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?? by Officiallyme: 10:05pm On Dec 09, 2023
Alright, so I'm going to be as brief as possible.
I met a girl who I asked out and of course, she agreed to date me. She's cool and like everyone has her good and bad sides and I appreciate her.

We've dated for over a month now, but there's something I'm finding hard to get along with. She told me she wants a no swx relationship, which I'm not against, but there's something she said that spoilt everything. She said she lost her virginity when she was around 7 years. According to her, she started f*cking at the age of 7 with normal street kids of her kind. She said she regrets it and doesn't want to allow sex before marriage anymore. I'd have been cool with that decision, but on hearing the story, I just got discouraged and now, it's either she gives me sex or I leave. Hope I'm not too harsh?

Mature minds only.
Re: ?? by SweetBuns(f): 11:40pm On Dec 09, 2023
1. She was willing to place immense trust in you when she exposed her vulnerability and shared a significant and albeit traumatic period of her life when she was likely exploited by older and more experienced boys, all at the tender age of 7.

2. Additionally, she confided in you about her ongoing journey to heal from the emotional trauma caused by that stage in her life, which she is attempting to overcome by refraining from engaging in the very act that caused her distress.

However, instead of acting as a normal human being and show some degree of empathy and mutual understanding, the only response you could come up with in that head of yours seems to be "Give me sex or I will leave."

Really?
That was all you could come up with?
How old are you?

Honestly, I'll be happy if you leave her because the type of boy you are isn't what she's looking for at all.
Please move on and let her heal in peace bikonu

Re: ?? by Tempulated(m): 11:56pm On Dec 09, 2023
SweetBuns:
1. She was willing to place immense trust in you when she exposed her vulnerability and shared a significant and albeit traumatic period of her life when she was likely exploited by older and more experienced boys, all at the tender age of 7.

2. Additionally, she confided in you about her ongoing journey to heal from the emotional trauma caused by that stage in her life, which she is attempting to overcome by refraining from engaging in the very act that caused her distress.

However, instead of acting as a normal human being and show some degree of empathy and mutual understanding, the only response you could come up with in that head of yours seems to be "Give me sex or I will leave."

Really?
That was all you could come up with?
How old are you?

Honestly, I'll be happy if you leave her because the type of boy you are isn't what she's looking for at all.
Please move on and let her heal in peace bikonu

You no dey sleep?

With your big full lips.
Re: ?? by SweetBuns(f): 12:04am On Dec 10, 2023
Tempulated:


You no dey sleep?

With your big full lips.
Why you day track my sleep pattern tongue
Re: ?? by Tempulated(m): 12:10am On Dec 10, 2023
SweetBuns:

Why you day track my sleep pattern tongue

I know you feel very lonely and you need to get laid. I like your lips though, it will do a good job.
Re: ?? by Zaheertyler(m): 12:37am On Dec 10, 2023
LoL
Don't take care of any bill ooo

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Re: ?? by Geovanni412(m): 12:45am On Dec 10, 2023
Officiallyme:
Alright, so I'm going to be as brief as possible.
I met a girl who I asked out and of course, she agreed to date me. She's cool and like everyone has her good and bad sides and I appreciate her.

We've dated for over a month now, but there's something I'm finding hard to get along with. She told me she wants a no swx relationship, which I'm not against, but there's something she said that spoilt everything. She said she lost her virginity when she was around 7 years. According to her, she started f*cking at the age of 7 with normal street kids of her kind. She said she regrets it and doesn't want to allow sex before marriage anymore. I'd have been cool with that decision, but on hearing the story, I just got discouraged and now, it's either she gives me sex or I leave. Hope I'm not too harsh?

Mature minds only.

Here's the thing...

There is no formula

Take note that God, himself, told Hosea to marry a prostitute

In our Lord's prayer, what we say is let thy will be done

So, all this, yen yen, I want a virgin or a good girl is neither here nor there

Sleep over it, weigh the pros and cons of your relationship with her and decide

No woman or man is indispensable... we were all born alone and we will die alone. cool

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