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Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 5:10pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:I'm not in anyway trying to belittle a wife, I feel everyone has a role to play and they should act accordingly. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 5:25pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:1. So marriage is in fact a partnership, good. 2. Now we have it that regardless of which partner comes up with the idea, the task is on the other partner to not only thoroughly investigate the proposed plan, ensuring that all risk assessment work is carried out and checks and balances are in place for whether the plan succeeds or fails. What this means is that none of the partners submits to the other or should do so in business then. Since the primary issue should be ensuring the success of the business above all things. Do, you see what I am saying? Submission does not apply as far as business partnerships as it almost ensures failure of the business and even the partnership. 3. There are so many families out there where women occupy the roles you highlighted. So, again, what makes a man, and not the woman, the head of the family? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 5:27pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:I meant I am not concerned at all about your personal opinions regarding the wife there since it does not matter as far as the subject here. 2. Everyone has a role to play and my guess is you equally believe these roles you speak of are set in stone somewhere. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 5:28pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:Then you should equally accept the idea of a man being a true man as a compliment since it is equally meant to cause the same in men. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 5:28pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:The roles are not set in stone, the roles can be interchanged, the roles will surely be there. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 5:29pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:meaning men don't always need to be the heads? Mean equally can and should submit to their wives in those cases? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 5:29pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:Well it's your opinion, to me I don't buy the idea of calling or referring to someone as a real man. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 5:30pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:Finally. I've been saying this, that anyone can be the head cause there should be a head. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 5:30pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:You don't buy the idea of conditioning for men but you are open to that idea were women are concerned? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 5:32pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:Ok! So you've been saying that men should submit to and allow their wives to be the heads of the marriage? A man can equally be the pride of his family, and submit himself to the authority of his wife with respect. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 5:34pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:No. I said either the man is the head or his the wife or whosoever contributes more to the family upkeep last part is funny ngl |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 5:35pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:Mine was from the standpoint of marriage, and yes am open to the idea of "conditioning" where marriage is involved. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 6:00pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:So, the position of headship as far as the way you describe marriage should be based on who contributes most to the family upkeep and not necessarily what gender one came into this world as. Interesting! So, earlier, you had claimed in your part of the world, submission is an essential aspect of marriage. Care to tell us how this gender-neutral idea regarding submission in marriage has played out so far? Research after research shows that women are today major breadwinners in their homes in Nigeria. Are these women equally submitted to and accorded the respect they deserve in their marriages as heads? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 6:04pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:SO it is OK for a man to be conditioned and equally okay for a woman to be too only in marriage? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 6:13pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:Only 20% of marriages in Nigeria have women as the breadwinner and in those marriages people still don't regard them as the head per say. But in my own sentiment, they are. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 6:13pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:Yes. They have always been conditioned in that aspect |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 6:14pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:Here goes. And this should matter, why? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 6:17pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:Men and women are conditioned by whom in marriage? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Samfloxin(m): 7:58pm On Jan 25 |
FRANCISTOWN:Oil dey your head 1 Like |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 8:09pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:Society |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 8:10pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:It's just my opinion. It doesn't have to matter, cause that's what I feel and you might feel differently about it |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 8:36pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:OK! |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 9:11pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie: |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kobojunkie: 9:16pm On Jan 25 |
Kimcutie:Well, it is an opinion, isn't it. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by GreatAchiever1: 9:25pm On Jan 25 |
drimzsmoke: What did I just read? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by Kimcutie: 10:32pm On Jan 25 |
Kobojunkie:It is. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Submit To Her Husband In This Era? by drnoel: 7:23pm On Jan 30 |
Seun: Yes, that is where we all confuse the meaning of marriage. Our African mentality really can't exist in Morden times. The idea of submission in marriage does not have to apply to only the woman. Marriage itself is submission. You submit yourself to the other person for the progress and success of you both. |
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