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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 4:49pm On Oct 08, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
โ–  It has a way of skewing the brain. This affected my friend that he has no reservations when it comes to the opposite sex.
โ–  He sexualised every girl!
What do you mean when you say your friend has no reservations when it comes to the opposite sex? undecided

2. What do you mean? undecided
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by essentialone(m): 4:49pm On Oct 08, 2023
Those who have no kids are giving advice.

Let us listen to them.
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Acidosis(m): 4:51pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Across Africa? The second picture is of Nigerians in Nigeria today. undecided

I personally have yet to abandon all the shame I was raised with were body image is concerned. But a couple of years ago, I went on a naked bike ride here in Chicago with a hundred other nude individuals and that helped me mentally disconnect some from that bad upbringing that attached shame to the body. But I continue to work on it and when I finally do, maybe then. undecided


Canada has probably done some damage to your psyche.

I'm here in Nigeria, Africa. I don't walk the street naked and I'm completely indifferent about my body. My unclothedness is my unclothedness. Just like my account balance. My refusal to grant you access to my privacy (unclothedness or account balance) does not denote shame.

I don't need to feel proud or ashamed about a perishable body. You can be indifferent or proud and still cover yourself. Your psyche is damaged. Stop accusing Nigeria, Africa for whatever you may have gone through. If you were victimised or abused as a kid in Nigeria, a psychologist is what you need, not na. ked-riding.

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by davefieldpop(m): 4:51pm On Oct 08, 2023
My wife do these to my boys, i cautioned she wouldnt change.
But for me to sleep with my boxers exposing my junk, thats when she will let me know I have got a 4 year old daughter.
For someone that walks about the house nude, aint that hypocritical?

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Savechild23: 4:51pm On Oct 08, 2023
Morally, ethically and religiously wrong at all shades and fonts

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by themanderon: 4:51pm On Oct 08, 2023
VinnyBaba:


Hehehe.๐Ÿ˜

Anybody that Tries to Argue with this Kobojunkie Fellow go EXPLAIN Tire! ๐Ÿคจ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„


That one na devils child. She get the biggest sized demon of argument living in her.

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by VinnyBaba: 4:54pm On Oct 08, 2023
themanderon:



That one an devils child. She get the biggest sized demon of argument living in her.

Lolss.

Even his Gender is UNCLEAR and can lead to Another Arguments. ๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„

Today Man, Tomorrow Woman! ๐Ÿ˜•
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 4:55pm On Oct 08, 2023
Acidosis:
โ–  Canada has probably done some damage to your psyche. I'm here in Nigeria, Africa. I don't walk the street naked and I'm completely indifferent about my body. My unclothedness is my unclothedness. Just like my account balance. My refusal to grant you access to my privacy (unclothedness or account balance) does not denote shame. I don't need to be proud or ashame about a perishable body. It is a body, carrying a soul that will ultimately depart some day.
Somehow you always seem to come back at me like someone wey get ogogoro in his system all of the time. undecided

Who said anything about people walking around naked for crying out loud? Who said anything about you walking around naked because other people do it? What said anything about being proud or not proud about anything? Abeg dey waka pass me if you no fit engage in a sane manner. What the heck! undecided
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Acidosis(m): 4:56pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Somehow you always seem to come back at me like someone wey get ogogoro in his system all of the time. undecided

Who said anything about people walking around naked for crying out loud? Who said anything about you walking around naked because other people do it? Abeg dey waka pass me if you no fit engage in a sane manner. What the heck! undecided


Na you talk say you dey bu.tt.-ride across Canada to cure whatever Africa has done to you. I'm just here offering some therapy.

