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Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Lamasta(m): 11:42am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Why keeping it secret is my major concern |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:43am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Innobee99:How is your consent required for her to build her own house in her father's compound |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Nice2023(m): 11:43am On Dec 25, 2023 |
hopexter: The problem with most of u immature men here is that,u can't differentiate between opinion and conclusion. See u that isn't a Simp. Just don't grow up,but grow with ur brain,there is a reason for that. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by royalfly(m): 11:44am On Dec 25, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: Shhh. Too much sense is nonsense |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:44am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Lamasta:🤔 Maybe she found out revealing in the vegiymight be counterproductive |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Innobee99(m): 11:46am On Dec 25, 2023 |
baralatie:Keep shut u oh ye SIMP |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:46am On Dec 25, 2023 |
PedoBear:Thank God She is building the house because she has a place to run to 🤣 |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by sammiewrite(m): 11:47am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Depends. If she had been contributing her quota to the running of the home such that it allows me have excess for my own plan B, I would do nothing. On the other hand, if the responsibility of the home rest solely on me whereby I hardly have anything left for my own personal enjoyment or plan B and I made this discovery, I'm dissolving whatever we share together as a fraud would have been committed. A woman I have been paying her rent for donkey years decides to become a landlord secretly behind my back? Like, the money she should have used to support me in paying rent or getting our own apartment she instead decided to use it all for herself? After all I was foolish to continue to allow her live with me rent free, or foolish enough not to have considered a smaller, cheaper and maybe less convenient apartment so that I too can use the excess to start building a house secretly? I just think this can't be me because from the first time I meet you I let you know it is going to be 50-50. Arrangements like this prevent a situation where the man will be denying himself comfort and delaying his growth/plans all because of his wife and kids. Then, there will be his wife who will be using her own money to either sponsor her siblings education or secretly acquiring properties that even her husband cannot afford simply because of her and her kids. 4 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by loswhite(m): 11:47am On Dec 25, 2023 |
immortalcrown:I don't understand all this rubbish sha. Why would a family be doing things in secret? How is that a family in thr first place? I will end marriage with immediate effect. It is not about her giving you the property |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Lamasta(m): 11:48am On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi:A wise woman she is, in this case the husband cannot fault her secrecy |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:49am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Innobee99:Maybe that is why the woman would never consider even informing that she wants to build a house Because of such inferior thinking |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:50am On Dec 25, 2023 |
loswhite:You can't because you don't know how things turned out |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by loswhite(m): 11:51am On Dec 25, 2023 |
jmoore:You don’t have a family so definitely you don't need to do anything. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by loswhite(m): 11:52am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Waffarianman:Of what benefits will that be to the family? If we cannot be family then there is no reason to be together. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by qtx(m): 11:52am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Naijabad:Will secretly send a QS to go and give me estimate of finishing it and i will secretly send the money into her account and send a screenshot of the payment leaving a comment" to support the completion of the building project. Love you." |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:52am On Dec 25, 2023 |
sammiewrite:What happens even your 50:50 arrangement sharing of house financial responsibilities She is secretly building the house in her father's compound |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:53am On Dec 25, 2023 |
qtx:😲😲 Psychological warfare🤣🤣 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:55am On Dec 25, 2023 |
madridguy:It is called significant contribution in the high court |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 11:55am On Dec 25, 2023 |
tetula123: How will you react to the secret? Some secrets are better kept for you to have a good mental health. Do you know that some so called stable family is because of boundaries set and secret kept by the partners 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by loswhite(m): 11:57am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:If you are not married just keep quiet. All this nonsense you type here show you have zero knowledge of what marriage and family is all about. If ppl want to be individuals after marriage why decide to get married? You guys can just have agreement to have kids and move on |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Waffarianman(m): 11:57am On Dec 25, 2023 |
loswhite: No stress your choice |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:58am On Dec 25, 2023 |
latiephwald:What happens as you leave She become commissioner Is it that time you will the lov |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Innobee99(m): 12:00pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
baralatie:I give u now till 2pm to ask 5 men how they'll feel if such situation comes up and give me feedback. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by scrupulousblog: 12:03pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Question the source of the money. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 12:05pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Innobee99:Rather I want to go state by state.Ask women who are married and have built their own houses and those who built houses in the husbands father compound What happened to those houses on the demise of the husband? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 12:07pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
scrupulousblog:She earns #1.5 m per month |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by zoedew: 12:20pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Wish her well and ensure you have a roof over your head in your own name. She signals she prefers to live her life independently of you. Do not buy own anything jointly or in her name! 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by zoedew: 12:26pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
immortalcrown:Correct! A wise husband is advised to not look to the things of his wife. Believe God to financially empower you to do your financial responsibilities in the home. Meanwhile create a family WhatsApp group where all expenses you make in the home, on her and the children is posted for them to see especially because the wife might be inclined to misinform the children to the intent that you are irresponsible! Only God is a true friend worth calling one!! 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by zoedew: 12:28pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Nice2023:Which page? Is it not clear already that she is not even reading the same book with husband let alone the same page. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by zoedew: 12:30pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
madridguy:You will e encouraging her to do more things on her own. I wish you well. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 12:32pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Smart woman . An average Nigerian man can't handle this type of woman. They want a consumer and not a producer, yet they will be complaining why they can't create generational wealth for their children and family. 1 Like
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Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by immortalcrown(m): 12:45pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Innobee99:My philosophy and attitude inspire my comments. Your own philosophy and attitude inspire your own comments. Suit yourself. |
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