Many ppl in big and semi big cities always wish to get married to city girls who are very educated or at least enlightened and speak good English
Guy, you are about to cheat yourself. Many city girls are already prostitutes without knowing. Its far better u go to a nice decent village and marry those girls whom you see as uneducated than to settle for those coded prostitutes parading themselves all over the city speaking English even more than the oyimbo ppl themselves. Yes, agreed, some of the village girls maybe corrupt, but then they still won't be as deceptive as many of these highly educated, wise jet age girls who may even be lesbians, bisexuals,multiplesexual etc. Many men who are married to these so-called modern ladies find it so difficult to kowthe real character,personality and lifestyle of these ladies for many months or years as against village brought up ladies who lead simple lives

Nonsense!

The men before us tried it and it ended in tears.

Quality20:
■ Many ppl in big and semi big cities always wish to get married to city girls who are very educated or at least wise n speak good English
Guy you are about to cheat itself. Many city girls are already prostitutes without knowing. Its far better u go to a nice decent village and marry those girls whom you see as uneducated than to settle for those coded prostitutes paradigm themselves all over the city speaking English more than the oyimbo ppl themselves. Yes, agreed, some of the village girls maybe corrupt, but they won't be as deceptive as many of these highly educated, wise jet age girls who may even be lesbians, bisexuals,multiplesexual etc

So the city men who themselves sleep around with the city women are themselves not male prostitutes?

The village boys for village who dem dey sleep with, no be many of the same village girls you dey send the city male prostitutes to?

This is 2023, make una begin dey borrow sense in bulk

Kobojunkiee:
So the city men who themselves sleep around with the city women are themselves not male prostitutes?

The village boys for village who dem dey sleep with, no be many of the same village girls you dey send the city male prostitutes to?

This is 2023, make una begin dey borrow sense in bulk

d bad city guys are for d bad city girls and they know themselves. But hope uknow that all these modern day corrupt sexual deviants n deceptions are mostly found among city girls?

Quality20:
d bad city guys are for d bad city girls and they know themselves

Oh, so na the virgin city men you dey send go village to pick up village girls from the village Boys then?

Kobojunkiee:
Oh, so na the virgin city men you dey send go village to pick up village girls from the village Boys then?

more like that and any serious man who values peace of mind

Village or city.Marry a good woman simple.when you date a good woman,you will know.

If everybody goes village to marry who go marry the ones you dump for city??

Quality20:
more like that and any serious man who values peace of mind

Una problem be say una no dey Learn at all.

TimT:
If everybody goes village to marry who go marry the ones you dump for city??

its not as there are no good girls in cites, but there are many gentle n cool guys who can't take the pain to know d good responsible city girls, so these gentle and siple ones could easily avoid d city n look towards d villages to avoid things that touch

In this time and age people still thinking like this?
SMH!

Quality20:
its not as there are no good girls in cites, but there are many gentle n cool guys who can't take the pain to know d good responsible city girls, so these gentle and siple ones could easily avoid d city n look towards d villages to avoid things that touch

Lol, do u think there are no bad girls in the village....?
Even the guys sef, are they all good?
If a woman is looking for husband where should she go?
Abi make she marry anyone wey dey available...?

Just as money/power reveals who we truly are, education/exposure sophisticates who we already are.

There are educated men in suits and jeeps scamming others, while there are also local illiterate champions scamming others as well. Different class, same behavior. The opposite is also true.

So for example, after you import a village woman to the city, if she is a good woman, then anything she comes to later learn will benefit your marriage. Her exposure/education will sophisticate her goodness, and you will understand that a woman's love is the closest experience to heaven on earth.

If she is a bad woman, then the city will sophisticate her wickedness, and she will make life difficult for you Promax. Her wickedness might literally kill your libido, and men may start becoming attractive to you

A better advice would be that anywhere/level you are, just pass through the stress and find a woman there. Importation of bride is a very risky game. She is human and also has needs in a man. Dont blur her choice with money

If you like, go and fork up. Reality is like a trap always waiting offline, to deal with you wotowoto.