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 4:57pm On Oct 08, 2023
Acidosis:
โ–  Na you talk say you dey bu.tt.-ride across Canada to cure whatever Africa has done to you. I'm just here offering some therapy.
See what I mean? Also talking like someone who is mentally disconnected. Are the women in the picture here not Nigerians living right there in Nigeria? Get away! undecided

Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by profmallor: 4:59pm On Oct 08, 2023
Oh, thanks for additional info, so its illegal then, they should be arrested immediately.

erico2k2:

They are braking the law if they are in the UK cos its classed as indecent exposure, If the kid's teacher ever finds out, parents are in trouble with Social Services. This is the reason social services prioritise giving a mother with two kids boy and girl a two bedroom flats over a mother with two girls in a one bedroom flat.
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 5:01pm On Oct 08, 2023
erico2k2:

They are braking the law if they are in the UK cos its classed as indecent exposure, If the kid's teacher ever finds out, parents are in trouble with Social Services. This is the reason social services prioritise giving a mother with two kids boy and girl a two bedroom flats over a mother with two girls in a one bedroom flat.
I put it to you that you are lying.
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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Acidosis(m): 5:02pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
See what I mean? Also talking like someone who is mentally disconnected. Are the women in the picture here not Nigerians living right there in Nigeria? Get away! undecided


So what exactly am I supposed to do with these pictures? Why do you feel the need to see someone else's unclothedness? Are you an anatomist?

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by erico2k2(m): 5:04pm On Oct 08, 2023
profmallor:

Oh, thanks for additional info, so its illegal then, they should be arrested immediately.

Depends, Mum and the girls are Ok to an extent cos girls can share shower even as grown adults but not of the opposite sex.ie Dad.
Imagine if this topic was in their class and the girl goes Oh by the way my dad gets naked i n front of me. The teacher will go ballistic!
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by grandstar(m): 5:04pm On Oct 08, 2023
Nudity is something sacred. It can lead to a lot of sorrow if not treated that way (Read Proverbs 27:12)

You'd be shocked how much children know. Trust me, something will tell the 10 year old he shouldn't be seeing their private parts.
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by erico2k2(m): 5:05pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
I put it to you that you are lying.

Six places you can strip off in London
I'm struggling to understand why you cant comprehend that the fotos you are showing are that of Adults not Minors
Can 12 year old do this where you live??Why don't you try and post naked fotos of kids from you area or state where you live and see how fast you go to jail like yesterday

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by grandstar(m): 5:06pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
See what I mean? Also talking like someone who is mentally disconnected. Are the women in the picture here not Nigerians living right there in Nigeria? Get away! undecided

These are most likely the Goma people. They are also Hill people. They fled to the hills to evade being captured and sold into slavery
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 5:07pm On Oct 08, 2023
erico2k2:
โ–  I'm struggling to understand why you cant comprehend that the fotos you are showing are that of Adults not Minors
Can 12 year old do this where you live??
The topic is adults being naked in front of children. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by lebienconnu: 5:08pm On Oct 08, 2023
WRONG
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by erico2k2(m): 5:08pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
The topic is adults being naked in front of children. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Yes we know that and its inappropriate not even in front of your own kids cos like we now know, Girl kids could like girls from a younger age.
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 5:09pm On Oct 08, 2023
grandstar:
โ–  These are most likely the Goma people. They are also Hill people. They fled to the hills to evade being captured and sold into slavery
That doesn't make them any less Nigerians, right? And they exist to this day, do they not? And their kids are likely not even close to as hypersexualized as those of the religious groups out there who believe the body is some sacred nonsense that needs to be covered up. undecided
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 5:10pm On Oct 08, 2023
erico2k2:
โ–  Yes we know that and its inappropriate not even in front of your own kids cos like we now know, Girl kids could like girls from a younger age.
You claimed it is illegal in London for adults to go naked in front of kids and I showed that your claim is false. Now you resort to cooking up even more false hoods. Are you kidding me? undecided
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by grandstar(m): 5:11pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
That doesn't make them any less Nigerians, right? And they exist to this day, do they not? And their kids are likely not even close to as hypersexualized as those of the religious groups out there who believe the body is some sacred nonsense that needs to be covered up. undecided

I am not condemning the practice. The kids won't feel a thing as it is the practice there.

However, where it isn't the practice, one needs to be very careful

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by bigtt76(f): 5:15pm On Oct 08, 2023
Wrong and could traumatise them when they grow up



omoharry:
I had an argument with a friend who told me she and her husband have no problem undressing completely in the presence of thier 10 and 7 years old children ( A boy and a girl ) and they see no problem walking around the house in that state .They are base in the UK and she is surprised I am against it ..they believe with thier style of parenting Thier children would easily be aware of the changes in their body when they attain puberty .

