Bride anymore, that is no longer interested in the marriage.
When they asking why, he said it was because of the bride price list they gave to him.
Now, his church said there's no problem about that, that they will sponsor everything, the pastor still vehemently insisted that he is no longer interested in the marriage...
The parents of the girl said the marriage list is always open for negotiation, that it is not compulsory to pay everything at once, or even everything no the list to be paid,The young man still said no.
Now the marriage has been called off and the girl is heart-broken.
My Mom follow the mother of the bride-to-be to do the shopping.
They even invited so many people to the marriage ceremony but it unfortunately ended in the most unbelievable way...
What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?
VERY, VERY, VERY, LIKELY
Both families should look inwards and intensify prayers.You never can tell where and how manipulations can come.
My opinion, please. |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by superCleanworks(m): 5:13pm On May 22, 2023 |
Anfield247:
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
i have seen this more than 3 times. one of them was a terrible payback. But in this case, i think the guy has observed something terrible beyond the list. The girl knows the truth. 2 Likes |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Deeprooted: 5:18pm On May 22, 2023 |
You heard all these even though you didn't pick interest in story when your parents were discussing it? Make I no just talk sha |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Kharol1234: 5:20pm On May 22, 2023 |
[quote author=Rayban25 post=123299402]
The man know wetin him see...he discovered [/b]something fishy[/b]something fishy hmm FISHY. |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by tuzle(m): 5:21pm On May 22, 2023 |
CsRockefeller:
Why are you still in the relationship? we don't see like that, we only still chat but I know it can't lead any where |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by alyarmouk(m): 5:25pm On May 22, 2023 |
The guy man did it just to chop the hard to get girl. Na old format wey don cast na |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Kcfresh2103(m): 5:26pm On May 22, 2023 |
So the church she attends God does not answer prayers there? She must visit the lord's chosen before her prayers can be answered? You see how you guys creat division and disunity amongst christians. Bros be sincere to yourself, is this the mission of Christ on earth....for us to be disunited? Righteousness2:
That is not ordinary! That his not ordinary!
If you don't contend the principalities and powers in your domain, they will war against you.
She needs to contend with powers and forces against her marriage in the place of prayer . Yokes need to be broken.
Advice her to visit the Lord's Chosen
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| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Emeka71(m): 5:29pm On May 22, 2023 |
Patented:
Wahala. Rush russh for what?! Whe probably dodged a bullet. There is more to this than the length of the list.make pastor talk true abeg So right. |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by Bluntemperor: 5:29pm On May 22, 2023 |
mechanics:
Maybe the bride to be didn't tell him her past life and he was able to find out. You may be right! 1 Like |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by rainlover(m): 5:30pm On May 22, 2023 |
tuzle:
He must have seen something he didn't like. There is this girl I am dating now, when we started chatting she told me she was a virgin with her own mouth o and she has only had one bf before, I didnt ask her about the virgin part and it wasn't like I was looking for a virgin. Then after a month she changed mouth that she had sex with her former bf, and it was only with him she has ever had sex with(she made a statement then that it isn't possible for a bf and gf not to have sex together, so I questioned her about, after like 3 month again without asking she told me again that she lied then, that she had another bf she didn't tell me about and they so had sex multiple times, that it is guilty conscience that made her talk. Imagine I wanted to marry her and she keeps lying to me every time and this is someone who keeps telling me she isn't ready for sex even when I have never asked her about it. she's still a teenager, Isn't she? |
| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by AstrologyGuru: 5:34pm On May 22, 2023 |
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| Re: Man Rejects His Wife-to-be Three Days Traditional Marriage by FlipModeSquade(m): 5:36pm On May 22, 2023 |
northbird:
Post the list and you would see reasons why the young man backed out, though,that was too insensitive of him.
But my question is, why do some parts in Nigeria make traditional weddings full of unnecessary items ? I thought items are supposed to be symbolic, why all the financial burden especially if the "couple to be" are just starting life.
It's not nice.
Did you read where it was stated that his Church were ready to foot most of the bills? Moreover,did he just wake up to behold the marriage list? Was he not aware of the list before now? Why suddenly did he think that a hindrance? For a marriage he was quick to get over the line? The man met someone better or his Konji is finally cured,and he has lost interest.. Simple 🎯 |
