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Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by 004gist: 8:09pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
jmoore:Court don't register marriage rather its local government registry and federal marriage registry via ministry of interior. hence there is nothing like court marriage. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by yusufmurry: 8:09pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Natbrowny: No Nigerian girl will clear that or spend a dime except she is the one that needs the weeding(may be age around 40) When getting married to a Nigeria girl, know and prepare that 98% of the cost is on you. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by frozen70(f): 8:09pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
westlius: As if all these will guarantee a happy home and blissfull marriage Anyway if you can stand the requirements go on If you can't stand it, wed her in your church If that doesn't work, follow your heart and advise yourself 1 Like |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by sageb: 8:10pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
westlius: seriously? |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by InvertedHammer: 8:13pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
westlius:/ Look at the unnecessary pressure you are putting on yourself to impress those who couldn't care less about your existence. I wonder what you will use to support your new family after wasting all the money on jamborees in this harsh economic conditions. Go to the lady's family and perform all the marriage rites. Go to the Registry and get married. On Sunday, go to your church for prayers and blessings. / 1 Like |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by ultimateprof: 8:14pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
To marry for church is not by force. My brother use your akonuche! |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by jubrilELsudan: 8:16pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
FORGET ABOUT CHURCH WEDDING AND GO DO A COURT WEDDING THEN LATER IF IT BOTHERS YOU BOTH THEN YOU CAN DO BLESSING OF MARRIAGE THAT NONESENSE CHURCH CERTIFICATE IS JUST A WORTHLESS PIECE OF PAPER THAT YOU CAN'T USE TO DO ANYTHING MEANINGFUL OUTSIDE THE SHORES OF NIGERIA IF YOU THINK AM TALKING NONESENSE....USE THAT NONESENSE CHURCH CERTIFICATE TO GO APPLY FOR VISA AT AN EMBASSY 1 Like
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Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by pek(m): 8:17pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
LikeAking:Not completely true. It is mushroom churches. Churches get the certificate from ministry of Interior and that's the certificate that is recognized world wide. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by maximizer61(m): 8:18pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
westlius:whereas 150k is very cheap for somep people. They can spend it without looking back. True true life no balance |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by Fibonacci88: 8:21pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
westlius:My own Dem tell me to buy diesel, prophet offering, church decorations, cook for choir and plenty stuffs. When I calculated all everything was about 200k I never even put wedding gown and my suit. I just tell my wife say make we use our head o. We just quietly run traditional and court. This month will mark our one yr anniversary. God has blessed us tremendously with a bouncing baby boy. I got promoted, got a better role within my organization, my wife also got a better job in her medical field. Church wedding is good but if the burden is too much do traditional that's what the bible recognizes. No go let person run u street into marriage o. 3 Likes |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by westlius(m): 8:25pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Fibonacci88:Thanks The court and traditional, was it the same day?. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by westlius(m): 8:26pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
maximizer61:Very tru my brother |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by President2001(m): 8:27pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Well I can say you exagirate a little, let me enlighten you 1, we have different kinds of church wedding [a] Pastor's wedding - this only involved 2 Pastor's and 1 choir [b] we have workers wedding this involved 1 Pastor and workers it may not be all workers [c] we have elaborate wedding where full house must present There no single Pastor that will compulsory the type of wedding you are going to do, your approach and presentation to the pastor in day 1 is matter most |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by Fibonacci88: 8:30pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
westlius:I did court a month later after our honeymoon. The money I would have use in church wedding we use am enjoy our honeymoon even left with change. Though I still went back to my wife's pastor, gave the prophet offering and a bottle of wine. He was a spiritual father to my wife hence had to honor him |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by Lama70(m): 8:31pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
