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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Aug 15, 2023
There's hunger in the land and youre thinking of fornicating

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by BoldBrainz(m): 6:41pm On Aug 15, 2023
IconicR:
The relationship starts immediately she agrees to his love request
In this case she didn't cheat on him because he's yet to pop the question .
Slept with a friend is the part I don't understand, how?

No please. The relationship starts after the first knack and once the guy has confirmed that the kuntus was worth the stress.
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by wittywriter: 6:41pm On Aug 15, 2023
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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by akube34: 6:41pm On Aug 15, 2023
Puss360:
After seeing this topic -https://www.nairaland.com/7803848/leave-good-woman-man-because -
I decided to ask when does "We are dating" officially starts in a relationship..

Assuming a guy exchange number with a girl on Friday, they began chatting, on Friday the following week, they met for lunch...

Fast forward to a month later, the guy discovered that Tuesday before the Friday they met for lunch, the girl had sex with a frnd..

Can the guy claim the girl cheated while they were dating??

I'm confused here ..
you don go fk, conscience come Dey hold u

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by goodmouth: 6:41pm On Aug 15, 2023
Its gradually evolves though with concentual agreement to date each other in all its ramifications.
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Probz(m): 6:42pm On Aug 15, 2023
Erm, from the first date.
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Gggjhhj: 6:42pm On Aug 15, 2023
Mine starts from hitting the cookie jar

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by BoldBrainz(m): 6:42pm On Aug 15, 2023
obie3rixe:
There's hunger in the land and youre thinking of fornicating

The penis does not need food to nod in appreciation of an appealing kpekus.

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Aug 15, 2023
BoldBrainz:


No please. The relationship starts after the first knack and once the guy has confirmed that the kuntus was worth the stress.

Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Puss360(f): 6:43pm On Aug 15, 2023
Persephone1:
Dating for me starts when dude has ticked all the boxes and we have made deliberate decision to get close above friendship or talking stage level the number of weeks,months or years this level takes differ and depends on readiness and attraction grin .

Now to your scenario, If I meet a guy l like, i wouldn't be under the sheets with another guy few days I met the guy I like. That lady is either detached from her body or has her emotions everywhere. If I'm a guy, I wouldn't take such lady seriously.

Nevertheless she didn't cheat on him, rather she's a loose one.
Well this is good.. but, sometimes what we like doesn't really show at first sight... Maybe after some time of chatting we come to realise that this guy is a good person... So does it mean that till we discover the hidden treasures about this guy, no sex
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by akube34: 6:43pm On Aug 15, 2023
Puss360:

I've had the unfortunate encounter of my life happen like dis....
Mine sef was birthday...
Met two weeks before my birthday, we began chatting, so I decided to use my birthday to meet..
Lol, we went shopping o, we ate...he really spent sha...
It was December...
January came, new year resolution, I decided to cut off, lol he became angry...oo..
Said many things, I couldn't recall, but he mentioned the birthday outing..
But we weren't dating, I told him...

So Nigerians guys has this "I spend on you, you are mine" mentality
why would you even agree to go on a date with someone you dnt want to date

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by BoldBrainz(m): 6:43pm On Aug 15, 2023
akube34:
you don go fk, conscience come Dey hold u

😂😂.
Whoever this is, e no fit better for you unless you grow a conscience! Chai! Nairalanders are a different breed of Nigerians, gaskiya!
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Brunicekid(m): 6:43pm On Aug 15, 2023
shagasha:
Dating begins when you've fu**ed each other. Else you as a man will be spending and assuming. Some girls Will say 'Yes" to you and be making demands but wouldn't want to get down with you. As soon as you are serious about getting down with them, they ghost you.

Still my thoughts
This is totally wrong. Hope you shaa know that f****g in a relationship is fornication, and it is a sin against God?
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Lee99: 6:44pm On Aug 15, 2023
After sex
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by CapitalHYC(m): 6:44pm On Aug 15, 2023
shagasha:
Dating begins when you've fu**ed each other. Else you as a man will be spending and assuming. Some girls Will say 'Yes" to you and be making demands but wouldn't want to get down with you. As soon as you are serious about getting down with them, they ghost you.

Still my thoughts

Na only you get sense , I no even fit tell you I love you if I never knack you , Relationship apart , Love apart !

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Josephkabila12: 6:44pm On Aug 15, 2023
Puss360:

Surely as a single girl without commitment, some girls have male FWB...
Then when she has a serious guy in her life, she'll end all commitment and focus....

