Within every smiling, nice, cool, good person is a 'Beast.' A 'Beast' that will be unleashed, when the wrong triggers are pulled excessively.

Within every hardened, rough, loud, bad person is a 'Beauty.' A 'Beauty' that will be revealed, when the right buttons are tapped appropriately.

When you must relate with those above you in authority - supervisor, husband (or wife if...), parent, guardian, benefactor, apply as appropriate, then there will be peace. If you don't, 'you go condemn, curse, gossip, cry, explain tire.'

It is more blessed to be the needed than to be the needy.

Yet, you have to determine how, when, who, you make yourself available as the needed.

Because you are not unlimited. Only then will you make the best impact, longer.

Also, never attach your self-worth to being needed. Do so, and suffer the consequences.

When you build your life around people, you have sold your peace to others. You will be tossed to and fro, in accord with their moods and actions.

When you build your life around noble values, your peace is in your hands.

Stick to your noble values, you keep your peace. Divert from your noble values, you become disturbed. At least this time around, you determine the tossing.

Have you ever met someone so deluded, who thinks that by hate, resentment, and bitterness, they are dealing with the other person?

The best thing you can do for such a person is to allow him experience the hate, etc till he realizes that by loving, forgiving, etc, he is actually protecting himself.

Moreso among loved ones, the earlier someone intelligently allows such person to fully explore the realm of hate, resentment, bitterness, etc, the better the explorer will be after hitting rock-bottom.

Till such a person hits that rock bottom on his own, premature interjections by others, isn't to his ultimate benefit.

Initially, baby cries, you rush and take care of what is making her uncomfortable: A change of diaper, food, soothe her to sleep.

Some months after, same baby cries, no one rushes, what will eventually happen?

The baby will pacify herself, by sucking her tongue, finger(s), or any other means and may eventually fall asleep.

Even in infancy, humans are designed to start exhibiting some measure of self-reliance. What stops an adult from doing better?

You must get to that point, when seeming setbacks, don't make you doubt even for one minute, don't even make you take one step backwards.

You must get to that point in your life, when any issue that doesn't contribute to your life's purpose isn't given life through your attention.

You must get to that point, where your words are so so valuable to you, that you only 'chuk' your mouth only in matters that are within your circle of influence, to a person who is within your authority circle or circle of influence.

You must get to that point.

When you securely love someone you will be careful not to set yourself up as the pillar of his life.

Why? It isn't to his benefit. Also, one day you won't be.

Then he will look for another human(s) to become that pillar.

Do this rather, at the early stage of the relationship, teach the person to be self-reliant. Better still teach him to make God his pillar (It's higher than identifying with a religious group). To be God-reliant.

At the start of a period, you set goals, targets which don't manifest at the end of the period.

They don't manifest because you didn't do what ought to be done. You didn't do what ought to be done, because you weren't committed to the goal.

You weren't committed because your emotions led you, rather than the procedure to manifest the goal.

What's the point of goals if you are yet to bring intelligence to your emotions?

What's the point?

What's the point?

At the start of a period, you set goals, targets which manifest at the expense of your health and values.

You are willing to pay with your health and values, because you are attached to the goal. Such that your self-worth is affected by the goal.

You are attached to the goal, because your self-worth stems from these externals, rather than your noble values.

What's the Point, if you are yet to live by your values?

What's the point?

Thanks for the advice.

At the beginning of a day, you can either welcome the day or resist the day.

You welcome the day by beginning it intentionally.

To begin a day intentionally, you must:

1) Decide on a time to wake and wake during that period.

2) Engage in calm-joyful spiri-psycho exercises beneficial to your spirit and mind. E.g., Meditative prayers, Praises, Yoga.

3) Engage in vigorous physical exercises beneficial to your body and mind.

4) In writing plan your day purposefully.

When you welcome the day this way, it makes it easy to be productive, while still maintaining your Spiritual, Emotional and Physical health.

#Constructive thought-words

It's increasingly becoming difficult to see a married man who would help a young lady he isn't related to and not take advantage of her.

It is increasingly becoming difficult to find a young lady who when assisted by a married man, doesn't start getting unnecessarily close, thinking he wants to make her his side chick.

Why is it becoming increasingly difficult to render and accept aid in such circumstance without one or both parties thinking otherwise?

#Constructive Thought Words