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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by drimzsmoke(m): 1:28pm On Sep 09, 2023
DenreleDave:


Does women mock women that gave birth through Cs again?

If it is true, then women are the most thoughtless being in the womanhood of the universe... Like who makes a mockery of such

This is the first time I'm hearing this in my life ooo

When they go to church and give useless testimonies of how the doctor said they would deliver through CS but God saved dem and they had vaginal delivery(though they had tear and the doctor had to suture). Very funny set of people!!!

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Westerhoffe(m): 1:59pm On Sep 09, 2023
Mummyfour:
that's why when men treat women that have gone through this experience with so much wickedness, it breaks my heart.

I congratulate your wife for this your comment and God bless you real good as you keep it up


She's going to be the happiest woman ever.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by alibiz: 2:01pm On Sep 09, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?
Have heard women mocking other women who gave birth through CS, but I look at them as been ignorant.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Uniquekriss(m): 2:03pm On Sep 09, 2023
Skyview01:


1.Illiteracy

2.Religious bigotry.

They want to give birth like the "Hebrew women".

3. Cost of CS in Nigeria is relatively expensive compared to vaginal delivery.

While nothing iswrong with the above, this is 2023 and with advance in medicine, CS has become a relatively save procedure.

That said, I had all my kids through CS and they are all healthy and normal without any complications and i could easily afford it.

I usually don't care what other people think.

How many children do you have through CS and what are the likely effects to a woman's body and mind
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by JuicyStar: 2:05pm On Sep 09, 2023
Lack of knowledge
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Westerhoffe(m): 2:11pm On Sep 09, 2023
Romanoff:


Rotfl. I laugh in Ignorance.

I here, I'm the one laughing at your own ignorance.
There are some things you need to know, as a husband, but which you don't know...
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Smartguyboy(m): 2:26pm On Sep 09, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?

If you mingle with the poor that the kind of stigmatization you will get .
My sis gave birth recently she spent over 14 hours in labor at the end she did CS. A rich lady who gave birth there to book CS.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by descarado: 2:40pm On Sep 09, 2023
Nazgul:

For real?

I've heard it in church countless times during testimony sessions.

You'll hear things like...Praise the Lord. I want to thank God for not allowing me deliver my child through CS. The doctor told me that I should get ready to be moved to the theater for operation, but I called daddy and he prayed with me on the phone and told me that CS is not my portion. And to the glory of God, I delivered before I was taken into the theater, the God of the Hebrew women appeared in the hospital and saved me from CS.

Then she would drop seed on the altar and leave.


Some Africans are gullible.
This is not so funny but im rolling cheesy cheesy cheesy

You just captured it.

If she said she had CS, the glory will not go to the pastor that's why they don't support it and when the glory don't go to him, less money cheesy
It's business strategy.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by descarado: 2:43pm On Sep 09, 2023
Uniquekriss:
How many children do you have through CS and what are the likely effects to a woman's body and mind
Google is there for any question you have or go to your hospital and chat up with the gyneo.
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by descarado: 2:48pm On Sep 09, 2023
Emusan:


How can you say CS is painless?

Have you been with a woman who undergone CS before?
Cs is pain-free unless you went to a quack hospital.

That's the best thing to have happened to a pregnant woman.

I opted to give birth through cs for all my kids.
Not ready to push. I have phobia for strong pain.

None up to an hour.

Woke up and ate full meal( even though I shouldnt)

Life continued
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by descarado: 2:50pm On Sep 09, 2023
Mummyfour:
that's why when men treat women that have gone through this experience with so much wickedness, it breaks my heart.

I congratulate your wife for this your comment and God bless you real good as you keep it up
U don't mean it shocked shocked

We are so ignorant and daft.

If tomorrow, I carry belle, I will opt for cs again.
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by occfx: 2:51pm On Sep 09, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?

