https://www.nairaland.com/7850453/how-deal-someone-slept-minor#125960297

Update to the case of my friend's sister


We were finally able to arrest the guy today. He's in his late 30s and is in custody as I type.

Dude is educated but was crying that it's the devil's work... that he didn't know it is wrong to sleep with a 15 year old girl, let alone impregnating her while not married to her.

He begged before taken into custody and promised to take the responsibility, but, boy, it was too late.

My friend's sister will be registered at a government hospital tomorrow and taken care of by the Social Welfare Services going forward. There are four charges against him:

-Defilement of a minor
-Statutory rape
-Refusal to take responsibility

Honestly speaking, I have absolutely nothing against the guy. I just want this girl to be okay.

Some women at the Human Rights Office said he should be sent to jail, others suggested that we should just let him go as long as he guarantees to take care of the girl. Unfortunately, he'll be charged to Court this week

The guy was weeping while on his knee begging me. He said his baby with his wife is just 4 months old and that who will take care of him if he's sent to jail.

The matter is beyond me. I just want this girl, who's like my sister, to be okay. She's already 8 months pregnant with no one taking care of her or no registration done in any hospital, no baby things, absolutely nothing.

If it's to put him behind bars, I don't mind, but any suggestions will be welcomed.


Rocktation, dominique, farano, move to Front Page, please.

To Err is human and to forgive is divine. What he did was absolutely wrong, but forgive him and make sure he takes care of the girl and the unborn child. The child should not be born while the father is in jail. There are some things that won't sound normal but is the right thing to do for reasons beyond comprehension. The girl is pregnant with his child. Don't send him to jail as long as the girl is going to give birth.
A word is enough for the wise.

see where being sexually indisciplined led a grown man?? smh, even if una wan forgive am, una suppose give am one punishment he won't forget in his life, he's only remorseful because he was caught...

anyways, if you guys are to forgive him, he should sign a written agreement to take charge of the responsibilities, else he risks being thrown to jail...

Pls free him

Just free him.
The deed has been done,
If he goes to jail now he might not come back in the next 10years. Automatically the baby father will now be address has an ex convict. And in future the baby won't be happy.
Free him and let him sign documents that he will take full responsibility of the baby and the mother.

how can you say you have nothing against the guy? there's no excuse for pedophilia,if na me I will get angry seeing his crocodile tears because he would have continue if that girl didn't get pregnant.


woze am slap

Mustiboy:
https://www.nairaland.com/7850453/how-deal-someone-slept-minor#125960297

Update to the case of my friend's sister


We were finally able to arrest the guy today. He's in his late 30s and is in custody as I type.

Dude is educated but was crying that it's the devil's work... that he didn't know it is wrong to sleep with a 15 year old girl, let alone impregnating her while not married to her.

He begged before taken into custody and promised to take the responsibility, but, boy, it was too late.

My friend's sister will be registered at a government hospital tomorrow and taken care of by the Social Welfare Services going forward. There are four charges against him:

-Defilement of a minor
-Statutory rape
-Refusal to take responsibility

Honestly speaking, I have absolutely nothing against the guy. I just want this girl to be okay.

Some women at the Human Rights Office said he should be sent to jail, others suggested that we should just let him go as long as he guarantees to take care of the girl. Unfortunately, he'll be charged to Court this week

The guy was weeping while on his knee begging me. He said his baby with his wife is just 4 months old and that who will take care of him if he's sent to jail.

The matter is beyond me. I just want this girl, who's like my sister, to be okay. She's already 8 months pregnant with no one taking care of her or no registration done in any hospital, no baby things, absolutely nothing.

If it's to put him behind bars, I don't mind, but any suggestions will be welcomed.


Rocktation, dominique, farano, move to Front Page, please.

Oga I'm out!
They don release me

Nothing dey happen
Smallie kpekus na fire
Go sleep

AchrafHakimi:


Oga I'm out!
They don release me

Nothing dey happen
Smallie kpekus na fire
Go sleep

No be everything be play-play. Run along, boy

Ha
Madam forgive abeg, if dem check well na una aunties wey dey claim holy nweje dey climb small small boys.
If u jail dis young man who is going to take care of his unborn kid that girl is carrying please let it go.
Who is without sin cast the first stone, Nigerian women.

AchrafHakimi:


Oga I'm out!
They don release me

Nothing dey happen
Smallie kpekus na fire
Go sleep

Sabi boy, chop five.
Na so one Babe wey collect my money chop my dick finished begin talk say na rape - eh

Mustiboy:


No be everything be play-play. Run along, boy

All these eye service wey u carry full body, i sure say e get one Smallie wey u dey torchlight for dark.
Na who dem catch be tief o

Ok...as you don send him to jail bayi, please at least take care of the girl and her baby biko till he gets out of jail.

N.B: One thing for me though was the fact that your friend and you, totally excused the mother and daughter from any blame and said "young girls are lured with money" and poured your fury on the man. Both mom and daughter did wrong too. Should there be no consequences for the mom? Any sort of retribution?
Which I find to be very wrong. Because if that foundational flaw is not corrected, she will get pregnant again, by 19 or 22. Who will you arrest then, me?

