The woman I love has three children. She’s still beautiful for a woman who has three children. I love her. We’ve been dating for one year now.

I took her home and my parents loved her. They expressed their love and acceptance openly to her and that made her feel welcomed. Once she was away, my parents started asking questions about her and I told them everything including the fact that she has three children.

My mom screamed, “No, you won’t marry her.” My Dad continued, “If you want to take care of kids, your brother and sister are still in school. We can leave them for you to continue from there.”

She calls my parents and they are very nice towards her. She visits our home and my parents give her a first-class reception but once she is gone, they gather around me and say, “Don’t get it twisted. We won’t allow you to marry a problem.”

My mind hasn’t changed about her but I feel my parents are not being fair to her. Apart from that, they are also making it difficult for me to let her go. What excuse do I give her as the reason I don’t want her? What do I tell her to convince her that it’s not me but my parents?

She even sends my parents gifts and they accept the gifts wholeheartedly and bless her but once she’s off the picture, they laugh at me and tell me to forget it.

I don’t know how to handle a situation like this. My woman wants us to start the preparation towards marriage. She knows all is set. She blames me when I tell her to give me some time. What should I do to resolve this situation?

—Aaron

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ChatGPT on the beat.

Make I pack my agbadorian bicycle 🚲 here

Marry a problem.

This one cracked me up.

It is possible for such a situation to occur in real life but I know that this your story is fake!

Na wa for you sef o... Why would you even go for a woman of such status and what makes you think your family will allow you marry a woman with three kids? Even if the juju hold you, e no hold your parents now...

Not even one, not two, three!!!!!.... Nwokem abort mission. Not a good way to start life. She's better off with a single father.

Just tell her, it can't work or start giving her the cold shoulder treatment until she gets the message and withdraws.

Marry a problem
lol

Pure Fiction.. This Year no go easy with The introduction of this Chart GPT & Ai Botts ..
We Move nonetheless..

If this is True " I Doubt Though " Tell her That Your Parents Found out she has kids and are Not In Support of you Settling with her.
that's all.

" My mom screamed, “No, you won’t marry her.” My Dad continued, “If you want to take care of kids, your brother and sister are still in school. We can leave them for you to continue from there.”

In Fabrizio Romano's voice...."here we go"
Your Mom&dad have drop quotes for you, left for you to take her offer on the table.

Your mom a woman screamed when she heard how her son is about to witnesses his own funeral. Not one but three kids. Why should you allow yourself to land in a position that even nature has rigorously forbidden.

So you want to train another man's 3 children?

Anyway, the reason you're chasing the woman is because she has money and not because of any yeye love

Is her toto still tight?

Your Father have answered all your questions in summary, If u want take care of kids your younger ones are still in school, u can start from there.

Serious matter ooo.
It is well

Na her toto dey sweet you.
Do you want to train another man's children?

Please listen to your parents; they are right.

E go hard oooooh. As ur people no gree support..
Anyways u can only do that if u r not staying under their roof..
If u av ur own apartment....u need not marry that woman yet.
Just start cohabiting.
In that way... U may discover her hidden characters as well.. don't be quick to marry oooo.
That's what I'd do if I were you
Infact I married oyinbo from Cali.
My mom no support am at all
So when shit went downsouth .. she didnt say nothing n I felt she was happy.. but till today I never marry..and as it is I don't see myself marrying a Nigerian...
Maybe if she had sincerely supported from the bottom of her heart....maybe I for dey enjoy the American dream ooo

They say love is blind but marriage is the eye opener. The lady in the story must be wicked and selfish.I don't know what to call the guy yet as idiot or stupid does not sound strong enough . Anyways , I have a lady friend divorced with 4 children I just hope she is not looking for another husband because she reads Nairaland alot!!! This kind of story sef.