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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by BigDawsNet: 3:53pm On Nov 11, 2023
Marry Asian women

Chinese women particularly... they will give you generation peace of mind... they we're brought up and trained to respect dia husbands... trust me...

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by bullabong(m): 3:54pm On Nov 11, 2023
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool At least na woman de CAP dis matters!


If una like make una no hear!


As for me, nothing concern me..


I de ASHAWOO house like dis..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!
Boogyman? Fake account!!
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Mindlog: 3:55pm On Nov 11, 2023
olancho:
I thought this only happens to the Igbos alone. This is the best advice anyone can give to her relatives. I know more than 10 ladies that threw their husbands out of the house in the the USA. It mostly happens to those ones that profess love to their wife and all of them were brought in by their husbands. I know a pharmacist who has a company in USA the wife he married from the village divorced him and claimed all he worked for and threw him out of the house. Women are Jezebel. My own sister who was nothing here went to USA and divorced a man that married her and brought her to USA what was her excuse nothing tangible. African women are wicked it is not only Nigerian women that does it.

Why did the pharmacist not marry any of the women that live in the US, who he would not have to waste money and time to bring over from Nigeria?

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Luckysbab: 4:05pm On Nov 11, 2023
DKM123:


Ozuo! How this your s£nseless statement take correlate. Ewu Gambia.

Okay, you can't.

Keep wailing.
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Boogyman557: 4:06pm On Nov 11, 2023
bullabong:
Boogyman? Fake account!!
Holly Gram cool how bro..


Na this one account i de use since..


Abi the name don change and I no notice am..


WTF MAN!

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by HaneefahRN(f): 4:11pm On Nov 11, 2023
Who is this mumu
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by jedisco(m): 4:14pm On Nov 11, 2023
luminouz:


Lies. A South African and a Tanzanian babe changed that outlook for me. Don't get me started on Eastern Europeans. They have some of the best ladies out there. I will admit I have dated good naija girls because I screen thoroughly but saying not one submissive girl dey outside naija, that means NA YOU NEVER STEP OUTSIDE AIRPORT!!!

Why not marry the many South Africans, Tanzanian or Eastern Europeans Mr Screener?

The fact you're so hung on 'submission' says alot. That would even be considered offensive in many parts.

Don't worry, there are many Chadian and Congolese ladies who are 100% submissive... go and marry

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by 43Ronin: 4:14pm On Nov 11, 2023
only simps & low self-esteem niggers go back to marry naija girl after hustling graveyard shifts to make it.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by jedisco(m): 4:16pm On Nov 11, 2023
Metrofox:


Oh really? I wonder what the Arabs, Indian and Chinese cultures think of that

Like I said, the privileges you enjoy her would not be replicated anywhere.

How many Nigerians are in Arab, or East Asian nations married to 'submissive' Arab or Chinese ladies?

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by 360command: 4:25pm On Nov 11, 2023
chloride6:
You can still hear the village in her accent.

You can bring the girl out of the village but you can’t bring the village out of the girl.
I understand you but don't talk that way. There is no need for that. That's who she is, I am rather happy for her having that "village accent" or she speaking in her mother tongue rather than some African who speaks in a "local acquired foreign accent". I hate it to the core.
People like you will be happy with a white American woman speaking in her country accent but when your fellow Nigerian speaks in her country accent you call it village in a negative way..

I have a beninoi friend, she is French but struggles with her English despite she finishing from the University. This girl, despite her accent owns a salon here in America employing 3 Nigerian girls who speaks better English.

Know how you talk to people..

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Mom007(f): 4:30pm On Nov 11, 2023
Truth and nothing but. Same thing I told my brother when he said he wants to sponsor his wife to UK through school route.. Men if you have ears, please listen, e get why.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Luckysbab: 4:34pm On Nov 11, 2023
DKM123:


Ode! Shebi you came.to wail over my comment.. Wailing kee you dia!

I'm here to rub in your hurt. Cry more.

Nagging pussy.
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by victorVIC1(m): 4:37pm On Nov 11, 2023
To each his own. I was talking with a colleague two weeks ago. He emphasised how he is everly grateful to God for moving with his wife as his wife was very supportive during his study year. She was literally working day and night to bridge the gap.

