Built2last:
The worst that can happen to a man is to train children with pension money. Most men gallivanting today never think about old age. So short sighted.

You can't be doing school runs at age 60 because you married late. I dread it. God forbid. If you are struggling to have kids, go and do IVF. forget the bullshit people say. Na your sperm, na your pikin. get ready for old age. If you are 35 years. You have spent half of your life on earth already except God give you extra bread.

At 60, you should be planning retirement. last born is planning to move out of the house and you are ready to tour the world with your wife.

I dread old age without money. That's the only fear i have. So i am now investing in my children while i have the money and the energy

There are fake boys and fake men out there but there are good ones also. If you postponed because you think you will find in the future. Hey, that future is not guaranteed. find a good woman and wife her now.

Don't look for a perfect woman as you are not one. We always set high and unrealistic expectations for the other person forgetting that we are all far from perfection.

Don't marry just who you love, marry who you can Tolerate their madness. All of us dey craze last last.

Love and beauty doesn't sustain marriage. Naa. Tolerance and Trust does.

This is so carnal.

Jestin:
Na girlfriend full out there. To see wife no be easy job mostly now that na shisha and hook up girls full everywhere

You no lie but don't stop trying new And unattractive ladies because they are d real wife but those Instagram flashy babes are prone to the oloshoism world

DollarLand2023:


And get a woman that will file out when the money finishes. Have you really asked yourself why perfect money has been your motivation for marriage? Is it to get any woman of your fantasy?
Abeg I'm not judging o, na question I dey ask.

Yes because even sometimes your perfect money cannot get you a woman that can be a wife ..

Instead u might find a woman that loves your money and when it dries up she will leave in peace ✌️

So I don't think having money guarantee a.good wife material

OkukoIgbo:


Have you thought about some people should actually have investments that will take care of them at old age and not pension?

Have you thought of the fact that some people will die before 30?

Have you thought of that even those your early born children can all be wiped out before you even get to 60 and your wife already in menopause?

I am trying to tell you that this life has no textbook, if your pattern is working for you, it is not the model that all will follow.

So some people wey never chop belle full will come and spawning children like spider, breeding societal misfits because they have noting to train them with.

In essence respect yourself, respect other people's lifestyle as far as it is not illegal.

Even if a person didn't marry, he can contract and pay nurses who will be taking care of him at old age.
When will you Africans have sense and stop creating unnecessary problems for yourselves.


Side note:
In my work place, when I was busy hustling for education, masters, certification and skills, some of them were busy breeding children like old layers and marrying hundred wives, it is same fools that are envious that I just came and am getting paid 5 times their pay, I am still shocked at how humans will want to eat their cake and still have it.
If you are one of them, respect yourself.

🤔 You have spoken well ☺️ because life itself don't have manual like a car you just have to accept nature the way you see it ...

Wish you the best bro

OkukoIgbo:


Have you thought about some people should actually have investments that will take care of them at old age and not pension?

Have you thought of the fact that some people will die before 30?

Have you thought of that even those your early born children can all be wiped out before you even get to 60 and your wife already in menopause?

I am trying to tell you that this life has no textbook, if your pattern is working for you, it is not the model that all will follow.

So some people wey never chop belle full will come and spawning children like spider, breeding societal misfits because they have noting to train them with.

In essence respect yourself, respect other people's lifestyle as far as it is not illegal.

Even if a person didn't marry, he can contract and pay nurses who will be taking care of him at old age.
When will you Africans have sense and stop creating unnecessary problems for yourselves.


Side note:
In my work place, when I was busy hustling for education, masters, certification and skills, some of them were busy breeding children like old layers and marrying hundred wives, it is same fools that are envious that I just came and am getting paid 5 times their pay, I am still shocked at how humans will want to eat their cake and still have it.
If you are one of them, respect yourself.

OkukoIgbo:


Have you thought about some people should actually have investments that will take care of them at old age and not pension?

Have you thought of the fact that some people will die before 30?

Have you thought of that even those your early born children can all be wiped out before you even get to 60 and your wife already in menopause?

I am trying to tell you that this life has no textbook, if your pattern is working for you, it is not the model that all will follow.

So some people wey never chop belle full will come and spawning children like spider, breeding societal misfits because they have noting to train them with.