A story was told on the redpill thread about a married woman who slept with a young boy in the same compound and was caught. She claimed the boy raped her but he said she lured him with money and gifts and they had bleeped 20 times when the husband wasn't around. The husband arrested the two of them and released the boy the next day and asked him to leave while calling the woman's parents and asking them to take back their daughter. His fury wasn't poured ONLY on that boy but his wife who had the lion's share of the blame and direct connection to him. That's how redpillers think...logical not emotional

Keep quiet.
Did he force her?
I hope you people should be ready to take financial responsibility of the mother and child.

Mustiboy:
https://www.nairaland.com/7850453/how-deal-someone-slept-minor#125960297

Update to the case of my friend's sister


We were finally able to arrest the guy today. He's in his late 30s and is in custody as I type.

Dude is educated but was crying that it's the devil's work... that he didn't know it is wrong to sleep with a 15 year old girl, let alone impregnating her while not married to her.

He begged before taken into custody and promised to take the responsibility, but, boy, it was too late.

My friend's sister will be registered at a government hospital tomorrow and taken care of by the Social Welfare Services going forward. There are four charges against him:

-Defilement of a minor
-Statutory rape
-Refusal to take responsibility

Honestly speaking, I have absolutely nothing against the guy. I just want this girl to be okay.

Some women at the Human Rights Office said he should be sent to jail, others suggested that we should just let him go as long as he guarantees to take care of the girl. Unfortunately, he'll be charged to Court this week

The guy was weeping while on his knee begging me. He said his baby with his wife is just 4 months old and that who will take care of him if he's sent to jail.

The matter is beyond me. I just want this girl, who's like my sister, to be okay. She's already 8 months pregnant with no one taking care of her or no registration done in any hospital, no baby things, absolutely nothing.

If it's to put him behind bars, I don't mind, but any suggestions will be welcomed.


Rocktation, dominique, farano, move to Front Page, please.

Bintabisiriyu2:

All these eye service wey u carry full body, i sure say e get one Smallie wey u dey torchlight for dark.
Na who dem catch be tief o

I'm not like your family members, my oga.

When I was aged 19-20, I would never look at a girl of her age twice, let alone now that I'm in my mid-twenties.

There's nothing okay about sleeping with a girl under the age of 18, absolutely nothing. You can marry her first and do whatever, which is what the Northern people do. Nobody would make noise about that.

That most families don't send the perpetrators of this kinda offence to jail doesn't mean it's normal. Some of us know the law/our rights.

Mustiboy:


I'm not like your family members, my oga.

When I was aged 19-20, I would never look at a girl of her age twice, let alone now that I'm in my mid-twenties.

There's nothing okay about sleeping with a girl under the age of 18, absolutely nothing. You can marry her first and do whatever, which is what the Northern people do. Nobody would make noise about that.

That most families don't send the perpetrators of this kinda offence to jail doesn't mean it's normal. Some of us know the law/our rights.

Keep vomiting sheet, den no give am money ni, the girl no collect money abi?
Na becos our ladies don turn evening newspapers finish that's why guys dey go for younger fresher ones.
Any lady above 30 has been condemn,
We know your type, everybody claims holy on nairaland.

Bintabisiriyu2:


Keep vomiting sheet, den no give am money ni, the girl no collect money abi?
Na becos our ladies don turn evening newspapers finish that's why guys dey go for younger fresher ones.
Any lady above 30 has been condemn,
We know your type, everybody claims holy on nairaland.

Your opinions don't change the law.

If he's eventually sent to jail, it's not my fault. It's the constitution that made provisions for it.

Go and fight the law.

Mustiboy:


Your opinions don't change the law.

If he's eventually sent to jail, it's not my fault. It's the constitution that made provisions for it.

Go and fight the law.

Poor man dey talk of law, kikiki
U no get money u dey call police.
Who never see food chop naim wan do case,
Me i dey laugh you gan ni

Bintabisiriyu2:


Poor man dey talk of law, kikiki
U no get money u dey call police.
Who never see food chop naim wan do case,
Me i dey laugh you gan ni

Lol, na me fùck up dey engage you.

Now bye.

.

Bintabisiriyu2:

All these eye service wey u carry full body, i sure say e get one Smallie wey u dey torchlight for dark.
Na who dem catch be tief o

Bintabisiriyu2:


Keep vomiting sheet, den no give am money ni, the girl no collect money abi?
Na becos our ladies don turn evening newspapers finish that's why guys dey go for younger fresher ones.
Any lady above 30 has been condemn
We know your type, everybody claims holy on nairaland.

@bolded the way evening newspaper nairalanders like Fountainofyouth jewessgratitud3 go look you ehn

This is a dicey situation o


Chai

you guys should forgive him and let him take care of the child oo

Age of consent in southern nigeria needs to be reviewed downwards.
All these small small girls just wan put their bros for trouble.
Well, any girl younger than 17 will be heavily "shenked".
Damn!
Dem wan (don) mess this guy up.