rainlover:
she's still a teenager, Isn't she?

not really, she is 22

I can categorically and confidently tell you that the list wasn't the bone of contention.

You will be surprise to find out that someone slipped damaging information about the lady to the man. Keep your friends close and your enemies even closer

Bro de try escape future billing

All those stupid traditions that ought to have been jettisoned but they keep to them cos of their poverty mindset. If na me be the guy too, I go cancel the rubbish.

Pastor must know what we don't know.
Though very sad for the lady heart broken, however it's better for the two, broken relationship is better than broken marriage.

Shes taking you for a ride

tuzle:
He must have seen something he didn't like. There is this girl I am dating now, when we started chatting she told me she was a virgin with her own mouth o and she has only had one bf before, I didnt ask her about the virgin part and it wasn't like I was looking for a virgin. Then after a month she changed mouth that she had sex with her former bf, and it was only with him she has ever had sex with(she made a statement then that it isn't possible for a bf and gf not to have sex together, so I questioned her about, after like 3 month again without asking she told me again that she lied then, that she had another bf she didn't tell me about and they so had sex multiple times, that it is guilty conscience that made her talk. Imagine I wanted to marry her and she keeps lying to me every time and this is someone who keeps telling me she isn't ready for sex even when I have never asked her about it.

The average Nigerian, male and female, is always at great variance with the truth.
That's the causative factor of the state of play in this discussion.

The man had a symbolic assessment of the list and projected into the future on the kind of family he was about to get married to...he prayed over it and a revelation came his way in a dream state ..The rest is history.

Beebah321:
Fear men. Na wa ooo

Fear women ooo, hmmm

nedekid:
He has use her to play handicap.

Nedekid bosss man

All these cook up stories.

tuzle:
He must have seen something he didn't like. There is this girl I am dating now, when we started chatting she told me she was a virgin with her own mouth o and she has only had one bf before, I didnt ask her about the virgin part and it wasn't like I was looking for a virgin. Then after a month she changed mouth that she had sex with her former bf, and it was only with him she has ever had sex with(she made a statement then that it isn't possible for a bf and gf not to have sex together, so I questioned her about, after like 3 month again without asking she told me again that she lied then, that she had another bf she didn't tell me about and they so had sex multiple times, that it is guilty conscience that made her talk. Imagine I wanted to marry her and she keeps lying to me every time and this is someone who keeps telling me she isn't ready for sex even when I have never asked her about it.

arguably most of them lie about how they lost their virginity and their body count...

post=123299587:
Most Of The Women Have Nothing To Offer

Most of them make a mistake of marrying one of them and it was nothing but marrying a Jezebel. The man is a wise man wish I knew this before.

Vintage100:
All these cook up stories.

Is it in 2023 that backing out of marriage ceremonies at last minute unexpectedly started that you're saying its cooked up?

Nawa oo

There are somethings I would see in a woman and I go forget the money spent thus far.i no go even reason am

And you called the man a Pastor? new generation "pastor"

How will I know the cause of this problem
You should ask those two folks that were doing amebo. They should know

Anfield247:
Recently, let me say two to three weeks ago, my mom came back from church, discussing about an upcoming traditional marriage and wedding ceremony of the daughter of one of her church members with my dad. They were busy, I mean my mom and dad were busy talking about how the groom is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious

I didn't even pick interest because I got better things to think about.
The bride-to-be is a graduate from akwa ibom, while the groom-to-be, on the other hand, is a pastor of one popular church in Nigeria, I won't mention the name of the church because not all their pastors are the same.

When they started the relationship, the pastor was rushing everything, he was like he can't wait to marry this pretty damsel.

According to the story, the parents of the both families have met each other, and some part of the traditional marriage has been done.
Everything was going according to plans, they even brought out a pre-wedding photo, which I myself saw on her Facebook. Here is how the marriage took a new twist,

Now, three days to the traditional marriage, the groom-to-be came out and said he's not getting married to the Bride anymore, that is no longer interested in the marriage.

When they asking why, he said it was because of the bride price list they gave to him.

Now, his church said there's no problem about that, that they will sponsor everything, the pastor still vehemently insisted that he is no longer interested in the marriage...

The parents of the girl said the marriage list is always open for negotiation, that it is not compulsory to pay everything at once, or even everything no the list to be paid,The young man still said no.

Now the marriage has been called off and the girl is heart-broken.

My Mom follow the mother of the bride-to-be to do the shopping.
They even invited so many people to the marriage ceremony but it unfortunately ended in the most unbelievable way...

What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?

Maybe the pastor don get cold feet or deep warning

There are many divorced men today wishing they had the kind of chance this Pastor have

See marriage is very very complicated especially the times we are in now

Anyone that develops a cold feet should abort immediately

One guy was lamenting to me some months ago that towards the eve of his wedding,he developed cold feet. But he pushed it aside and still got married to the lady.


Today he is in complete regret and children are now involved. The guy was just lamenting.


See any guy that develops cold feet towards his wedding should run. Even if everything has been set.

Don't because of what people will say enter into lifetime regrets


Like Pastor William F Kumuyi was teaching that even if you arrive at the altar on the wedding day and get warning signs, of the best thing you will do for yourself is flee. Don't marry


So make una free the pastor, he is doing the right thing. If people want talk make they talk.