What is the essence of marrying someone if you can't be with them? You just have to be strategic. For me, I had to become the major applicant to minimise risk. If tomorrow, there is a sudden change in attitude, atleast I know my visa is not dependent on anyone

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by ConfidentialDoc: 4:42pm On Nov 11, 2023
Women are now so evil...it takes one to know one.

Blood is involved here or this video wouldn't have seen the light of day.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by TheRealestGuy(m): 4:49pm On Nov 11, 2023
Princewell2012:

You're right this morning my wife was trying to be rude to me and I told her can your pastor wife behave in such manner, she comfortably replied me that her pastor is the one that goes to the market to buy food ingredients, so I told her what is the evidence? She said her pastor openly said it in church.
You see our women are not ready to be submissive even the so called Christians among them.
How much traveling them abroad, they can even plan your deportation.

So you can't go groceries or food shopping because you're a man?

Wonders shall never cease walahi grin grin grin

Make sure you don't cross Seme border with that woman cos she will show you unbridled shege!

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by djon78(m): 4:59pm On Nov 11, 2023
Truths9ja:
Hmm 🤔. Na true talk ooo

“Why I Won’t Allow My Brother To Bring A Wife From Nigeria”- Woman Voices [Video]

Nigerian woman has caused a clash of opinions online after she explained why she won’t support her brother if he wants to get married to a lady based in Nigeria and take her overseas.

According to her, she doesn’t want her brother to end up in a mental institution as a result of heartbreak, as many of those women based in Nigeria and lucky to land ‘abroad husbands’ —according to the poster— are heartless.


The angry narrator
The angry lady went on to advise men to strive to sign a prenuptial agreement before they tie the knot with their prospective wives.

“Marriage is now a business”, she said.

Many Nigerians didn’t agree with the Nigerian woman, who claimed to have put herself in the shoes of a typical Nigerian man.

“Then marry your brother, matchew”, a Nigerian, Ido Ekong slammed the lady.

“Everybody have different experiences sha”, another netizen, De Bishop explained, waving away the poster’s explanation as a personal opinion —which it is.


https://sabiradio.com/why-i-wont-allow-my-brother-to-bring-a-wife-from-nigeria-woman-voices-video/



There's wisdom here

Because women are unpredictable now

One guy i knew back then came home and married a young babe we were all in university together

The guy na American citizen
He kept the Babe here she born 4 children for Him

When the kids were in there teens he relocated them with there Mum to the US

He wanted to be sure
Although the girl na very responsible person
Was in school fellowship then in the university



Another guy married university babe kept her here
She born 4 for Him
The guy holds German passport

Later opened a very big school for her in lekki
She still runs the school
Well taken care of
Latest automobiles
There own mansion

But till today she never visit am for Germany
He shuttles btw Nigeria and Germany like 4 times in the year

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Metrofox(m): 5:03pm On Nov 11, 2023
jedisco:


Like I said, the privileges you enjoy her would not be replicated anywhere.

How many Nigerians are in Arab, or East Asian nations married to 'submissive' Arab or Chinese ladies?

Oh this is not a comparison of cultures? I was thinking your point is that only Nigerian men demand submissive women globally

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Noblemanonpoint: 5:04pm On Nov 11, 2023
The western governments are trying so hard to discourage marriages so they can control population growth, Facts.
They're secretly and actively involved in so many policies and support of chemicals in processed food to reduce population.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by ccollins(m): 5:07pm On Nov 11, 2023
Couldntfigurean:
My uncle took a village girl to the USA as a wife
After staying for years,she made friends with some women who adviced that she divorced him,She sued the man for everything he had and is worth,the man died homeless in the streets of America
She told the kids that they are Americans and never lets anybody near or contact the kids

Both families(hers and her husband’s) are waiting for her in Nigeria
since it happened many years ago. There’s a likelihood that the woman is already an American and she has moved on from Nigeria. She will likely not come back to Nigeria. That’s the situation of things

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Mindlog: 5:09pm On Nov 11, 2023
43Ronin:
only simps & low self-esteem niggers go back to marry naija girl after hustling graveyard shifts to make it.

What is the percentage of local women in that country the guy is hustling graveyard shifts would be attracted to his quality of life?

