Puss360:
After seeing this topic -https://www.nairaland.com/7803848/leave-good-woman-man-because -
I decided to ask when does "We are dating" officially starts in a relationship..

Assuming a guy exchange number with a girl on Friday, they began chatting, on Friday the following week, they met for lunch...

Fast forward to a month later, the guy discovered that Tuesday before the Friday they met for lunch, the girl had sex with a frnd..

Can the guy claim the girl cheated while they were dating??

I'm confused here ..

Puss360:

Do you date every friend??

Devil1Messenger:

🤣🤣
Y u go go dey share ur pussy with different dick

Silentgroper:



So why did you let him spend on you when you know it was heading anywhere ...


There's this girl I used to know ...

she no dey ever collect something from guys even down to very expensive things..she would reject it cause she believes if she's having nothing to do with you she doesn't need to be accepting any of your gift ...

One time one niqqa bought a phone .. some Xperia phone ... Omo baby gyal reject the thing oo .. me sef shock xay na so she mean the thing ..

I was even the one trying to talk her into accepting it .. I say if she no want make she give me but make she fess collect am fess..


She no gree oo ...


Girls like her understands niqqaz ... you reject their , it makes it easier for you to say no and no means no ..

but him dey buy you this and that ,you dey open and collect whilst knowing say Una two no fit gree dey do lovers .. you con say no finish dey expect make guyman dey waka like mumu comot ...


Tah, aunty na from you body I go chop my money back oo ...

if you no fit give love ,you sha fit give pussy..

talented321:
Puss360 ' there is nothing like dating without sex'
The mouth is just a mutual agreement and it is only sex that will fulfil everything.
I don't take a girl i have never bleep as my babe not matter the agreement.
Sha everybody has different reasoning

IbroMaka:


You be theif

Why chop hin money wen u no wan date am?

Men don turn una maga abi?

deltateam:


Poverty alleviation program. Your own is to look for who will buy you lunch.

talented321:
Just le them be babe' the dragging is too much.

Tymk:
your master

PAQ:


Its official the moment the guy declares his intention to court/ date the lady and the lady in return accepts his proposal.

Its not official if he just chats, takes her out to lunch and in some cases even bang without stating his intentions. A fling should not be mistaken for a relationship.

Puss360:
After seeing this topic -https://www.nairaland.com/7803848/leave-good-woman-man-because -
I decided to ask when does "We are dating" officially starts in a relationship..

Assuming a guy exchange number with a girl on Friday, they began chatting, on Friday the following week, they met for lunch...

Fast forward to a month later, the guy discovered that Tuesday before the Friday they met for lunch, the girl had sex with a frnd..

Can the guy claim the girl cheated while they were dating??

I'm confused here ..

Expanse2020:

Text me your number let going to full pratical you may not understand the theory

Puss360:

We die here ooo.. dem no gree let me rest... The dragging pass tiger Gen...
Ontop this matter

shagasha:
Dating begins when you've fu**ed each other. Else you as a man will be spending and assuming. Some girls Will say 'Yes" to you and be making demands but wouldn't want to get down with you. As soon as you are serious about getting down with them, they ghost you.

Still my thoughts

Puss360:

Something freely given should be freely collected.. and God will bless him...

Persephone1:
Lol the years is just an exaggeration but months has happened before

You will get PHD self

Puss360:

Well this is good.. but, sometimes what we like doesn't really show at first sight... Maybe after some time of chatting we come to realise that this guy is a good person... So does it mean that till we discover the hidden treasures about this guy, no sex

kkins25:


I love the idea of a long dating period, and assume we'd also evaluate our compatibility in all ramifications, don't you think? Of course, this would involve "oral examination," which is a prerequisite to acquiring a Ph.D.

In all ramifications? Lol that's suspicious 😆

"Oral examination"? Do you want to date a dentist?

I know where you are coming from, but it's okay if both parties aren't ready to fully commit their bargaining chip ( sex and money which shouldn't even be a bargaining chip) until they know they will work out.

Persephone1:
In all ramifications? Lol that's suspicious 😆

"Oral examination"? Do you want to date a dentist?

I know where you are coming from, but it's okay if both parties aren't ready to fully commit their bargaining chip ( sex and money which shouldn't even be a bargaining chip) until they know they will work out.

Silentgroper:


you sef dey try give the hole for free too , make God bless you plenty


😁😁😁😁

Puss360:

I've had the unfortunate encounter of my life happen like dis....
Mine sef was birthday...
Met two weeks before my birthday, we began chatting, so I decided to use my birthday to meet..
Lol, we went shopping o, we ate...he really spent sha...
It was December...
January came, new year resolution, I decided to cut off, lol he became angry...oo..
Said many things, I couldn't recall, but he mentioned the birthday outing..
But we weren't dating, I told him...

So Nigerians guys has this "I spend on you, you are mine" mentality

Puss360:

I've had the unfortunate encounter of my life happen like dis....
Mine sef was birthday...
Met two weeks before my birthday, we began chatting, so I decided to use my birthday to meet..
Lol, we went shopping o, we ate...he really spent sha...
It was December...
January came, new year resolution, I decided to cut off, lol he became angry...oo..
Said many things, I couldn't recall, but he mentioned the birthday outing..
But we weren't dating, I told him...

So Nigerians guys has this "I spend on you, you are mine" mentality

Persephone1:
Dating for me starts when dude has ticked all the boxes and we have made deliberate decision to get close above friendship or talking stage level the number of weeks,months or years this level takes differ and depends on readiness and attraction .

Now to your scenario, If I meet a guy l like, i wouldn't be under the sheets with another guy few days I met the guy I like. That lady is either detached from her body or has her emotions everywhere. If I'm a guy, I wouldn't take such lady seriously .

Nevertheless she didn't cheat on him, rather she's a loose one.

Puss360:
After seeing this topic -https://www.nairaland.com/7803848/leave-good-woman-man-because -
I decided to ask when does "We are dating" officially starts in a relationship..

Assuming a guy exchange number with a girl on Friday, they began chatting, on Friday the following week, they met for lunch...

Fast forward to a month later, the guy discovered that Tuesday before the Friday they met for lunch, the girl had sex with a frnd..

Can the guy claim the girl cheated while they were dating??

I'm confused here ..

drimzsmoke:


After the 1st sex!!!

Puss360:

Lol, so if no sex "with the guy" for the first one year nko?
Can he claim "cheating" if the girl has sex with another guy during that period