helinues:


If you seized your girlfriend's phone, do you expect his brother to come and attack you whether he his the one who bought the phone or not.

That should be your sister's lose, she chose to be with Gangstar, let her live with the repercussions

Isn't this telling more of how f*olish you're?

marlow1962:
I won't buy phone and still fight for the same phone I bought, so it's her cross to carry, cus they won't be another "brother buy phone for me".

It's your responsibility. Money ain't grown on trees. God gave us earth and is concerned on how we gonna live , reasons commandments were given.

The guy should be pricing his casket by now,

Is it that people are so idle that they will just create stupid scenarios and start imagining nonsense?

YoungDaNaval:
How will you handle this kind of situation if you're her brother?

I will be very dissapointed that my own sister has such a poor taste in men that she is hanging around such a controlling idiot. I know we were brought up much better than that.

Nothing spoil though, I will no longer buy her anything until she leaves the man and proves to me her choice in men is a lot better.

Not a hope in hell will I drag the phone with the man. The overriding issue here is not him, it is her and the choice of people she is keeping in her life.

YoungDaNaval:
How will you handle this kind of situation if you're her brother?

such boyfriend is a potential armed rubber, exercising power on the woman you never marry? You no come be the one who bought the phone? The boyfriend may loose his life in this process. As a brother na to pay soldiers to handle the boyfriend

STEWpid:
Chai..




My brother will first ask, what happened!?

...and irrespective of the answer, will order the phone back.

Don't near my big brother when he's angry__as gentle as he looks and behave - he can be very demonic too.



Nevertheless, only quack ngbeke girls that has been subdued by either fear or their buy-me-this-buy-me-that mentality will be in such unfortunate mess.


Sh!t happens!!

What a big brother

LordBillionz:

Not my sis. She isn't married to the boyfriend. Protecting until when married is my responsibility and the phone is going to be returned. Even when married she's still my responsibility but somewhat limited then.

You are making her an adult that cannot decide for herself. Continue.

immortalcrown:
You are making her an adult that cannot decide for herself. Continue.

How, she should fight the guy or what?
Oh, and if she's beaten while trying to retrieve the phone, that would be her making decision for herself too?

This isn't about making decision for herself. You can't seize a phone I bought for my sister. You don't have such right. Like eh, you dare not.

Dem no born you well

Is he high on drugs on what? Infact nothing should happen to that phone.

LordBillionz:

How, she should fight the guy or what?
Oh, and if she's beaten while trying to retrieve the phone, that would be her making decision for herself too?

This isn't about making decision for herself. You can't seize a phone I bought for my sister. You don't have such right. Like eh, you dare not.

Dem no born you well

No part of my comment suggests a fight from anybody. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be self-dependent (responsible) enough not to date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad.

I will ask him why he did it calmly, man to man, and tell him to give it back to her (because seizing an adults phone must be promted by something). If the story for him doing that no clear me. from that day foward i will do everything i can to make sure the relationship no go work.

immortalcrown:
No part of my comment suggests a fight from anybody. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be self-dependent (responsible) enough not to date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad.

How can you tell?
You can see the future?

Remember, before the phone was seized there was a quarrel. How can you tell before you accept a guy that he's the kind that would seize your phone when you quarrel. This isn't marriage for Christ sake and these things are to be discovered or known during premarital relationship and would then be avoided by refusing marriage proposal.

So if ask again, how can you tell?

LordBillionz:

How can you tell?
You can see the future?

Remember, before the phone was seized there was a quarrel. How can you tell before you accept a guy that he's the kind that would seize your phone when you quarrel. This isn't marriage for Christ sake and these things are to be discovered or known during premarital relationship and would then be avoided by refusing marriage proposal.

So if ask again, how can you tell?

Stop deceiving yourself. The choice you make in dating forecasts your marriage. Only a fool or pretender will not check the temper of a person before accepting to date the person. That fool or pretender capitalizes on sexual or material benefits when jumping into relationships and later complains.

immortalcrown:
Stop deceiving yourself. The choice you make in dating forecasts your marriage. Only a fool or pretender will not check the temper of a person before accepting to date the person. That fool or pretender capitalizes on sexual or material benefits when jumping into relationships and later complains.

To further your point, these things wouldn't start at seizing phone, you can tell which people are controlling by observing their interaction with others, even if it is people they are buying or ordering things from.

The problem is some women see the charming or spending side of the man and let that cloud their judgement.

A man you are dating that you see shouting at a waiter will eventually turn on you at some point further down the line.

I will collect my iPhone 12 from the unfortunate idiot and buy her techno spark 2 since she wants to be foolish that's what she deserves

YoungDaNaval:
How will you handle this kind of situation if you're her brother?

I won't mind hiring dss to arrest the nonsense bf

Person way I go use police carry for phone theft....
Cus no be him papa buy the phone....
And for my sis after.i recover the phone won't give her again

immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will try to have a peaceful talk with the guy if he himself invites me to interfere in the matter.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

This must be one of the most intelligent posits I have seen on NL.

MajesticD:

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I will collect the phone from over the counter.

I think that boyfriend really is unfortunate in life because I see no reason why he will let his village people use him to bring misfortune and ruine to his life

Na him buy d phone 4 her.d kind slap way I go give d boy.

helinues:


If you seized your girlfriend's phone, do you expect his brother to come and attack you whether he his the one who bought the phone or not.

That should be your sister's lose, she chose to be with Gangstar, let her live with the repercussions

Person don sleep you before such that when someone stand before you and talk, the voice seems to becoming from behind and you even look back to check to respond only for the person to say, look here, I am the one talking to you, Have you had such experience?

helinues:


Dont mess with Macho men oo

Dem go use bottle redesign all him face , macho my foot

Your sister reported a man like you intimidating her, and some people are saying they will go for peace talk lol. if you are in that category chances are that you have soft balls, low testosterone, and a SIMP.

IF IT SMELLS LIKE BULLSH*T, IT DEFINITELY IS BULLSH*T!
And this scenario really does smell like bullsh*t, so sh*ts definately gon fly!

It's none of my fùcking business.
Her boyfriend; her phone; her business.

Omoh,as a street guy wey I be,na to just arrange like 5-10 guys from up-town just to go the mumu location.......... first of all,no need to hear him explanation because the moment I sight am with the phone,him teeth go first full ground

Thats their business... e no concern me

YoungDaNaval:
How will you handle this kind of situation if you're her brother?

Yeye boyfriend. If the MF na cultist

Everyone don't get tired of being told to repent.

Matt.13.15 - For the hearts of this people have grown dull. Their ears are hard of hearing, And their eyes they have closed, Lest they should see with their eyes and hear with their ears, Lest they should understand with their hearts and turn, So that I should heal them.'

Repent so God can bless you

That's theft. I'll ask him to return her property or face consequences. You can't steal people's things because you're upset.