Quality20:
its not as there are no good girls in cites, but there are many gentle n cool guys who can't take the pain to know d good responsible city girls, so these gentle and siple ones could easily avoid d city n look towards d villages to avoid things that touch

So your advice to those low social intelligence gentle n cool guys is, rather than tackle the reason for their impatience, they should instead go court village girls? And if those same low social intelligence guys then complain about those village girls when they finally bring them over to the city, you will again send the guys back to the same village to go get a new batch of village girls abi?

Sometimes I suspect some folks are simply pre-programmed not to learn at all from the mistakes of others.

Rokiat:
In this time and age people still thinking like this?
SMH!

village girls are more far better than the city ones. Nothing will make me marry a city girl.

wrongman665:
village girls are more far better than the city ones. Nothing will make me marry a city girl.

low social intelligence ofcourse won't. But it also almost guarantees you won't be content with the village women either..

wrongman665:
village girls are more far better than the city ones. Nothing will make me marry a city girl.

What you do with your life clearly is non of my business and I don’t care. If you like you can even marry a lizard.

Rokiat:

What you do with your life clearly is non of my business and I don’t care. If you like you can even marry a lizard.

village girls are the best that is what i am saying.

It's better to be played by a city slut to than a local village slut. The latter will mess up ur psyche knowing she's of a far lesser class and still got u fuckedup. Village girl or city girls, doesn't really matter. Just make sure she's good and her excesses won't drive u insane in the long run

dkidd:
It's better to be played by a city slut to than a local village slut. The latter will mess up ur psyche knowing she's of a far lesser class and still got u fuckedup. Village girl or city girls, doesn't really matter. Just make sure she's good and her excesses won't drive u insane in the long run

The general problem there is low social intelligence. It is the major reason why many city men even consider the village girl over the city girls they have become used to . The few among those city men intelligent enough to realize this and then put in the work to develop their social and emotional intelligence usually thank their stars they never made the mistake of actually going to find and bring a village girl to into their city life.

Op you are a bad adviser. You mean i should go and marry a village girl who will use my certificate as toilet roll? Or will use water to off gas?

Kobojunkiee:
Una problem be say una no dey Learn at all.

dem use argument swear for you?

Rubbish...

Bannies for villages don cast finish.......

The highest number of pregnant bannies can easily be found in most rural areas,no doubt....

Gone are the days when our villages used to produce decent bannies for marriages......Cuz these days,na dem dey open eyes pass,even open their mumu eyes pass city bannies..

I rather spend my money on an already made city banny who will later break my heart....Than used my money to change the total appearance of a village banny who will later break my heart

Oga is like you have not gone to the village recently, na those girls spoil pass. Then there is the fact say they no get shame, their low reasoning.

For me, intelligence is what I value in a lady.

Sophistication and class in a lady cannot be overemphasised. You need a lady that can stand by your side in any occasion, in any setting not those village girls.

Rokiat:
In this time and age people still thinking like this?
SMH!

I’m as shocked as you are. Honestly this is a sign of low self esteem to think village girls are better than city girls. The village I’m serving of you see what those small village girls do at night in dark corners because of 500-1000 Naira. You will just shake your head.

You can meet decent girls anywhere
If you know how to identify them.

Quality20:
Many ppl in big and semi big cities always wish to get married to city girls who are very educated or at least enlightened and speak good English
Guy, you are about to cheat yourself. Many city girls are already prostitutes without knowing. Its far better u go to a nice decent village and marry those girls whom you see as uneducated than to settle for those coded prostitutes parading themselves all over the city speaking English even more than the oyimbo ppl themselves. Yes, agreed, some of the village girls maybe corrupt, but then they still won't be as deceptive as many of these highly educated, wise jet age girls who may even be lesbians, bisexuals,multiplesexual etc. Many men who are married to these so-called modern ladies find it so difficult to kowthe real character,personality and lifestyle of these ladies for many months or years as against village brought up ladies who lead simple lives

if you want to marry a housewife, go for village girls. If you want to marry a workmate, go for city girls. It's that simple.

