It all depends on your church. You can go to court to get your marriage certificate after doing the necessaries between your family and your wife to be family. Then invite a pastor to come pray with you and yours. Life no too hard. Na us dey make am hard for ourselves

LikeAking:


Each church get dia own certificate.

It all useless not approve by govt
You can’t use church wedding certificate for anything legally especially if you want to travel out as a couple.

Just go to your nearest catholic church, morning mass wedding no dey pass 20k or at most 50k . even normal wedding no dey cost for catholic

The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

no the cheapest is street marriage

If you can afford it, go ahead, after all its just once in a lifetime.

I spent about 1M to pay bride price in Umuahia. Though she already had two sons for me as a baby mama, that was why I closed my eyes and paid

HomeTutorsPro:

Congratulation.
The bolded will save you plenty of cost.
Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Thanks

westlius:

Thanks.
I will let the pst know via my mother inlaw with a token.
I was happy my bride even says d money is much
She was just pinching me when he was coating d money

That how one of my friend got angry after paying every the offering money and some other money the church task some people to give the couple , the church took the money and still ask the guy to give transport money to other men of God they invited.
My guy provoked wanted to fight the pastor he even bought fuel for the program that day.

Reason why I will do church wedding na scam.

if i can comment, Most one man churches do this as bragging rights,IN My church MFM all you need to do is Go through 6 months rigourous Marriage councellorship program,Meet the pastor after the 6 months and give them date and the food is at your discretion

AndroidAI:
You went to Yahoo Yahoo headquarter and you expect not to get billed? There is no difference between Yahoo boys and pastors. They are the same, but in different formats. They are there to manipulate you in any way possible until something falls out of your pocket.

I remember years ago my granny called some pastors for some family deliverance. Can you imagine that before they started, they had to be served food in a cooler, and they positioned themselves and gulped down everything like hungry lions.

When deliverance started, they nearly broke my neck because I refused to fall.

Hahahaha because your demon stubborn.

Dem never tell u about choir, dem get one cooler of food with a crate of soft drink

victorVIC1:
It all depends on your church. You can go to court to get your marriage certificate after doing the necessaries between your family and your wife to be family. Then invite a pastor to come pray with you and yours. Life no too hard. Na us dey make am hard for ourselves

Thanks for advice.
Thats with another pastor

I hope your wife is a virgin

Will these exploitations ever stop?

Jefferyhi86:
Dem never tell u about choir, dem get one cooler of food with a crate of soft drink

Thats one thing I fear,
Only enquiry na wine and 5k envelope

This was how a pastor in benin told this couple they will pay 20000 and buy 5 cartons of floor tiles or they won't be join together in holy matrimony,this bride has being a long time member of this church. Na d bride come carry the groom go one small upcoming church go marry

LikeAking:


Each church get dia own certificate.

Keep quiet there you know go school at all when Church give you Certificate for marriage it means they went to the marriage registry to obtain the Certificate for you and that is what they will present to you on the day of marriage another mugu go use the Church Certificate marriage to apply for Visa if they know flog you from that embassy office mugu

westlius:
This weekend I had to go see my wife to be church that I would love to get married in there church, I went with a bottle of Drink (my mother inlaw told me to go with it). When I met the pastor omo the requirements pass bride price
1) He said we must get him a wine and an envelope. (Wine 2k cash 5k)

2) We would go see his head pastor with a Wine and envelope (Wine 2k, Cash 10k, transportation 5k)

3)I will pay for the marriage certificate he has forgotten the cost (My estimate 10k).

4) I will pay transportation for someone to go to Benin Edo state to get the certificate and register. (Estimate 30k from Porthacourt)

5) 5 men of God will come with there wives i will cook for them, I will give his wife money to cook ( I heard its 50k)

6) I will inform the church people i want to marry i will bring a cartoon of malt and 2 carbin biscuits (6k estimate)

7)I will give the pastors transportation and thanks for coming
(Head pastor 20k/second in command 2 persons 10k each (20k)/ the last 2 Persons 5k each thats (10k) total 50k for thanks for coming.
Pls who knows the procedure for church weddings.
Thanks.

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Do court wedding and go your way.
Times are hard, you can't meet all requirements.

Don't wreck yourself in meeting all requirements for a marriage that will take unimaginable toll on you.

I'd dem no gree, move.

This is extortion

AndroidAI:
You went to Yahoo Yahoo headquarter and you expect not to get billed? There is no difference between Yahoo boys and pastors. They are the same, but in different formats. They are there to manipulate you in any way possible until something falls out of your pocket.