My brother I don ask this question tire... The funny part is the women who use CS don't want other women to know they used CS. I don't understand honestly. Women psychology is something men will never understand.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by DenreleDave(m): 3:22pm On Sep 09, 2023
Uniquekriss:
How many children do you have through CS and what are the likely effects to a woman's body and mind

Skyview01 pls do u mind answering this?
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by olamilarks(m): 3:28pm On Sep 09, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?
Religion, Belief that women who give birth thru CS are weak. CS babies have different gut bacterial compared to vaginal babies...
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by emmabest2000(m): 3:31pm On Sep 09, 2023
izonborn098:
Caeseran section or delivery' cs.
Majority of african women are living in the past plus the african mentality except the few educated ones...
What you critize and hate is other people's top priority... What others hate and critize is your top priority.. Just as you was insulting the innocent nigerians boys for going after white women.. That is life for you...
Till today 70% of nigerian women take a surrogate kid as an abnormal being...

CESAREAN SECTION not Caeseran section

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by GboyegaD(m): 3:41pm On Sep 09, 2023
Nazgul:

For real?

I've heard it in church countless times during testimony sessions.

You'll hear things like...Praise the Lord. I want to thank God for not allowing me deliver my child through CS. The doctor told me that I should get ready to be moved to the theater for operation, but I called daddy and he prayed with me on the phone and told me that CS is not my portion. And to the glory of God, I delivered before I was taken into the theater, the God of the Hebrew women appeared in the hospital and saved me from CS.

Then she would drop seed on the altar and leave.

The problem here is that there are other women who are seated in that congregation that gave birth through CS, how would they feel hearing that kind of testimony, does it mean that their own God is dead, are these ones better than them, is giving birth through CS an abomination, why not just thank God for safe delivery and drop the mic without condemning CS?

Some Africans are gullible.

The bolded in my opinion is the issue because they are bothering themselves with what is not their concern.

That the God of the Hebrew one came through for them doesn't mean He did not come through for those who gave birth through CS. People should start minding their relationship with their God because He attends to us individually.
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Mummyfour(f): 3:52pm On Sep 09, 2023
Westerhoffe:



She's going to be the happiest woman ever.
thank youđź‘Ťđź‘Ť
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by ayandee: 4:21pm On Sep 09, 2023
Myer:


I mean the operation/process. Some pain can be numbed with analgesics
CS recovery is no joke. The pain you feel after the analgesics and numbness wear off... that first walk to the bathroom.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Uniquekriss(m): 4:38pm On Sep 09, 2023
descarado:

Google is there for any question you have or go to your hospital and chat up with the gyneo.
There's a difference between getting counsel from a professional and learning from someone who has a similar experience. Google won't tell you about the experience so just allow her respond
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 09, 2023
Uniquekriss:
How many children do you have through CS and what are the likely effects to a woman's body and mind

I will get back to you pls
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 09, 2023
DenreleDave:


Skyview01 pls do u mind answering this?

I will in a moment later today bros.
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Myer(m): 4:46pm On Sep 09, 2023
ayandee:

CS recovery is no joke. The pain you feel after the analgesics and numbness wear off... that first walk to the bathroom.

I know. I've had a NDE before that needed operation. It took me about a month to fully recuperate.

Neither of it is painless. I simply meant relatively. Due to the analgesic the pain of CS is relatively less. Though the healing takes longer than natural birth.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Musty4ahmed1: 5:00pm On Sep 09, 2023
Please can a woman under go third cesarean section haven previously undergone two successful ones. Thanks!
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by professore(m): 5:03pm On Sep 09, 2023
Jeezuzpick:
As someone who's had 2 kids born through C-section (ọmọ, I pity my wife meeeehn!) I can tell you it's a traumatic experience for the woman and her husband.

Still, it's a safe method of delivery if pre-planned and executed well, because the process is controlled with little unknowns lurking in the weeds.

That PUSH! PUSH!! PUUUUSSSH! ehn?

I don't even know which is more strenuous for the woman sef. The CS hurts for longer and can have greater risk of issues like infection of the surgery site, but, like I said, if planned and done well, it's not bad.

My wife was already quarrelling with me a week after our first was born.

