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Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by chunky(m): 4:10pm On Nov 01, 2007
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Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by ima1(f): 1:45am On Nov 02, 2007
lol you were chatting with a scam artist n prolly not a woman
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by opokonwa(m): 8:18am On Nov 02, 2007
@POSTER

I agree with the first response. YOU WERE NOT CHATTING WITH A WOMAN, YOU WERE CHATTING WITH A FRAUDSTER, PLAYING WITH YOUR EMOTIONS shocked

AND WAITING TO 'REAP YOU OFF'! tongue tongue tongue

A BROTHERLY ADVICE:

If you want a Nigerian woman, come down and see her for yourself! you guys never learn! sad

'Internet love' hadly works in Africa. we prefer to buy our 'meat' raw from the store, and not mailed to us. grin
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by chaloo(m): 7:02pm On Nov 02, 2007
Chunky mate

If you are not a Nigerian, forget about looking for a Nigerian woman.
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by Scopium: 7:31pm On Nov 02, 2007
How can you generalize with such a case where you were not smart?
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by Nobody: 10:22am On Nov 03, 2007
chunky:

I have just met this lady from nigeria on a dating site since 4 weeks, and we have been chatting, but something is not right about her. She gave me a number, and everytime I called, a man always picks it up, and I have asked her who the man is, and she said that was her neighbour, she then gave me another number, but i kept calling the same old number but still bumped to the same old man. She has started asking for money, giving different stories. I did not feel ok, so I called her today to tell her that we had to call it off. I just do not trust women anymore in Nigeria. All I am searching for is one genuine Nigerian woman. Honestly, this is a shame, and am utterly guttered by this actions. I guess I was being set up for financial purpose by that couple.

Hmm, sounds like you had a lucky escape.

I bet the "lady" had a voice deeper than Barry White's, and a full black beard to match! shocked

Still, please don't stereotype, not all Nigerian women are like that (I doubt yours was a woman anyway). There are decent Nigerian women out there, with good morals and values. Cheer up, it could have been worse! smiley
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by iice(f): 11:00am On Nov 03, 2007
I bin wan pidgin con remember say no be naija pesin (which means I wanted to speak write in pidgin but remembered you are not a nigerian)

I don't know why people don't like to practice caution when they go into these things undecided
It's not even easy conducting a relationship face to face what more across some distance and not face to face? undecided
If you have not heard of such scamming occuring undecided consider it a crash course in learning that sometimes people are not what they seem. Understandably you have been jolted (rudely) into life of the not soo trusting, however i do hope that despite this 'experience', you will not generalize all Nigerian women whether this 'supposed' person is male or female.
As we say on the land - Shine your eyes (generally means practice caution) but don't close your heart undecided to all
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by bowa(m): 1:10pm On Nov 03, 2007
My brother,it's not about trusting naija ladies,it's about trusting urself.are we men innocent of the allegation,of course not.we still have some naija ladies that r just too good,i mean wife material.well i could link u up with one on a condition that u'll be as caring as they say i am because most of my female friends do wish to have me as their man.well i believe u can do better than i am.lata
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by chunky(m): 4:03pm On Nov 03, 2007
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Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by inze(m): 4:14pm On Nov 03, 2007
you guys dont really have to jump into conclusions you know.

I n z e
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by iice(f): 4:31pm On Nov 03, 2007
Sorry my mistake. . .you came off sounding not nigerian

Anyhoo goodluck
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by nikkylolly(f): 7:49pm On Nov 03, 2007
@opokonwa

Gosh! Dat was so funny! Good brotherly advice!

@ chunky

Opokonwa's brotherly advice shuld work for u since it's now difficult to distinguish btw genuine people n frauds.

Goodluck!
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by tglaz(m): 8:24pm On Nov 04, 2007
Nigerian girls,from a distance,and you not being a Nigerian,thats like trouble if we look at it from a general point of view.
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by stellose(f): 6:48pm On Nov 05, 2007
@chunky, all i can say is that the right lady will come your way.dont get depressed and i know how painful it is when you find out some one is lying or pretending to be something esle. for 4 weeeks.
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by rotimy(m): 7:22pm On May 17, 2008
I am shocked that the poster expected a Nigerian Mother Theresa or a naive virgin to be his internet love. The poster must watch his emotions. He gets emotionally attached easily. The frequent phone calls is a sign of infatuation. Maybe he saw the pic of a black female model on the internet love site.
Honestly, Nigeria women are not as bad as you are painting them. No romance without finance! If you want a pretty less expensive Nigerian babe, tell us your village here and leave the rest to us. By the way, you would have played along and allow the film INTERNET LOVE part 1 to finish before complaining.
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by Damoche10: 6:11pm On May 19, 2008
Interesting. In, n, out!!!! shocked shocked shocked grin grin grin Extention 419 pls dial up!! Ol boy God sava ya ass!!!! Go to church if u are a christain or mosque if otherwise. She sorry he would have just used a jack plane to file your head! grin
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by omoovie(f): 6:31pm On May 19, 2008
Which kain nonsense be dis?! Comon getauwt! *psschhewwwwwwwwwww!* You go internet go dey toast a whole naija babe like mugu nearly kon fall for trick den u wan kon label all of us?! What impunity! You are hereby removed from the roster of foreign men all Naija babes should consider. Oya! Cancel! Cancel! Delete! Ode! There is no hope for you! Pschhhhhhhhhhhewwwwwwwwwwwww! Can I still trust a Nigerian woman? Don't trust now, we certainly don't trust you! In fact na boju boju this miscreant wan perform with man pikin. All ye naija babes avoid this man his fowl nyash has opened!
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by Damoche10: 11:17am On May 20, 2008
Strolls in and out
Re: Can I Still Trust A Nigerian Woman? by teeanne(f): 12:46pm On May 20, 2008
do you trust yourself? shocked

you need to exercise caution in what ever you do.

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