My wife keep joining online prayers leaving her womanhood

One pastor that make prayers on Facebook every week days.... Monday till Friday...starting from 7am till 9:30am. My wife keep listening to this pastor every morning leaving everything she supposed to do as a woman in the house.

still sowing seed to the pastor she never attend his church.

Please how can a sane person wake up from sleep and remain praying with a pastor online, forgetting to move out and look for what to eat? I open a shop for her, but she open her shop by 10am or 11am sometimes 12pm.

Seriously am tired because I have tried to convince her politely，even used Bible to back up my advise but no way

Pls, I really need advice.

Lol...
I'm not a religion fanatic...
But for now I see nothing wrong in your wife listening and observing morning prayer with online pastor...
At least she cooks Nd take care of you and your family....
The shop, at least she goes....
The sowing of seeds, at least she didn't demand money from you....
Just let her be...
Married/relationship is all about doing what you know will make your partner happy... As long as it doesn't affect the relationship negatively...
Allow her to pray , cast and bind...

Ok

Some girls broke up with me because I wasn't joining the link they sent me to join the online prayer.

Thank God I'm with a girl with modesty in her christian faith. We need modesty in everything we do. Even in those years, our grandmother's go to morning mass then proceed to their business from there.

Your wife might simply be a lazy woman

Puss360:

Married/relationship is all about doing what you know will make your partner happy... As long as it doesn't affect the relationship negatively...
Allow her to pray , cast and bind...

Can’t you see clearly that it is affecting the marriage?,
“My wife keep listening to this pastor every morning leaving everything she supposed to do as a woman in the house.”
if marriage is doing what will make your partner happy, why is she not making her husband happy?


Imagine the husband is also staying late for work and listening to sermon too, the way you are even sounding gan, “The shop, at least she goes....”
If you don’t take your work serious what do you think will eventually happen? Who opened the shop for her?
Is it when the shop folds, and she starts begging money to “sow seed” that’s when the man of the house should talk?

And What exactly are you casting and binding from monday to Friday, every week
If you continue seeking; you will never find.

pikechukwu6:
My wife keep joining online prayers leaving her womanhood

One pastor that make prayers on Facebook every week days.... Monday till Friday...starting from 7am till 9:30am. My wife keep listening to this pastor every morning leaving everything she supposed to do as a woman in the house.

still sowing seed to the pastor she never attend his church.

Please how can a sane person wake up from sleep and remain praying with a pastor online, forgetting to move out and look for what to eat? I open a shop for her, but she open her shop by 10am or 11am sometimes 12pm.

Seriously am tired because I have tried to convince her politely，even used Bible to back up my advise but no way

Pls, I really need advice.

She may be doing the prayer for you. For protection against your imaginary ' enemies ' or your 'friends' that are her imaginary rivals.

Command her to stop or reduce it if you don't like it, you're the head of the house. Period!

Maynman:

Can’t you see clearly that it is affecting the marriage?,
“My wife keep listening to this pastor every morning leaving everything she supposed to do as a woman in the house.”
if marriage is doing what will make your partner happy, why is she not making her husband happy?


Imagine the husband is also staying late for work and listening to sermon too, the way you are even sounding gan, “The shop, at least she goes....”
If you don’t take your work serious what do you think will eventually happen? Who opened the shop for her?
Is it when the shop folds, and she starts begging money to sow seed that’s when the man of the house should talk?

And What exactly are you casting and binding from monday to Friday, every week
If you continue seeking; you will never find.

Hmmm..
This matter heavy pass as I see am .
Well, sit her down and talk to her ...
If no head, then involved her family members/elders...
But since this is a civil issue, then I feel dialogue/conversation will go along way....

Puss360:

Hmmm..
This matter heavy pass as I see am .
Well, sit her down and talk to her ...
If no head, then involved her family members/elders...
But since this is a civil issue, then I feel dialogue/conversation will go along way....

I don’t think the husband is even complaining about the prayers, it’s the incessant and inconvenience it is creating for others, make she do am moderately.
Weekdays Morning are very important.

What do you expect? This pastor and others usually have very high number of online members.

Where do you think the numbers come from?