In essence respect yourself, respect other people's lifestyle as far as it is not illegal.

Even if a person didn't marry, he can contract and pay nurses who will be taking care of him at old age.
When will you Africans have sense and stop creating unnecessary problems for yourselves.


Side note:
In my work place, when I was busy hustling for education, masters, certification and skills, some of them were busy breeding children like old layers and marrying hundred wives, it is same fools that are envious that I just came and am getting paid 5 times their pay, I am still shocked at how humans will want to eat their cake and still have it.
If you are one of them, respect yourself.

Ohh,this your side note statement really shock me,I don't know what to say

Myer:


This is so carnal.

Good Evening Chief judge of heaven.

Make sure you make heaven sha.

sparko1:


This has nothing to do with end time, marriage has lost it worth, the desire to be with someone who for all you know have spent the last decade running around from dick to dick.

Very typical of a woman to blame MEN! Still it's not the men doing hookup up and down, it's now on Facebook, Instagram, everywhere you turn, it leaves nothing to be desired.

Marriage used to be interesting, not some social prerequisite for a status.

The question on most men mind is why? Why is it important, most guys that got married in their early 20s, got married for sex, the sex mostly last 3 years and he discover it's not worth it, the mature one in their 30s already understand this so, sex, food means nothing to them.

Those who do hookup, who are they hooking up with MEN. Without demand, there won't be supply. Okay so, men hookup, women hookup, it's not a gender something.

Marriage is beautiful with 2 correct persons in it. I have seen both good marriages and the bad ones and it's still interesting for those who choose to be intentional and do it God's way( I mean the 2 people in it).

Built2last:


Good Evening Chief judge of heaven.

Make sure you make heaven sha.

Heaven and hell begin on earth. Because it is first a state of your heart.
But If you don't this, how will you know any thing else I might even care to share with you?

Jesus Loves you and I pray you grow to love Him too and let Him lead you through this valley of shadow of death.

Any way, if you were to meet me in person, you'll be amazed. I read myself some times and I can only imagine how I would have reacted this time last year.
In fact, some mentions remind me of the me I used to be.lol

If God can deliver me, He will do the same for as many as let Him. Grace to you.

OkukoIgbo:


Have you thought about some people should actually have investments that will take care of them at old age and not pension?

Have you thought of the fact that some people will die before 30?

Have you thought of that even those your early born children can all be wiped out before you even get to 60 and your wife already in menopause?

I am trying to tell you that this life has no textbook, if your pattern is working for you, it is not the model that all will follow.

So some people wey never chop belle full will come and spawning children like spider, breeding societal misfits because they have noting to train them with.

In essence respect yourself, respect other people's lifestyle as far as it is not illegal.

Even if a person didn't marry, he can contract and pay nurses who will be taking care of him at old age.
When will you Africans have sense and stop creating unnecessary problems for yourselves.


Side note:
In my work place, when I was busy hustling for education, masters, certification and skills, some of them were busy breeding children like old layers and marrying hundred wives, it is same fools that are envious that I just came and am getting paid 5 times their pay, I am still shocked at how humans will want to eat their cake and still have it.
If you are one of them, respect yourself.

I was going to say you took the words right of my mouth. But your side note, scorching.lol

Built2last:
The worst that can happen to a man is to train children with pension money. Most men gallivanting today never think about old age. So short sighted.

You can't be doing school runs at age 60 because you married late. I dread it. God forbid. If you are struggling to have kids, go and do IVF. forget the bullshit people say. Na your sperm, na your pikin. get ready for old age. If you are 35 years. You have spent half of your life on earth already except God give you extra bread.

At 60, you should be planning retirement. last born is planning to move out of the house and you are ready to tour the world with your wife.

I dread old age without money. That's the only fear i have. So i am now investing in my children while i have the money and the energy

There are fake boys and fake men out there but there are good ones also. If you postponed because you think you will find in the future. Hey, that future is not guaranteed. find a good woman and wife her now.

Don't look for a perfect woman as you are not one. We always set high and unrealistic expectations for the other person forgetting that we are all far from perfection.

Don't marry just who you love, marry who you can Tolerate their madness. All of us dey craze last last.

Love and beauty doesn't sustain marriage. Naa. Tolerance and Trust does.

