[b][/b] So let me start from the very beginning
My mum is a pastor,she started her church when I was 9 years old. So I and my sister have been using all sorts of jewellery since then up until I was like 18 or 19 sha,after listening to those videos that reigned back then of some people who've died and resurrected,they having experiencing heaven and hell came back to earth to supposedly list what God forbids there and all that. Things like women wearing trousers,women putting on trousers jewellery,attachments,weavon,etc sha. So after watching this video,my mum just woke up one sunday and asked every woman in the church including her mum to take off every jewelry they had on. Omo,I thought it was a one day something
Well,after some years sha,everybody returned to their earrings and all sha,including my grandmum,because we relocated with the church back to Lagos. That's how I've been till now and I'm 27 years,the thing is bothering me because I like being fashionable. I can do without the trousers o but give me earrings please.With my strong head I do attachments,wigs and even light make up now but the jewelries is what I want next. I hate it when people do call me SU . The funny thing is that my mum is really strict and she likes dictating our lives for us.
So when I go to work,i do put on necklace and when i close about getting home i take it off. I've brought up the topic several Tim's but she's always against it,but it's really bothering me .,its making people get the wrong perspective of the person I really am,should I prove stubborn and just go on with what I want?

Omotehanny:
■ Well,after some years sha,everybody returned to their earrings and all sha,including my grandmum,because we relocated with the church back to Lagos. That's how I've been till now,the thing is bothering me because I like being fashionable. I can do without the trousers o but give me earrings please.With my strong I do attachments,wigs and even light make up now but the jewelries is what I want next. I hate it when people do call me SU . The funny thing is that my mum is really strict and she likes dictating our lives for us.
So when I go to work,i do put on necklace and when i close about getting home i take it off. I've brought up the topic several Tim's but she's always against it,but it's really bothering me .,its making people get the wrong perspective of the person I really am,should I prove stubborn and just go on with what I want?

Your parents are simply religiously deluded individuals and nothing more. The God of Israel who gave hold and Jewels to His people in abundance, even had His Temple decorated with Gold all from top to bottom at one point, has absolutely nothing to do with your family's religious issues.

You need to decide for yourself what you want and who you want to be regardless of the delusions those before you cling to. And you need to learn to Stand your ground.

Do what pleases you

Some mum can be on someone's neck ehn, they'll never agree that you've grown and now an adult.

My own mum screen what I wear and I love showing off . Anyways I now dress modestly unlike before.

If you are below 18, they have rights over you... If you are above 18, you can do anything you want as long as it's under the purview of the "Laws of the Land"....

Omotehanny:
[b][/b] So let me start from the very beginning
My mum is a pastor,she started her church when I was 9 years old. So I and my sister have been using all sorts of jewellery since then up until I was like 18 or 19 sha,after listening to those videos that reigned back then of some people who've died and resurrected,they having experiencing heaven and hell came back to earth to supposedly list what God forbids there and all that. Things like women wearing trousers,women putting on trousers jewellery,attachments,weavon,etc sha. So after watching this video,my mum just woke up one sunday and asked every woman in the church including her mum to take off every jewelry they had on. Omo,I thought it was a one day something
Well,after some years sha,everybody returned to their earrings and all sha,including my grandmum,because we relocated with the church back to Lagos. That's how I've been till now and I'm 27 years,the thing is bothering me because I like being fashionable. I can do without the trousers o but give me earrings please.With my strong head I do attachments,wigs and even light make up now but the jewelries is what I want next. I hate it when people do call me SU . The funny thing is that my mum is really strict and she likes dictating our lives for us.
So when I go to work,i do put on necklace and when i close about getting home i take it off. I've brought up the topic several Tim's but she's always against it,but it's really bothering me .,its making people get the wrong perspective of the person I really am,should I prove stubborn and just go on with what I want?

Sorry about your troubles. Can you chat me up? I got some advice to give. I purposely came here for your last post so as not to raise attention. Been there before