It's better now than later regrets

Anfield247:
Recently, let me say two to three weeks ago, my mom came back from church, discussing about an upcoming traditional marriage and wedding ceremony of the daughter of one of her church members with my dad. They were busy, I mean my mom and dad were busy talking about how the groom is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious

I didn't even pick interest because I got better things to think about.
The bride-to-be is a graduate from akwa ibom, while the groom-to-be, on the other hand, is a pastor of one popular church in Nigeria, I won't mention the name of the church because not all their pastors are the same.

When they started the relationship, the pastor was rushing everything, he was like he can't wait to marry this pretty damsel.

According to the story, the parents of the both families have met each other, and some part of the traditional marriage has been done.
Everything was going according to plans, they even brought out a pre-wedding photo, which I myself saw on her Facebook. Here is how the marriage took a new twist,

Now, three days to the traditional marriage, the groom-to-be came out and said he's not getting married to the Bride anymore, that is no longer interested in the marriage.

When they asking why, he said it was because of the bride price list they gave to him.

Now, his church said there's no problem about that, that they will sponsor everything, the pastor still vehemently insisted that he is no longer interested in the marriage...

The parents of the girl said the marriage list is always open for negotiation, that it is not compulsory to pay everything at once, or even everything no the list to be paid,The young man still said no.

Now the marriage has been called off and the girl is heart-broken.

My Mom follow the mother of the bride-to-be to do the shopping.
They even invited so many people to the marriage ceremony but it unfortunately ended in the most unbelievable way...

What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?

broken engagement is better than
Broken marriage

Beebah321:
Fear men. Na wa ooo

Which beebah is this? Are you in abuja ?

Where are those that predicted husbands will be scarce in ,2023..... Husbands still dey available

Righteousness2:
That is not ordinary! That his not ordinary!

If you don't contend the principalities and powers in your domain, they will war against you.
She needs to contend with powers and forces against her marriage in the place of prayer . Yokes need to be broken.

Advice her to visit the Lord's Chosen

Story

Ntori olorun


Pastor Kumuyi said even on wedding day, if you have cold feet run for your life.

You don't know what the pastor have seen

Better late than never

Anfield247:

What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?

Only the groom can answer this.

Righteousness2:
That is not ordinary! That his not ordinary!

If you don't contend the principalities and powers in your domain, they will war against you.
She needs to contend with powers and forces against her marriage in the place of prayer . Yokes need to be broken.

Advice her to visit the Lord's Chosen

How do you know she is a victim in this case?

Your fingers are always itching you to type rubbish

The lady dodged a bullet

The man was told some past unverified stories about the bride.

If ear nor hear,mind nor dey spoil.

mechanics:
Maybe the bride to be didn't tell him her past life and he was able to find out.

Must it be about the woman? That is a method used by some men if they just want to bed a particular lady at all cost. That is why the bible standard of morality will always be the best, girls will never hear.

A former friend of mine did exactly same thing to a lady, the same church pastor stuff.

Today he his paying his debt because the second lady he tried it with tied him down and he is currently fighting for divorce. We have all abonded him and his problematic wife.

isabi2lof:
The lady dodged a bullet

Serious bullet. May God pursue bad people bfrom his children.

iamL:


Serious bullet. May God pursue bad people bfrom his children.

Amen 🙏

"They were busy discussing how He is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious" That is all most women live for. They prepare for the wedding day more than life after it.

The man got third eye.

Anfield247:
Recently, let me say two to three weeks ago, my mom came back from church, discussing about an upcoming traditional marriage and wedding ceremony of the daughter of one of her church members with my dad. They were busy, I mean my mom and dad were busy talking about how the groom is a wealthy man and how the marriage will be glorious

I didn't even pick interest because I got better things to think about.
The bride-to-be is a graduate from akwa ibom, while the groom-to-be, on the other hand, is a pastor of one popular church in Nigeria, I won't mention the name of the church because not all their pastors are the same.

When they started the relationship, the pastor was rushing everything, he was like he can't wait to marry this pretty damsel.

According to the story, the parents of the both families have met each other, and some part of the traditional marriage has been done.
Everything was going according to plans, they even brought out a pre-wedding photo, which I myself saw on her Facebook. Here is how the marriage took a new twist,

Now, three days to the traditional marriage, the groom-to-be came out and said he's not getting married to the Bride anymore, that is no longer interested in the marriage.

When they asking why, he said it was because of the bride price list they gave to him.

Now, his church said there's no problem about that, that they will sponsor everything, the pastor still vehemently insisted that he is no longer interested in the marriage...

The parents of the girl said the marriage list is always open for negotiation, that it is not compulsory to pay everything at once, or even everything no the list to be paid,The young man still said no.

Now the marriage has been called off and the girl is heart-broken.

My Mom follow the mother of the bride-to-be to do the shopping.
They even invited so many people to the marriage ceremony but it unfortunately ended in the most unbelievable way...

What could possibly be the reason behind his decision?
Can a man go as far as performing some traditional marriage rite just to sleep with a girl?
Could it be because of the list?
Or can infantuation drive a man to do the unthinkable?
Could it be spiritual manipulation or just the matter of choice?

We had a similar, infact exactly the same scenario played out in my family. But God proved them enemies wrong.

When your enemies have said over their dead bodies, it only takes the intervention from heaven for you to progress.