I am not really cool with this and I believe children can be made to understand their bodies still when they attain puberty without parents exposing themselves completely naked in front of them, especially when they are above 4 years old and they are beginning to understand Thier environment. Maybe I am too conservative about this but I would like to hear from you ..

So, guys , at what age do you stop exposing your unclothedness before your kids ?
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by erico2k2(m): 5:16pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
You claimed it is illegal in London for adults to go naked in front of kids and I showed that your claim is false. Now you resort to cooking up even more false hoods. Are you kidding me? undecided
You showed a photo of an Event not an everyday occurrence, this is a high street .How can one prevent kids from seeing this? Is this same as being in your own house? You know people with this mindset of yours might just be the type that are cooling in government Hotels in the UK cos they see nothing wrong in act that are termed sadist and indecent.
But at this point no point engaging you in this argument as you have had this mindset from you was a toddler .And let me leave you with this, If you think exposing yourself as a full grown woman to you kids boys and girls is correct or not wrong and you find no atom of wrongdoings in it then I say crack on the Lord is your strength
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by erico2k2(m): 5:16pm On Oct 08, 2023
bigtt76:
Wrong and could traumatise them when they grow up



Exactly and they start thinking if they were born in the wrong body or not, nah so E dey start!
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by erico2k2(m): 5:18pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
You claimed it is illegal in London for adults to go naked in front of kids and I showed that your claim is false. Now you resort to cooking up even more false hoods. Are you kidding me? undecided
I just saw this,I thought you claim you live in Chicago? dont 13 year old girls like other 13 year old girls over there? is this me cooking storires?
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 5:21pm On Oct 08, 2023
grandstar:
โ– I am not condemning the practice. The kids won't feel a thing as it is the practice there. However, where it isn't the practice, one needs to be very careful
What is a "practice"? Why is it practiced in one place and not in another? If you, for instance, raised your kids to embrace their humanity down to their body in your home where you live, isn't that this "practice" you speak of? undecided
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by pikechukwu6(m): 5:24pm On Oct 08, 2023
surprisingly๏ผŒMy one year old son saw me and my wife playing marital right... the next day my wife was caring him while laying on seat. The young boy started pushing up and down his waist grin grin grin. My wife alerts me at the spot. From that moment we put Fullstop about nudity in his presence.

This generation is something else. cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by LordReed(m): 5:26pm On Oct 08, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. You mean kind of like how oyinbo dey wear bathing suit dey swim with their kids while Africans feel they need to cover it all up in the name of modesty yet their children are just as hypersexualized from a young age? undecided

2. I have to disagree with this notion that it is wrong or right. I believe it is of great importance to raise children who are very very comfortable with their body and that of others. So long as the parents are not having sex in front of their kids, I don't see anything wrong with it even though I would not go for it myself. undecided

If you are in a situation where your child asks you why you are never naked in their presence how would you respond?
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Ageco(m): 5:27pm On Oct 08, 2023
omoharry:
I had an argument with a friend who told me she and her husband have no problem undressing completely in the presence of thier 10 and 7 years old children ( A boy and a girl ) and they see no problem walking around the house in that state .They are base in the UK and she is surprised I am against it ..they believe with thier style of parenting Thier children would easily be aware of the changes in their body when they attain puberty .

I am not really cool with this and I believe children can be made to understand their bodies still when they attain puberty without parents exposing themselves completely naked in front of them, especially when they are above 4 years old and they are beginning to understand Thier environment. Maybe I am too conservative about this but I would like to hear from you ..

So, guys , at what age do you stop exposing your unclothedness before your kids ?
It's absolutely wrong.
Re: Nudity In Front Of Children.. Right Or Wrong ,? by Kobojunkie: 5:30pm On Oct 08, 2023
LordReed:
โ–  If you are in a situation where your child asks you why you are never naked in their presence how would you respond?
I was raised by a religious mother who attached shame to unclothedness and still does but I continue to work to counteract that programming to this day so that someday I can finally be free to go naked even in front of my kids without second thought. That is what my response would be. undecided

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