My friend, let me give you my piece of advice before you engage yourself in any unnecessary drama. First, the country is not smiling. Therefore don't allow anyone to extort you in the guise of wedding or church things. Second, it is obvious you are productively engaged. Is your wife also engaged in any work or business? Thirdly, do you have a cash reserve to fall back on after wedding? The problem of most weddings is the frustration of no cash a few weeks after the event. Half of the world's problems today is the idea of spending the money we haven't earned to show off to people we think don't like us. I used to have a supervisor at my place of work who sold his entire business to fund a wedding, and later joined us to offload goods as a labourer again. That was in the late 1990s. The funny thing is that he was so engrossed in his self-inflicted foolhardiness that he told those who cared to listen that he killed two cows during his so-called wedding. The guy was left heartbroken to die a miserable death when the said wife left him to follow a rich man to America after three kids. Them even born twins self. Lol. He was saddled with the responsibility of training three children alone with no viable means. I agree that all marriages cannot be the same. But I will advice you seek a very cheap means to this wedding and leave the social media drama to those who can afford it. Keep your money for feeding and pampers and baby food. The rate at which new babies eat these days is alarming. Sometimes you want to think that your wife is even drinking the SMA gold self. I didn't mind my in-laws when I was marrying. I talked to her and she understood. No wedding. We just settled dowry and promised them wedding at a later date. Next thing na naming we invite them next. Lol. Our children are already in the University and nobody is asking for their parent's marriage certificate. A word is enough for the wise. 12 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by SyrusdeHansome(m): 8:32pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
soundOsonic: See this one. What of ur yoruba mega churches that are fun of using the fear of hell fire to force members into paying tithes? Or do u think we don't knw all these things? |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by pek(m): 8:34pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
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Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
MiztaDynameek: Are you on drugs or do you think they pluck money from trees in this hardened economy? |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by dododawa1: 8:39pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
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Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by olakan22: 8:44pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
KunleAkingbadeh:Churches are authorized by law to conduct marriages on behalf of the state. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by Zinosky10: 8:45pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Better go for plan B bro. The demand is too much. The most important thing is the traditional marriage where you see her parents and pay for her bride price. All these white wedding is a borrowed tradition from the white man |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by bigiyaro(m): 8:47pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Bros, na business center you go, no be church, na orators and motivational speakers bill you so. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by edorhe14(m): 8:47pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
soundOsonic:very true. Most of these churches are just leeches. Bro Iβd advise you to go for court wedding then go for blessing of marriage afterwards. I wedded in a church and wetin them use my eye see my mouth no fit talk. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by Horllamideh(m): 8:48pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
I spent around 30k including the test we did at the Baptist Hospital. The Rev taught me in Junior Secondary School and that's more reason why we are able to bring everything down. We also bought food flasks for all officiating Ministers that are on the order of programme for the day. Everything sha total down to around 60k. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by MadamExcellency: 8:53pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
He just said Church and everyone started giving out unsolicited opinion without asking the name of the Church. For your information, the Church can be Synagogue of Satan, Church of Satan, or one Mermaid Spirit Church. When you don't have necessary information to critic, stop and ask questions to ascertain the veracity of the message. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by wizelink(m): 8:53pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Oga run for your life. Milking machine has been prepared waiting for you. If that's your wife to be church then go to your own church or same church but in another location. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by nick50(m): 8:55pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
We left church ,not God !!! 1 Like |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by MichaelSokoto(m): 9:00pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Idan wedder! wine & 5k envelope say wetin happen? em na task collector? Baba carry ya wife enter registery go sign paper & enter house. |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by donbenie(m): 9:01pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Scam! All na SCAM.π₯± Religion is a SCAM.π― |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by Natbrowny: 9:02pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
yusufmurry: Omo. Babes don even switch wahala ontop men. Gosh |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by MichaelSokoto(m): 9:04pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
westlius:na biiiiiig tif dat pastor be! na me talk am I no fear anybody Michaelsokoto is my name! |
Re: I Thought Church Marriage Is The Cheapest Marriage by donbenie(m): 9:04pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
MiztaDynameek:You must be a Werey.. 150K just for the officiating? Not to talk of Halls and Reception? Na real Oponu you be. THIEFπ― 2 Likes |
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