"Immediately she agrees to his love request".. how?
Some guys that'll see you on the road and begin to shower you with love talk so how will we know the original love?

Abi once a guy collect your number, you are now dating? If I collect another guy number the next day nko?

without commitment, she'll end all commitment and focus. Anybody wey take some of this cheats serious ehn nah for life mumu una be I swr

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Puss360(f): 6:45pm On Aug 15, 2023
akube34:
you don go fk, conscience come Dey hold u
Shii...no be u I follow f.ck, so come forward and say something about this thread, or remain silent and listen for that back wey u dey grin grin
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by CapitalHYC(m): 6:45pm On Aug 15, 2023
BoldBrainz:


No please. The relationship starts after the first knack and once the guy has confirmed that the kuntus was worth the stress.

U get sense

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by BoldBrainz(m): 6:45pm On Aug 15, 2023
IconicR:

Come let me confirm the sweetness of your kuntus so we can start our relationship.
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Oluwadare316(m): 6:45pm On Aug 15, 2023
Oya wait, let me ask A I for u.
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Puss360(f): 6:45pm On Aug 15, 2023
obie3rixe:
There's hunger in the land and youre thinking of fornicating
When u were eating and fornicating nko? Now hungry don come we no go hear word grin
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by BoldBrainz(m): 6:46pm On Aug 15, 2023
CapitalHYC:


U get sense

🤜🤜.
E no get where e reach!
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by staneless(m): 6:47pm On Aug 15, 2023
Lol ... Na girls go know, cause na only them know when they have accepted to date you grin

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Etranshub(m): 6:48pm On Aug 15, 2023
The moment you agree to go out on a date then its official

I make fantastic metal works ranging from iron roofing to handrails and many more

Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Puss360(f): 6:48pm On Aug 15, 2023
akube34:
why would you even agree to go on a date with someone you dnt want to date
Do you date every friend??
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Felaincarnated: 6:49pm On Aug 15, 2023
Exactly. Erection goes wit money
Puss360:
really? If the guy is always broke but a nice guy nko?... meaning say no dating till money enter?? grin grin
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by 22o62021: 6:49pm On Aug 15, 2023
See mine here

I just told her that I like her

She didn't say yes to date me
Just this morning
She started calling me baby
Aww

Relationship don start
No time

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Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by notttty(m): 6:49pm On Aug 15, 2023
After the first sex
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Puss360(f): 6:50pm On Aug 15, 2023
Etranshub:
The moment you agree to go out on a date then its official

I make fantastic metal works ranging from iron roofing to handrails and many more
So if I go out with a frnd I must date him?
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by bonnyhope: 6:50pm On Aug 15, 2023
Puss360:
After seeing this topic -https://www.nairaland.com/7803848/leave-good-woman-man-because -
I decided to ask when does "We are dating" officially starts in a relationship..

Assuming a guy exchange number with a girl on Friday, they began chatting, on Friday the following week, they met for lunch...

Fast forward to a month later, the guy discovered that Tuesday before the Friday they met for lunch, the girl had sex with a frnd..

Can the guy claim the girl cheated while they were dating??

I'm confused here ..

When billing has started
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by Tymk: 6:50pm On Aug 15, 2023
USELESS topic.
The op, the mod that push it to front page. Se un, everyone above and below me are all useless
Re: When Does "Dating" Officially Starts In A Relationship? by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:51pm On Aug 15, 2023
Puss360:

I've had the unfortunate encounter of my life happen like dis....
Mine sef was birthday...
Met two weeks before my birthday, we began chatting, so I decided to use my birthday to meet..
Lol, we went shopping o, we ate...he really spent sha......
It was December...
January came, new year resolution, I decided to cut off, lol he became angry...oo..
Said many things, I couldn't recall, but he mentioned the birthday outing..
But we weren't dating, I told him...

So Nigerians guys has this "I spend on you, you are mine" mentality


A guy did this to someone he isn't dating, people are really trying. I can't fathom me being in this scenario ever.

This is my recipe for excluding wasters of resources out of my life . At the beginning stage of wooing a lady, sex and money is taken out of the equation. I delve to know your inner mindset , if it doesn't align with mine I declare mission impossible ghost protocol. If it agrees then I ask , if offer is accepted then we are good to go.

People are there to milk the other person of his resources and then throw them away like a pack of cards, getting to know someone is all about stripping people of their finance and livelihood.

I can't believe people will use Monsey to try to coerce people into accepting them. Most times it hits the rock.

This is my way of taking out locust out of my precinct

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