Fellow nairalanders,im new here,but i have a serious problem i will like to share with us,and hopefully find a solution via ur advice and contributions.I got married last year.After my marriage,my hubby decided not do anything to contribute financially to the family.He was trading before we met and married,but after the marriage,i noticed that he wasnt going for his business anymore,and when i enquired from him,he said things aint going well.I tried getting jobs for him and even stocked a shop with goods for him,yet he didnt make anything out of it and it went down the drain.He lost hope and decided to stay at home all day.I started getting agitated about it.Secondly he never told me about his erectile dysfunction,and since we never made love before marriage due to my spiritual life and belief i didnt know about it until after marriage.We have tried medically,but it aint working.I threatened to walkout of the marriage,and to my suprise,the mum took him in,and he has been with the family since xmas,and now the mum is helping him get out of the country so that we dont reconcile.Please what do i do?I need ur honest and sincere advice.

Will you want to live your life with a Man who doesn't appreciate you or your efforts? A lair who couldn't tell you about his condition? I know you love him but you most think for the future. How is your behavior towards him? Did you change? You have to check yourself and go to your own parents/spiritual leader for more advice.

Above all, Put faith in the God you believe

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Why are you bothered? that he is leaving? God is removing trouble from you life and you are complaining,

Seriously? Is the poster serious? Is keeping a husband that important? Your husband seems as useful as a dead dog for a pet.
Seriously i will like to know why women cling soo bad, i missed that memo.

@All,thanks.My attitude never changed towards him,and as for my family,everyone is aware at d moment,and even my spiritual directors.Im finding it hard being a divorcee,due to my belief.But he is not even helping matters.He is scared of his mum and cant take a decision without her.Im just confused.

makes sense- your religous beliefs encourage you to live so.

See where your religion has lead you? You better think about becoming a budda.

hmmm