You're a victim of the social system that this world system has created to blind you from the Truth.

1. Your life expectancy is not 70 years. So saying 35 years is half of one's life time is from the devil.
Or maybe next time speak for yourself.

2. When the bible says Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, you seem to to be doing the dire t opposite, leaning on your own understanding and leaving God out of it.

3. Your best laid out plans can fail. God's plan doesn't.
On this note. Please repent and know God for yourself , learn to know how he communicates to you and leads you. Jesus Christ Loves You.

Zigzagman:
In Nigeria today, our neighbourhoods and cities are full of young, unmarried eligible bachelors and single ladies with delusions about love, dating and romance. It is not unusual to see lots of unmarried people attending clubs, weddings, churches, mosques and religious programmes in expectation of meeting someone to marry.

Yet, according to the single men and ladies in this video, there's a big unspoken issue around young people and romance. It's really difficult for them.

While many of them are honest and ready to commit, they struggle to find partners who are ready to date just one person today. It appears everybody is keeping their romantic options open, constantly scanning the dating landscape looking for better partners. As such, it's now commonplace to see many Nigerians postponing marriage until their thirties.

Considering the fact that most of our grandparents in Nigeria got married in their early twenties, do you think they have a point or do they just have delusion about love, dating and marriage?

Watch and share your opinion

This write-up is so well balanced and articulated. I love your writing style. Though the video seems to be shy or still buffering.lol

A good wife/husband is worth waiting for. A lot of people have been pressured by family, age, peers, fear of menopause, etc to enter into relationships their hearts knew was bad for them.

As a believer, build yourself spiritually first and in other spheres, to be the kind of husband you would love your sister to marry and the kind of father you would love your daughter to have.
A good/prudent woman is a Gift from God and He who finds such finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord.

Grace and Mercy to you and us all.

pappilo:


Wise words. Very wise words.

I got divorced 3 years ago and went on a madness with the mandem for a bit. Now I am leaving my mid 40s I am scared of being alone in old age. I had a very nice loyal 30 year old lady but had to let her go (very painful) because I didnt want to be doing the very school runs you talk about in old age.

I have now met this 30 year old lady with a teenage daughter who doesnt want any more kids just like myself and I am hoping to build something deep and lasting with her. I dont think I will sign any marriage paperwork though cah my eye see pepper last time around.

If you're in the abroad stay away from single mother

Zigzagman:
In Nigeria today, our neighbourhoods and cities are full of young, unmarried eligible bachelors and single ladies with delusions about love, dating and romance. It is not unusual to see lots of unmarried people attending clubs, weddings, churches, mosques and religious programmes in expectation of meeting someone to marry.

Yet, according to the single men and ladies in this video, there's a big unspoken issue around young people and romance. It's really difficult for them.

While many of them are honest and ready to commit, they struggle to find partners who are ready to date just one person today. It appears everybody is keeping their romantic options open, constantly scanning the dating landscape looking for better partners. As such, it's now commonplace to see many Nigerians postponing marriage until their thirties.

Considering the fact that most of our grandparents in Nigeria got married in their early twenties, do you think they have a point or do they just have delusion about love, dating and marriage?

Watch and share your opinion

Perfection is relative. Nobody is 100% perfect, you ain't perfect for your spouse either. Go for someone that will give you peace and everything will seem perfect in your eyes

Tayorshd87:


You no lie but don't stop trying new And unattractive ladies because they are d real wife but those Instagram flashy babes are prone to the oloshoism world

na lie ... You think unattractive ladies too don't keep their options wide open dey play.

I intentionally chose a less attractive lady,but her attitude this days shows something is wrong,she keeps avoiding direct question... doesn't want to lose me, but that they also don't cheat,do ashawo,or have bad character is a lie... Just pray make God give you better.

brightmorningst:
na lie ... You think unattractive ladies too don't keep their options wide open dey play.

I intentionally chose a less attractive lady,but her attitude this days shows something is wrong,she keeps avoiding direct question... doesn't want to lose me, but that they also don't cheat,do ashawo,or have bad character is a lie... Just pray make God give you better.

Amen Sha u know we are all speculating with our experience with them that's why.
So that's my contribution

Tayorshd87:


Amen Sha u know we are all speculating with our experience with them that's why.
So that's my contribution

interesting