First of all, guys only seize the stuffs they bought for a lady. It’s common sense, if he seizes the phone then it can only mean my sis collected money frm the both of us for the phone without telling either of us…this is something that most ladies do to raise extra cash for themselves.

If she had introduced her boyfriend to me before then. I will tried my best and settle their difference so as peace will reign.

If no introduction at all. I will help her retrieve the phone from the said boyfriend by using police to arrest him for theft and assault on her.

I will calmly call him to return the phone to her and if he refuses he will hear from my lawyer no time for gragra

By the time the useless boyfriend faces litigation he will do what's right

When dangote trailer no won jam him.

Her business. As long as she doesn't ask me to buy another phone for her. I won't even say a word.......
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Except she is not an adult.

Buy force by fire I will collect it back, I never know the power went the brother get he drop the phone sha, then I never try that with my sister again knowing fully well the kind of people she mingle with, then if I wish I can buy her tecno or infinix not more than 40k or 50k.

Chickena

helinues:


If you seized your girlfriend's phone, do you expect his brother to come and attack you whether he his the one who bought the phone or not.

That should be your sister's lose, she chose to be with Gangstar, let her live with the repercussions

Did you read the trash you wrote?

Who's a boyfriend and what place does he have in the scheme of things?

Anyways, I know that no boyfriend can ever do that in the real sense.

A boyfriend can only seize a phone he bought a girlfriend when they quarrel.

Some guys need to be checked from Day 1. Doesn't mean you wouldn't use the situation to teach your sister to make better decisions in choosing a guy. If left unchecked ... such guys will think the girl is on her own... has no backings ... and will have no cap when it comes to her. When checked they will think twice .... fear of consequences.

The fact that you're fuccking my sister without paying her brideprice has made you my enemy. Seizing the phone I bought for her is the trigger I need to treat your fucckup.

immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

I salute you. Very mature talk.
My younger sister must not date such animal

Her so called boyfriend has no right to do that. Except perhaps he suspected something fishy as regards the phone, of which after verification and clarity from me, he should in no time return it to her..

Anything contrary to the above, is something he would definitely regret from me...

It is not my business. Except if my sister genuinely ask for help, and in which case I'm honor bound to answer to get back the phone peacefully or violently as a last resort

I would ask him diplomatically "what did she do that you have to collect her phone? but first I need the expensive phone, I bought it for her"...

May be she messed up (highly unlikely).

If he refuses, I instantly implement Plan B (which is for our story to make to front page of Nairaland posted by ). I swear to God. That is total disrespect. Go and do domination or over possession to another person daughter.

Let her take him to police station with my evidence of purchase.

A normal mentally stable guy has no right to cease a phone that he didn't brought for her girlfriend, even if he's the one that bought the phone.

Only abnormal and mentally unstable ones does such.

immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

You have a very narrow mind, like a one way. What if your sister reports the incident to you, that she's even ready to end the relationship with the guy and all she needs is to get her phone back which the guy has refused to release back to her? You're the only who she thinks can help or guide her to get her phone back, you still won't do anything because of your nonsensical theory of "toxic masculinity"? Yeye

akaahs:
Let her take him to police station with my evidence of purchase.

This is by far a better opinion on the topic than the trash I quoted above

The guy won't even try it, trust me. Cos he wouldn't want me to go to jail

I will tell her to go settle with her boyfriend. I fit call the guy tell the guy that I bought the phone for my sister, not another man, if he sound rude to me, him go collect for my hand, if him no sound rude I go settle them.

That’s an action of toxicity, she should leave the relationship immediately but I no go fight for her o, it’s just anger on man’s side and when he cool he go give her back

chiiraq802:
The way we go gather come, people go think say her boyfriend sister wan do wedding.

Nothing concern me, I'll teach him a bitter lesson. I'll take my sister to the police station to report a stolen phone. Then, pay for tracking.

It's like nairaland is the dumping site from other SM like 'X'. It's disheartening

Omoawoke:
Is it that people are so idle that they will just create stupid scenarios and start imagining nonsense?

Blame these Gen Z maniacs always high on some strong shit. We would have barely sane zombies (male and female) walking our streets in a few years time.

Is the phone the BF property in the first place

maasoap:
You have a very narrow mind, like a one way. What if your sister reports the incident to you, that she's even ready to end the relationship with the guy and all she needs is to get her phone back which the guy has refused to release back to her? You're the only who she thinks can help or guide her to get her phone back, you still won't do anything because of your nonsensical theory of "toxic masculinity"? Yeye

You just described yourself here. I explained everything. Physical violence is not an option for any wise man in this scenario.

1.
No wise man will seize his girlfriend's phone unless the phone contains an evidence of what the girl wants to deny. And if the seizure is to get or provide an evidence of a serious offense, no wise brother of the the girl will fight the boyfriend.

2.
No wise and upright girl will date a guy that will seize her phone. I don't support my sisters to be foolish or selfish in dating men. Quote me anywhere.

3.
Any man that fights because his sister's phone was seized by his fellow man will likely seize his own girlfriend's phone.

immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

ADDED:
The only good reason for a sane man to seize his girlfriend's phone is if the phone contains the evidence of a serious offense that the girl is trying to deny. And in this case, the man should release the phone once he proves her guilty.

Has he paid her bride price ? Stupid talk .

lomprico:
Has he paid her bride price ? Stupid talk .

Will you sound this way if he buys her a phone or pays her school fees?

faceland:
I would ask him diplomatically "what did she do that you have to collect her phone? but first I need the expensive phone, I bought it for her"...

May be she messed up (highly unlikely).

If he refuses, I instantly implement Plan B (which is for our story to make to front page of Nairaland posted by Naija-Cover). I swear to God. That is total disrespect. Go and do domination or over possession to another person daughter.

Inukwa ooooo

Hmm…I’m not sure I’ll interfere

STEWpid:
Chai..




My brother will first ask, what happened!?

...and irrespective of the answer, will order the phone back.

Don't near my big brother when he's angry__as gentle as he looks and behave - he can be very demonic too.



Nevertheless, only quack ngbeke girls that has been subdued by either fear or their buy-me-this-buy-me-that mentality will be in such unfortunate mess.


Sh!t happens!!

Ina akowa ka ndi akokwa meaning You go explain tire 😆

It might shock you to know that your sister actually enjoys the phone seizing and all the drama...you can only protect her but you can't f××k her...use your head wella in this kind situation..

helinues:


If you seized your girlfriend's phone, do you expect his brother to come and attack you whether he his the one who bought the phone or not.

That should be your sister's lose, she chose to be with Gangstar, let her live with the repercussions

only a Tinubu,Wizkid or Penaldo fan would be this daft,prove me wrong