They're our mothers, sisters, galfriends, wives, and few of our brothers, and fathers.

Some of the byproduct is what we're experiencing.

In one post, a brother was complaining about how his Roman Catholic mum is jumping from one pentecostal church to the other, and with her, her money jumping too.

It's a fact we have to live with, women are very impressionable malleable.

If na only men, all these churches go pack up, wetin another guyman wan tell me?

Sad thing is that these women listen to and respect their pastors more than they do their husbands at home calling them Daddy this and that

Most marriages are still existing because pastor has not told her he's the obstacle stopping her from entering heaven and boom! Your wife leaves your ass.

How many stories of pastors taking over people's wives?

I think men need to start putting their foot down on these issues at the start of their relationships.

Imagine person wey dem open business for go dey bed till 930 then open shop as from 10 sometimes 12 because she dey follow online prayers.

I still don't get how these pulpit thieves make women give them money easily.

Puss360:
Lol...
I'm not a religion fanatic...
But for now I see nothing wrong in your wife listening and observing morning prayer with online pastor...
At least she cooks Nd take care of you and your family....
The shop, at least she goes....
The sowing of seeds, at least she didn't demand money from you....
Just let her be...
Married/relationship is all about doing what you know will make your partner happy... As long as it doesn't affect the relationship negatively...
Allow her to pray , cast and bind...

So if the husband decides to start sowing seeds upandan too where will he get the money to take care of his home?
Directly or indirectly the money the woman is using to ”sow seed” could still be used for other meaningful stuffs in that home but unfortunately the woman has been brainwashed.

Puss360:
Lol...
I'm not a religion fanatic...
But for now I see nothing wrong in your wife listening and observing morning prayer with online pastor...
At least she cooks Nd take care of you and your family....
The shop, at least she goes....
The sowing of seeds, at least she didn't demand money from you....
Just let her be...
Married/relationship is all about doing what you know will make your partner happy... As long as it doesn't affect the relationship negatively...
Allow her to pray , cast and bind...

She keep complaining that her shop is going down

Emperormartin:
Some girls broke up with me because I wasn't joining the link they sent me to join the online prayer.

Thank God I'm with a girl with modesty in her christian faith. We need modesty in everything we do. Even in those years, our grandmother's go to morning mass then proceed to their business from there.

Your wife might simply be a lazy woman

I married her in Catholic，we leave in front of church but on Sunday，she find it difficult to attend to Sunday service

Cassandraloius:
Command her to stop or reduce it if you don't like it, you're the head of the house. Period!

I wanted to take it to her parents. it's annoying to me that sometimes she said I can't limit her to a particular church. after all，I should allow her to be doing what works for her.

Maynman:

I don’t think the husband is even complaining about the prayers, it’s the incessant and inconvenience it is creating for others, make she do am moderately.
Weekdays Morning are very important.

I never ask her not to pray. but situation of praying online for over 2 to 3 hours every week days is something I don't understand.

pikechukwu6:

I never ask her not to pray. but situation of praying online for over 2 to 3 hours every week days is something I don't understand.

TELL her she needs to wake up earlier, say like 4 or 5, do her responsibilities and go to shop early like 7. She can then join th program by 7:30/8, she can even be jumping from one prayer program to the other tru d whole day AS LONG as she's pausin and attending to customers when they come.

Oga, what's she supposed to do as a woman as quoted above,she's your wife nobody see stops you from helping out as well, the prayers as she's making is for your daily life, knowingly or unknowingly she's praying for herself and the entire family instead of her using Three hours ask her to use an hour then go back to what's so she's doing... she's your wife.

Jozilinn:
■ Oga, what's she supposed to do as a woman as quoted above, she's your wife nobody see stops you from helping out as well, the prayers as she's making is for your daily life, knowingly or unknowingly she's praying for herself and the entire family instead of her using Three hours ask her to use an hour then go back to what's so she's doing... she's your wife.

How did you come to this conclusion abeg?

