imoh4king:
Guys and ladies, I was linked to a young lady of about 25 that happens to be a single mother (daughter is 5 years old).

I also have a Son, who is 11 years old ( i have separated with his mom). I still pay his tuition fee and send his upkeep.

The issue now is that the new lady introduced to me doesn't have a phone (which I was told that I would buy), her salary as a teacher is really small, and she wants me to send ( sponsor) her to school.

If the girl is really nice and humble but also refuses to disclose what happened BTW her and her child's Father, will you still marry her.

A number of red flags here. Back off and look for some else

imoh4king:


Am from Akwa Ibom while my son's mum is IBO. She left because I wasn't doing well financially then.

If she is not married and you are married you guys should work tins out

imoh4king:


I really wish you Gods guidance and insight because it might become a beautiful love journey or a difficult emotional entanglement depending on the steps you both take especially you.

All information about her shouldn't be from what she tells you solely. There are always other sides of a story. Do your own homework even if it means traveling to find out more about her, her family especially her mother, the kids father etc. Its a life time devotion and commitment, which makes the effort worthwhile.

Dont get me wrong please, single moms are wonderful...I won't mind marrying one if the feeling is mutual and I see the capability and dedication in her.

But one thing you must know; A single mom IN SURVIVAL MODE, has less options about the choice of her man as far as he can cater for her financial shortcomings....
That's where you really need Gods wisdom. Are you just an HELPER to her or THE MAN SHE IS DETERMINED TO SPEND HER LIFE WITH if she had all the basic things of the world.

Use your third eye bro.

thank bro, ....i am working on that ..

Iambro:
stay away from single mothers una no dey hear word 😭
this one single mother come dey give you condition join 😭
ops say she even get boyfriend say she go leave her boyfriend if she see say you serious 🤣
do you know what a woman mean when she says she wants to see how serious you're?
1. Giving her money
2. Buying her all her needs
3. sponsoring her education as you said

From a single mother o... ops please don't be foolish 😂🙏

The nigga na real big olodo mumu

Send us her numbee

imoh4king:

U see that girl eehn, she only want to use u to climb ladder.....but well, its ur problem not mine