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by djon78(m): 5:10pm On Nov 11, 2023
TheRealestGuy:


So you can't go groceries or food shopping because you're a man?

Wonders shall never cease walahi grin grin grin

Make sure you don't cross Seme border with that woman cos she will show you unbridled shege!



Hahaha make him no try am at all

Some Men can't even do basic house chores

My sister's husband is like that
He can't even boil hot water

If he wants to travel
The nannies pack his luggage

His only savior is he is rich big Man

My sister was telling me her experience with the husband when she went to deliver in the US
There second baby

Oga brought them to US
Dropped them and returned to Nigeria
When she was due to deliver he came a day

Oga couldn't do anything when she delivered
Even to bath the first child thar was 2 years was problem
All he knew was his laptop, phone, TV

She said they quarreled till they returned to Nigeria 😂

Some Men doesn't know anything about domestic work

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by DKM123: 5:11pm On Nov 11, 2023
Luckysbab:


I'm here to rub in your hurt. Cry more.

Nagging pussy.


LMAO! What exactly are you rubbing? Immature old ph00l. Nagging old man with baby balls.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Mindlog: 5:17pm On Nov 11, 2023
Mom007:
Truth and nothing but. Same thing I told my brother when he said he wants to sponsor his wife to UK through school route....That right from the airport when you land the immigration guys are telling the woman that she is the authority now and the power lies with her... in d presence of her husband... Men if you have ears, please listen.

The same UK immigration officers whey me and my family pass through at the airport?

Whoever told you that is bloody lying.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by Luckysbab: 5:17pm On Nov 11, 2023
DKM123:


LMAO! What exactly are you rubbing? Immature old ph00l. Nagging old man with baby balls.

Okay kid. Never seen such fake LMAO.

I'll leave you to your misery.
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by mikeapollo: 5:28pm On Nov 11, 2023
descarado:

The way people with low self esteem throw submission around like it's a trophy.
Marriage is no longer partnership but slave and master.
If you have low self esteem, you will value submission from everybody around you including your parents.

The word is not even supposed to cone out of anybody's mouth in this era.

Unless we are in another episode of slave trade which we don't know about.

I disagree. Submission is not slavery. There are very successful career women who are submissive to their husbands. The point is a woman has to know and understand the kind of man that she marries. Once the man is reasonable, ge will value and appreciate the woman more if she is submissive.
It is not only African. It is Iike that in almost every other continent, except probably Europe and and the western world.
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by hobat4cash(m): 5:30pm On Nov 11, 2023
The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

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Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by luminouz(m): 5:42pm On Nov 11, 2023
jedisco:


Why not marry the many South Africans, Tanzanian or Eastern Europeans Mr Screener?

The fact you're so hung on 'submission' says alot. That would even be considered offensive in many parts.

Don't worry, there are many Chadian and Congolese ladies who are 100% submissive... go and marry

I have proven you wrong. Go hång yourself.
Re: Why I Won't Allow My Brother To Bring His Wife Abroad- Nigerian Lady, Arike(vid) by achimendy(m): 5:43pm On Nov 11, 2023
Truths9ja:
Hmm 🤔. Na true talk ooo

“Why I Won’t Allow My Brother To Bring A Wife From Nigeria”- Woman Voices [Video]

Nigerian woman has caused a clash of opinions online after she explained why she won’t support her brother if he wants to get married to a lady based in Nigeria and take her overseas.

According to her, she doesn’t want her brother to end up in a mental institution as a result of heartbreak, as many of those women based in Nigeria and lucky to land ‘abroad husbands’ —according to the poster— are heartless.


The angry narrator
The angry lady went on to advise men to strive to sign a prenuptial agreement before they tie the knot with their prospective wives.

“Marriage is now a business”, she said.

Many Nigerians didn’t agree with the Nigerian woman, who claimed to have put herself in the shoes of a typical Nigerian man.

“Then marry your brother, matchew”, a Nigerian, Ido Ekong slammed the lady.

“Everybody have different experiences sha”, another netizen, De Bishop explained, waving away the poster’s explanation as a personal opinion —which it is.


https://sabiradio.com/why-i-wont-allow-my-brother-to-bring-a-wife-from-nigeria-woman-voices-video/



I agree with her 100%. Many men have suffered from this shit.

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