I remember years ago my granny called some pastors for some family deliverance. Can you imagine that before they started, they had to be served food in a cooler, and they positioned themselves and gulped down everything like hungry lions.

When deliverance started, they nearly broke my neck because I refused to fall.

Sorry
I know that feeling
Say u won fall there hand

westlius:
This weekend I had to go see my wife to be church that I would love to get married in there church, I went with a bottle of Drink (my mother inlaw told me to go with it). When I met the pastor omo the requirements pass bride price
1) He said we must get him a wine and an envelope. (Wine 2k cash 5k)

2) We would go see his head pastor with a Wine and envelope (Wine 2k, Cash 10k, transportation 5k)

3)I will pay for the marriage certificate he has forgotten the cost (My estimate 10k).

4) I will pay transportation for someone to go to Benin Edo state to get the certificate and register. (Estimate 30k from Porthacourt)

5) 5 men of God will come with there wives i will cook for them, I will give his wife money to cook ( I heard its 50k)

6) I will inform the church people i want to marry i will bring a cartoon of malt and 2 carbin biscuits (6k estimate)

7)I will give the pastors transportation and thanks for coming
(Head pastor 20k/second in command 2 persons 10k each (20k)/ the last 2 Persons 5k each thats (10k) total 50k for thanks for coming.
Pls who knows the procedure for church weddings.
Thanks.

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na thief church.

cassyrooy:
Do court wedding and go your way.

Times are hard, you can't meet all requirements.

Tru talk

westlius:
This weekend I had to go see my wife to be church that I would love to get married in there church, I went with a bottle of Drink (my mother inlaw told me to go with it). When I met the pastor omo the requirements pass bride price
1) He said we must get him a wine and an envelope. (Wine 2k cash 5k)

2) We would go see his head pastor with a Wine and envelope (Wine 2k, Cash 10k, transportation 5k)

3)I will pay for the marriage certificate he has forgotten the cost (My estimate 10k).

4) I will pay transportation for someone to go to Benin Edo state to get the certificate and register. (Estimate 30k from Porthacourt)

5) 5 men of God will come with there wives i will cook for them, I will give his wife money to cook ( I heard its 50k)

6) I will inform the church people i want to marry i will bring a cartoon of malt and 2 carbin biscuits (6k estimate)

7)I will give the pastors transportation and thanks for coming
(Head pastor 20k/second in command 2 persons 10k each (20k)/ the last 2 Persons 5k each thats (10k) total 50k for thanks for coming.
Pls who knows the procedure for church weddings.
Thanks.

File Photo Used for illustration

When I did my wedding in 2015 in my wife's church, the pastor only asked for 10k (for himself) and a create of malt, wine and food to served to assisting ministers (no specification). It was an orthodox church in my wife's village sha as I did my wedding and TM same day in my wife's village.

The pastor actually made things easy for us. There was no marriage training classes which is common in most churches. Just a few minutes of advice.

Jefferyhi86:
This was how a pastor in benin told this couple they will pay 20000 and buy 5 cartons of floor tiles or they won't be join together in holy matrimony,this bride has being a long time member of this church. Na d bride come carry the groom go one small upcoming church go marry

Thats my plan

LikeAking:


Each church get dia own certificate.

na lie o! No church get certificate. They all collect from the LGA

safarifarms:


When I did my wedding in 2015 in my wife's church, the pastor only asked for 10k (for himself) and a create of malt, wine and food to served to assisting ministers (no specification). It was an orthodox church in my wife's village sha as I did my wedding and TM same day in my wife's village.

The pastor actually made things easy for us. There was no marriage training classes which is common in most churches. Just a few minutes of advice.

Thanks for ur advice. Its a pentecostal church

izonborn098:
Everything u write there is just to marry one woman or the pastor is also giving u one of his daughters.
Christianity smh''

Oga, this has nothing to do with Christianity and everything to do with church doctrines that have no scriptural backing

See as pastor dey use op head dey play table tennis

westlius:

Thanks for the advice bro

please do not compare a church certificate with govt approved certificate...The church certificate is not accepted anywhere in the world,it is just a decorative piece of paper.Go to a registry,it's less that 30k,you can even do court wedding,meaning they will rent you a space at the registry to do a party......Imagine what God of MEN are telling young men,then they will complain that young men are not getting married

That’s delusional. You know how much your bride’s oyinbo gown cost to rent or buy alone?

This is too much fa, what of if they are the one they give birth to the bride, how much would they have collect?

Person wey never chop belle full wan marry. Only 150k for small marriage you dey complain. I no even understand how you wan take care of woman and kids if you dey fear to spend money like this untop say na you wan marry no be say anybody dey force you.