Fellow NL,what is the highest level of irresponsibility as a man /woman?
A friend said it is embarking on a journey without getting any member of your family informed.
To me,it is sleeping with any of your sister in-laws.
What is yours?

Matured contributions please.

There are worse cases like, a lady that abandoned her child in the hospital,a man that does not pay his children school fees and always in a beer parlor, you think that is not worse than sleeping with your sister in-law

^ There was no need for aggression.You have made your point,let others contribute with peace.

A man leaving his heavily pregnant wife at home and going for night-clubbing.
A wife/husband sexting people of opposite sex.
A man/woman living a fake life all in the name of gaining other people's acceptance.
A husband/wife not fulfilling his/her duty in the home when they are capable.

Very long list of irresponsible behaviors, but let me rest my case with ^^.

chaircover: too many to mention . . . . . many I have heard of and many that I havent even heard of yet

Let ones conscience be the judge.

You are correct but you need to give us the one you think is the worst.

@OP
Never meant to be rude.
A man stealing money from his wife' purse is even worse

I don't think there is any measurement. It is either you are responsible or irresponsible.

lol lol 9ice ones fellow NL

Irresponsibility is as bad as it gets,all na the same thing.

A man who does not provide for his child and has never seen his own child.

my two cents

freecocoa: Irresponsibility is as bad as it gets,all na the same thing.

Are you sure? Can you compare a man sleeping with his daughter with the one that is beating his wife?

CArt: @OP
Never meant to be rude.
A man stealing money from his wife' purse is even worse

lol.
A man dat ties his wife up with rope n beats her with koboko and thern lock his kids up in d other room so they dont get a chance to run out and call for help to save their mother.

CArt: @OP
Never meant to be rude.
A man stealing money from his wife' purse is even worse

lol.
A man dat ties his wife up with rope n beats her with koboko untill she passes out and then lock his kids up in d other room so they dont get a chance to run out and call for help to save their mother.

taryour:

lol.
A man dat ties his wife up with rope n beats her with koboko untill she passes out and then lock his kids up in d other room so they dont get a chance to run out and call for help to save their mother.

For real

Having s-e-x with the one that is not your wife or husband. It is like stealing what does not belongs to you. Unfortunately this case of irresponsibility is prevalent in our society today.

CArt:
For real

yes o for real,happened to one opf my neibo while i was still living with my parents before i got married

Jus imagine a fully grown educated married man who has refused to get a job several years after NYSC, stil living in his family house wit his mum, brother & sis. All he wants to do is club, party, drink & smoke all around d neighbourhood. His aged mum stil fends 4 him & he also camps a girlfriend\ prostitute rite in his mother's house. Thou his wife stays in a different city looking after their child & has probably given up on him cos he has nothin to offer. He doesn't contribute 2 d upkeep of d child or his wife who thankfully is working. wat cud be more irresponsible than this? & believe me, dis is a true life story.

miss maybelline: Jus imagine a fully grown educated married man who has refused to get a job several years after NYSC, stil living in his family house wit his mum, brother & sis. All he wants to do is club, party, drink & smoke all around d neighbourhood. His aged mum stil fends 4 him & he also camps a girlfriend\ prostitute rite in his mother's house. Thou his wife stays in a different city looking after their child & has probably given up on him cos he has nothin to offer. He doesn't contribute 2 d upkeep of d child or his wife who thankfully is working. wat cud be more irresponsible than this? & believe me, dis is a true life story.

such man will die being irresponsible

A Youth Corps member in a strange land sleeping with a married woman in the same compound.

kola oloye: A Youth Corps member in a strange land sleeping with a married woman in the same compound.

Na sharp guy

CArt:
Na sharp guy

You called that one sharpness? He is digging his grave.


A deacon in a beer parlor

In my opinion, that would be a man that physically abuses his wife, then the man that physically abuses his pregnant wife is insane.

You cant say which is most irreponsible

But one I saw was a friends brother

Who got drunk on his wedding.

During the reception , he couldnt be located as he was already at a beer parlour arguing

The same guy at like 40yrs come to his 70yr old moms house to steal money and sleep with her apprentices(the mom is a tailor and has a lot of female teenage and early twenties apprentice)

^^^^^ if you check that man's history he has been "cursed"" by awon iya.

ronkebp: ^^^^^ if you check that man's history he has been "cursed"" by awon iya.

This was so worrisome to his mom and younger brother.

He is usually one of those guys that have been useless from teenage, he dropped out from all school, dropped out from all trade.

His mom thought by getting married he would be more responsible.

She even sponsored the wedding fully bought Asho ebi and on the wedding day, Bros was in a beer parlour arguing about Obasanjo and Atiku while wearing Shirt and trouser

^^^Good for the woman that married him. Which sane woman will know all these and still find that man attractive enough to share a bed with him?

jennykadry: ^^^Good for the woman that married him. Which sane woman will know all these and still find that man attractive enough to share a bed with him?

the wife doesnt know the Sleeping with apprentice part

But the getting drunk on wedding everyone knew because they had to stop the party for about an hour and organise a search party for the groom before the high pitch sound of his voice from a beer parlour attracted them

Watch this video, something similar happened


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ke-GJwIwhVk&ob=av3e

dayokanu:

the wife doesnt know the Sleeping with apprentice part

But the getting drunk on wedding everyone knew because they had to stop the party for about an hour and organise a search party for the groom before the high pitch sound of his voice from a beer parlour attracted them

Watch this video, something similar happened


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ke-GJwIwhVk&ob=av3e

LMAO

dayokanu:

This was so worrisome to his mom and younger brother.

He is usually one of those guys that have been useless from teenage, he dropped out from all school, dropped out from all trade.

His mom thought by getting married he would be more responsible.

She even sponsored the wedding fully bought Asho ebi and on the wedding day, Bros was in a beer parlour arguing about Obasanjo and Atiku while wearing Shirt and trouser

i had not seen or read the rest, before i knew "he had been followed and they are still following him"

A man abandoned his sick mother in the village and was donation #100,000 for the Church anniversary.
I believe this is the peak of irresponsibility.

Man beating a woman.