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Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by CJStarz: 1:06pm On Oct 07, 2023
E be like say u be winch wey no wan make im son get married. That must be why he no gree tell you. Baba,better repent o

MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by LordReed(m): 1:06pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

He doesn't need your permission because he is an adult.

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Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by finallybusy: 1:06pm On Oct 07, 2023
If this story is true, how old is the father?
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by saysoo: 1:07pm On Oct 07, 2023
Can you hear yourself? Imagin, So you want kids on NL to advice an over sixty years old person?
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by brainhgeek(m): 1:07pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

That's a big mistake. Longing to teach him a lesson! An adult at 37yrs. By the way, you need to tell us why he decided to get married without your blessing. Something must be wrong somewhere sir. We need to know how it all started.

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Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by RALPHOW(m): 1:07pm On Oct 07, 2023
I think you should be happy that the guy take bold decision to settle down.

What he needs at his age is your blessing and not approval please

Oyinbo may not even inform you till after 10years, he may just come home one day after 3 kids. And he may still be successful.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by sauceEEP(m): 1:09pm On Oct 07, 2023
What he did is clearly wrong, undoubtedly; however, it is likely that something transpired between the two of you, which led him to make such a drastic decision.

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Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Hotice085: 1:09pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?


You are foolish
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by AuthorMan: 1:11pm On Oct 07, 2023
FOJEM:
Did you seek your son's approval before bringing him to this world?

Just imagine grin

It just dey hungry me to slap some OPs for this platform.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by spencekat(m): 1:11pm On Oct 07, 2023
Angelfrost:


You almost made sense till you resorted to "Age shaming".

What is wrong in marrying at 37??![/b] Who told you there is a perfect or late marriage?!![b]

A man can even choose to stay single for life, then later change his mind in his late 40s.

Every choice is good as long as it suits the person involved.

Ask am oo
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Okiton: 1:13pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

Ur 37 year old son got married and you are asking us how to teach him lessons. You must be a very evil human

I won't believe you are real
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by obaidan: 1:13pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
1. He doesn't need your approval/permission to get married. He only needs approval of the person he wants to get married to. He can even rent witnesses.

2. However, you may need to tell us the entire story. Did u ever tell him you don't like who he's dating and won't support his marriage to the person? Just d same way lots of our African parents do.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by idanone(m): 1:15pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
you might have done something bad to him. Talk to him peacefully you both correct ur selves
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by emmanuelewumi(m): 1:18pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?


You can teach him a lesson by being highly successful in what you do.


By the way your son is an adult, live and let live

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Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Nextt: 1:19pm On Oct 07, 2023
Many folks here capitalise on the safety that anonymity brings and spew insults on persons they will bathe with address of respect should they meet in person.

A man asked what he should do over the disrespect of his 37 year-old son in marrying without his consent. Very rude behaviour you will find in the way many responded to his enquiry. I bet their legs will buckle, and their lips will seem heavy like 30-feet container if asked to repeat what they have said here to him in person.

One of them managed to bring religion into the matter to insult God while dishing out acid from her tongue in the name of a better person. Disrespectful generation. You will have what you sow.

Respect people, folks.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by MrBroke(m): 1:20pm On Oct 07, 2023
Buy a marker and a white board with some books to start the lesson. Hope you teach him a very good lesson
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by PepeXKermit: 1:20pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

the intent behind this post is the reason why your son got married and did not inform you. such a wicked dad. smh
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Phred1717: 1:22pm On Oct 07, 2023
Maybe you've chased out lot of his friends
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Bostin(m): 1:22pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
Maybe you have failed him as a father , become his friend and seek forgiveness .
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Enculer2: 1:22pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

Stupid parent. You are a failed parent to have gotten to this stage.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by PsychoTheRapist: 1:22pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
Must you approve of a full grown man (37year old) before he makes his choice?

Premitive parent
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Enculer2: 1:23pm On Oct 07, 2023
Nextt:
Many folks here capitalise on the safety that anonymity brings and spew insults on persons they will bathe with address of respect should they meet in person.

A man asked what he should do over the disrespect of his 37 year-old son in marrying without his consent. Very rude behaviour you will find in the way many responded to his enquiry. I bet their legs will buckle, and their lips will seem heavy like 30-feet container if asked to repeat what they have said here to him in person.

One of them managed to bring religion into the matter to insult God while dishing out acid from her tongue in the name of a better person. Disrespectful generation. You will have what you sow.

Respect people, folks.

You need redemption
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by obaidan: 1:23pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
I see why he didnt tell you, you must have been a wicked and terrible and unpleasant human being
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by IamMobisola(f): 1:23pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?
No wonder why your son got married without your permission sir, just imagine what your intentions are. You want to teach him a lesson?

With due respect sir, let your son be. He has his reasons and from your write up we can all see the reason he did that.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by PsychoTheRapist: 1:24pm On Oct 07, 2023
wittywriter:



Harsh but apt mention...calm down ma'am budaatum lolz

I'm not that gender though...





Wittyness.
You don fvck Calypso before? cool
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by mabea: 1:24pm On Oct 07, 2023
Your permission at 37? Hmmm. Just pray for him to succeed biko
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by emerged01(m): 1:25pm On Oct 07, 2023
captianfreeman:
Oga. Your son does not need your approval to get married. He only need your blessing.

Don't be too petty please.

Why una dey talk like this?
This isnt how to advise him to settle differences between them. Marriage pass wetin una dey think. He needs his father as much as he is alive. E get wetin go happen for marriage wey dem go look for the mother or the father.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by regenerateman(m): 1:25pm On Oct 07, 2023
Allow the guy to marry and avail him your blessings before the court will declare you as a busy-body or medller or an interloper. The guy is 37 years old, which means, he is a full fledge adult and capable of entering into a valid contract. Don't teach him a lesson, but give him your blessing.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Wiinnd(m): 1:25pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

This what quote on Quota. Don't invite curse to yourself because you wan dey front page
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Tims4all(m): 1:29pm On Oct 07, 2023
You should be glad he is married now.
Why did you stop him from getting married all this while.
You should send him wedding gifts ASAP.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by OkukoIgbo: 1:29pm On Oct 07, 2023
sgtponzihater1:


Forget about teaching him a lesson. Leave judgement to God senior man.

Any son marrying against is parents wishes make a very foolish decision and only the mercies of God that keep that man.

which mercies of God?
Fake pastor.
A man will leave his parents house and join to his wife and become one with her, your bible no get that one?
IF his parents were bastards, he should keep doing what?
ALL of una na bastards though.
Re: My Son Is Getting Married Without My Approval. by Freeko4: 1:30pm On Oct 07, 2023
MrUchenna1:
My 37-year-old son got married without my permission. How can I teach him a lesson?

You sound like a controlling and authoritative person, guess thats the reason your son chose to sideline you in making this important decision. Imagine you trying to teach your matured married son a lesson 😂.

Because you are his father so he should get permission from you to get married. This your post doesn't sound well to me. All your son needs from you is your blessing not your permission or approval.

Don't make things worse.

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