You see, Scripture states that God does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous; the pleas and requests and every petition, praise, offerings, tithes, seeds, work, plea, sacrifice, etc., of the unrighteous are tainted by their sins(disobedience/unholiness) and are hence an abomination to God. So, what is definite is that even your many pleas for the forgiveness of sins are not answered by God given that God made no special exemptions for that kind of plea. No amount of praying can cause God to change His mind regarding that which concerns the unrighteous by the way. So if you are thinking of prescribing more prayers that only means you really don't understand or know god at all.

Op says his wife spends hours in this prayer group every morning. If God does not receive nor answer any of her prayers and her offerings are equally all dead on arrival on account of the fact that she is unrighteous, how did you come to conclude that they all serve some benefit to her husband and family?

Puss360:
Lol...I'm not a religion fanatic... But for now I see nothing wrong in your wife listening and observing morning prayer with online pastor... At least she cooks Nd take care of you and your family....The shop, at least she goes....
The sowing of seeds, at least she didn't demand money from you.... Just let her be... Married/relationship is all about doing what you know will make your partner happy... As long as it doesn't affect the relationship negatively... Allow her to pray , cast and bind...

There is everything wrong with her religiosity. For one, Scripture states that God does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous; the pleas and requests and every petition, praise, offering, tithes, seeds, work, plea, sacrifice, etc., of the unrighteous, are tainted by their sins(disobedience/unholiness) and are hence an abomination to God. So, what is definite is that even your many pleas for the forgiveness of sins are not answered by God given that God made no special exemptions for that kind of plea. No amount of praying can cause God to change His mind regarding that which concerns the unrighteous by the way. And all those many seeds, offerings, etc., simply go to line the pockets of her pastors and mogs. To add to that, God made clear it is a sin to pray where anyone can hear of see one praying meaning those prayers don't even depart the room she is in when she says them. All that effort for what? Nothing!

Religion is a terrible thing indeed.

Interesting…

These wannabe pastor; bolaji and Jerry eze or whatever they call themselves are just content creators milking fools all in the name of online prayers.

Once I notice you follow these gen Z charlatans, our relationship is over.

Seun
Lalasticlala

StrikeBack:
Interesting… These wannabe pastor; bolaji and Jerry eze or whatever they call themselves are just content creators milking fools all in the name of online prayers. Once I notice you follow these gen Z charlatans, our relationship is over.

All of your pastors and mogs are nothing but charlatans

Kobojunkie:
How did you come to this conclusion abeg?

You see, Scripture states that God does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous; the pleas and requests and every petition, praise, offerings, tithes, seeds, work, plea, sacrifice, etc., of the unrighteous are tainted by their sins(disobedience/unholiness) and are hence an abomination to God. So, what is definite is that even your many pleas for the forgiveness of sins are not answered by God given that God made no special exemptions for that kind of plea. No amount of praying can cause God to change His mind regarding that which concerns the unrighteous by the way. So if you are thinking of prescribing more prayers that only means you really don't understand or know god at all.

Op says his wife spends hours in this prayer group every morning. If God does not receive nor answer any of her prayers and her offerings are equally all dead on arrival on account of the fact that she is unrighteous, how did you come to conclude that they all serve some benefit to her husband and family?

How did you come to the conclusion that she's unrighteous,even the same bible says don't judge anyone...🤯🤯

Jozilinn:
■ How did you come to the conclusion that she's unrighteous,even the same bible says don't judge anyone...🤯🤯

This is what Jesus Christ said of all those who imbibe the doctrines and traditions of men(pastors and mogs), in place of God's commands.

7 You are hypocrites! Isaiah was right when he spoke for God about you:
8 ‘These people honor me with their words, but I am not really important to them.
9 Their worship of me is worthless. The things they teach are only human rules.’” - Matthew 15 vs 7 - 9

...

6 Jesus answered, “You are all hypocrites. Isaiah was right when he wrote these words from God about you:‘These people honor me with their words, but I am not really important to them.
7 Their worship of me is worthless. The things they teach are only human rules.’
8 You have stopped following God’s commands, preferring instead the man-made rules you got from others.”
9 Then he said, “You show great skill in avoiding the commands of God so that you can follow your own teachings! - Mark 7 vs 6 - 9

Surely, you can see how one cannot be a hypocrite and righteous at the same time, right?