I was driving her and the baby home after they were discharged from hospital. She was vexing at my driving! grin

I was frowning at the wheel, but laughing and jumping for joy on the inside.

She and I have been through a lot over the years.....I love her more than before.
God bless you for loving your wife. I like men who love their wives.
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Smartdoctor: 5:08pm On Sep 09, 2023
Nigerians and their mentalities. Even the educated ones are no different from the gullible Nigerians. How can you assumed that if a woman opts to give birth by being operated on is act of educated person. Una mumu for his country eh.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by caandi: 6:12pm On Sep 09, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?
that’s black man mentality for you!

A quick one!

I had a patient who had pre-eclampsia during her pregnancy, she’s a primigravida.
She was advised to carry out a selective ceaseran to avoid further complications prior to delivery

Her hubby blantly refused !

What was his reason? He said In his village no one deliveres thru that means and his wife won’t be the first.

She went into labour and for 4days she was in pains and labour was not progressing at all, she was stuck at 2 cervix dilation…

Atlast she went into epileptic shock and upon insertion baby had passed the meconuim already which was a very bad sign

Now it became a need for emergency CS!
It was the hubby’s sister that signed the form to commence surgery saying God forbid the lady wouldn’t die!

The hubby was looking like a lost puppy and crying crocodile tears while his wife battled for her life!

That day was hot for all of us as all the hcp had to rally around this woman in the theatre to save her life.

Thank God she delivered and the baby was resuscitated and later transferred for further treatment

Guess what the hubby was doing while we were operating on the wife, he went and called all this church ministry people to come to start kabashing in the Hospital, thereby causing Comotion with their noise

Our Md had to beckon on the gateman to walk them out!

What was the hubby’s gain? He spent more money for ER CS with advanced treatment for the child at the expense of the woman’s life!


Hmmm our problem in Nigeria is pure illiteracy and ignorance!

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by caandi: 6:13pm On Sep 09, 2023
DenreleDave:


Does women mock women that gave birth through Cs again?

If it is true, then women are the most thoughtless being in the womanhood of the universe... Like who makes a mockery of such

This is the first time I'm hearing such in my life ooo
they do this a lot
Esp people in the rural areas!

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by caandi: 6:15pm On Sep 09, 2023
Myer:


1. The birth-pang of natural birth is symbolic.
It normally should change a woman forever. It's a NDE that should make one put life and legacy in perspective.
It's difficult not to care for such a child when you know the cost of delivering them.

2. Nigerians don't appreciate CS. In Nigeria CS is also a NDE as some doctors can easily botch the process carelessly. Of course there's the cost implications.
However where it is painless, some mothers don't get that sense of essence of child-birth that instils a sense of purpose, legacy and responsibility into a woman.

I hope this helps.
lmao
Cs painless??
Do you know we have epidural Vaginal birth

The woman won’t feel the pangs of childbirth as they inject her spine

Cs comes with its own pains esp after the woman has come around from the theatre.

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Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by Nobody: 6:17pm On Sep 09, 2023
DenreleDave:


Skyview01 pls do u mind answering this?

More than three. I am a guy and the likely effect i can think about is the scar, takes longer to heal than vaginal delivery.

My wife had good doctors though and for the last child, my wife mandated that I be in the room during surgery to witnesses everything.

The cons:

1. Cost consideration.
2. Scars take longer to heal.
3. Take a longer time to recover.

Pros;

1.Relatively safe.
2.Vagina is intact for the hubby after childbirth. No tear .
3. It is faster. Less than 30 minutes to complete the CS procedures.
4. Less pain as my wife was sedated and unconscious.

All in all, you must have good doctors and if you would consider CS, i would recommend not more than two times if possible.
Re: Some People Talk Carelessly. by caandi: 6:24pm On Sep 09, 2023
I will also like to add
Pls if I were to choose cs in naija and abroad I’ll prefer abroad cos how do you explain a doctor removing the woman’s kidney or forgetting gauze or surgical blade in the woman’s body?

Niaja is still far behind that’s why our politicians fly abroad for even ordinary eye checkup

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