You actually have some level of truth in your write up. Actually, my wife (city lady) told me some obvious lies for 12 years about herself until the lies were no more sustainable, of which one includes het age. She's 5 years older than me but she made me believe we were age mates. Lol! But I forgave her. She's my wife atfer all, so why should I trouble her? Another lie was about her past boyfriend but something happened that the guy sought to destroy our marriage by threatening her to give her money else he'd tell me something that would make me drawback from the marriage. Now, the guy doesn't know me as a person with a big heart and advanced maturity. But my wife who now knows and understands me came to me to confess all her past lives and I understood why whatever happened to her happened, so I didn't blame her as she's just a human being. Actually, this is one difference between the village girl and city girls. But now, most villages in Nigeria are now towns which equalizes city girls and them in lies.

A real village girl has real superstitious belief about marriage and would hold onto it in good and bad health to the end.

NSNO:
Oga is like you have not gone to the village recently, na those girls spoil pass. Then there is the fact say they no get shame, their low reasoning.

For me, intelligence is what I value in a lady.

Sophistication and class in a lady cannot be overemphasised. You need a lady that can stand by your side in any occasion, in any setting not those village girls.

Lol, you're confusing town girls with village girls. Town girls and village girls are almost alike because they both live in interior place but their differences is exposition to information. A village girl that is watching TV, interacting with incles and friends from the city, and using city things including going to what you may call village school, etc. is no longer a village girl but a town girl because she's now exposed to information despite living in the village.

Most villages in the south are filled with town people. If you're looking for a village girl, go to the most interior places in the North, the people that still wore leaves as clothing, and attached some kind of superstitious believe to marriage, etc.

There are actually village girls. I'm not trying to discredit the city girls but the truth is exposition to information is what builds or destroys a man or woman. In those days, women believed that sex with a man would get her pregnant. But exposure to information has taught us that there's a safe period and there's a prevention pill and there's a c0nd0m, etc. People exposed to this info but still living in a village are no longer village girls. Also, on the part of telling lies, A village girl would believe that lying to her spouse could bring down evil and curses and misfortunes on her and her union with her husband, but a city girl would know that lying is just a trick and believing that lying can harm you is if you don't defend it well, etc. so would take time to plan the lie and the defending methods, etc. The obvious difference between a village girl and town or city girl is just information.

We're saying that our forefathers were better than us today because of their high morals and decency, etc. today we have everybody fighting for attention, a lady goes as far as twerking her private areas online just to get attention, etc. all these were not present in those days, so the society was decent. But today? Haaba... village girls still exist in the North though, especially those interior norths that still wore leaves as clothing, or are just being exposed to the corruption we call "modern civilisation"

So, by village girls the op is saying, he's talking about the ideal village girls. But his mistake is the recommendation.

@ OP Village is not better, village have many hiding places where they can do whatever they want. Only that there are still few decent girls..

The village does guarantee you a good woman either. Last time I checked, most village girls are already mounted on so many rods.

Mercury is a common sense, just borrow the planet.

Quality20:
Many ppl in big and semi big cities always wish to get married to city girls who are very educated or at least enlightened and speak good English
Guy, you are about to cheat yourself. Many city girls are already prostitutes without knowing. Its far better u go to a nice decent village and marry those girls whom you see as uneducated than to settle for those coded prostitutes parading themselves all over the city speaking English even more than the oyimbo ppl themselves. Yes, agreed, some of the village girls maybe corrupt, but then they still won't be as deceptive as many of these highly educated, wise jet age girls who may even be lesbians, bisexuals,multiplesexual etc. Many men who are married to these so-called modern ladies find it so difficult to kowthe real character,personality and lifestyle of these ladies for many months or years as against village brought up ladies who lead simple lives

my brother,50-60% of girls in a village we have our farm in imo state are single mothers,they fvck like rabbits,infact they have so much freedom that they now consider sex as a normal function of the human body,two very good tisp to get a good wife either from City or village is to make sure she and her family are properly vetted by married woman around,also give your relationship a maturity period of at least 6 months to one year with good nackings,in that time a smart man will know if he is right or wrong