randyorton:

Who said nigerian women dont cheat. Well,yoruba Women do cheat.

tpia@:

^^i noticed you've been chasing a certain user called tpia all over the forum, saying you want a.nal s.ex from this person.

i'm sure you're aware tpia is female, so are you coming out of the closet or were you never in there to begin with?


not saying i'm surprised though.

kik1:

cheating on your hubby cant be justified on any level but some husbands can really drive their wives crazy
let just appeal to men to treat their wives with more respect and genuine love. i believe every woman would love and cherish her home as long as she knows her husband loves her deeply

Chuck D:

1: abuse in the home can lead a woman to seek solace outside and if it is a man helping her in such troubled times, she might be tempted.
2: infidelity on the part of the man can cause a woman out of hurt, to want revenge, afterall, na the man first.
3: adventure and fantasy: many women fantasize about the thrills in such acts. the adventure. they may be afraid of doing it but thats what makes it exciting.
4: lack: a woman who lacks some things maybe because the husband cant provide may, in order to help herself or even help her family, drop to such level as to cheat.
5: nature; some women are just plain "bad". their case no get repair. they will sleep with any man that appeals to their senses. these types are extroverted and they move in gangs/bands/flocks (whichever you prefer)
6: sour relationship: if a woman falls out of love with her husband and she needs to get some, well,

Dere I:

9ja women cheat for various reasons but mostly money reasons. I met a lady few weeks back here in Enugu state. She's married with a daughter. She asked me if i knew how to delete messages from facebook due to the new changes and i agreed to assist her. When i was deleting the messages, i perused through it and it was to another man. Then it seemed like she saw the expression on my face then she began talking. "My husband has my password and he opens my email and facebook at will thats why i want to delete the messages". I ignored her and continued with the deletion and she said again :He stays in spain and comes home once in a while". That was when i asked her. Before you got married to him while you were both still dating, was he not based in spain?

So what am trying to say is, Most 9ja women that cheats do not have a reasonable reason to justify their actions. Some says its because their husband "No sabi do", while some says "He's too busy" and others says "He's too poor".


The question is "Why jump into marriage when you cannot condone your partner"?

Sagamite:

You forgot "he was not paying me attention". That is both sufficient in 9ja and the West.

ronkebp:

The truth is Dere I, both men and women are not justified to cheat on their partners, as long as you are married, zip it!!!!!!!!. If you cannot hold body, then there is no need to be married, remain single so that you can ''flenjore'' as many times as you want, with whoever,! at whereever!!!.

Sagamite:

It has been 2 days and I am yet to see the overwhelming NL females' outrage at the thought of cheating that one will have seen if it was a thread where men are giving "reasons" for cheating.

aloy@emeka:

NL ladies are silently and carefully outraged over this issue. That the ladies are not showing explosive signs of outrage doesn't mean it went down well with them.

Sagamite:

Really?

But they will be loudly and carelessly outraged if it was a thread giving excuses of why men cheat?

aloy@emeka:

That is called showing decorum and carefully studying  a situation before casting aspersions. But in the case of cheating men, ladies are so fed up with it because its so common that they don't care to study the situation anymore before going ballistic. Men should be blamed here for dipping their joystick in every honey pot that come their way.