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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by emmylight4u: 6:10am On Sep 07, 2015 |
I attended one but it was not funny. The lady cried all tru the wedding when sited me. She even left the husband to dance with me more than 3munites with serious tears in her eye. I left embarrassed. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by alausaone(m): 6:13am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Sister for me i will advise you not to go, if the so called wife to be have heard something good about you and would love to meet you, it should not be on their wedding day , as long you both are matured you can ask the guy why the woman insist she want you to be present in her wedding someone you barely no..... in another word it might also be that the guy think he has got a hot good looking women and he want to make you feel his going for the best.... some consider beauty as a good quality , in conclusion it is possible too in African believe may be he was told that he has offended someone in the past, that he should find favor from you. that is if he happened to be the one that played d Drama during your relationship with him...... Finally if at last you decide to go please make sure you dress fine and look attractive also don't go alone go with any of your friend that you are always comfortable with |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by scentmarlc(m): 6:13am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Freecocoa oya wear your owambe garment and swerve to anoda wedding party , not his. If truly d wife insist, trust me its not coz she likes you its definitely coz she wants to size u up. Apparently her husby hasn't stopped whinning about you and on more occasions than one, he must have made some comparisons which could have awoken the ayamatanga in the lady. So this cud serve as a gud opprtunity to nicely-demean you and make you pay for being too gOod with her husby in d good old days... Abeg don't tell me u didn't get wat I sed o |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by islandmoon: 6:14am On Sep 07, 2015 |
samokoduwa: No, not weakness , i couldn't afford her ..only our politicians will be able to, i couldn't afford to eat out everyday of the week, take our clothes to the dry cleaner all the time while she watch telemundo, pick her up all the time cos she hardly use public transport, she cant even cook indomie, people said I spoilt her! anyway i got tired sha but the memory still lingers ..may be i wouldn't have bothered if i was a rich guy cos she is very brilliant lady, very intelligent. so, if i see her at my wedding, i wont truly be comfortable! 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by CandyBar: 6:17am On Sep 07, 2015 |
I'll go........ if the breakup was amicable.... Truth be told.....we can't marry everyone we date, if so......sharper guys for no gree person date even 1. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Idowuogbo(f): 6:31am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Favolly:GOD BLESS YOU! COCOLARIO,COME HERE IF YOU NO GET HUSBAND, FIANCÉ OR BF WEY GO FOLLOW YOU GO CHOP RICE THERE, GIRL ,PARK YOUR AZZ AT HOME. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by jabourne4u(m): 6:38am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Take a frnd or two along.That's d best way darling.I attended my ex- last. Aug 1st.It was good with my real frnds around. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by dalass(f): 6:39am On Sep 07, 2015 |
freecocoa:Hope you are already married.. Very important! Also the bride just wants to rub it in your face oh.. Dont go! it is obviously not the guys wish... Am sure you wouldnt enjoy it! |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 6:43am On Sep 07, 2015 |
morereb10: Yeap it does. When both parties don't hold grudges against themselves. Its not weird |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by doskie(m): 6:46am On Sep 07, 2015 |
freecocoa:I dont advice you to go. not at all. if I were I would agree to go just so I can avoid unnecessary persuasion and talk. but on the wedding day. I wont show up. later send an apology text that you missed it unavoidably because. ..... so so so and so. ofcourse the river of reasons never run dry. why dyou still have his contact anyway? |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by felifeli: 6:49am On Sep 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: Get a life |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by megawax8: 6:53am On Sep 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: I didn't read other people's comments, perhaps you have answered something like this. Why do I feel something still happened between you two after the 'break-up'? If you kept in touch, it means you are friends. If I were the one, I'd attend if I am invited. My candid advice, ask him if he wants you there cos he is the person that is your friend and not the wife. Did he want to invite you before and the wife objected only to accept reluctantly? You are no exhibit to be sampled at a wedding or mocked to say the least with the 'I am the one he finally put the ring on: the winner of an unseen battle', you could always pay them a visit some other time. Cheers. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 6:54am On Sep 07, 2015 |
DrGroove:Madam stop the insult biko, why can't a person talk to their ex? Is there a law that makes it a crime or what? If you believe talking to an ex is a no no, doesn't make it the right thing for everyone else. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Ajih4us: 6:55am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Favolly:Not a good invitation,I will not honor it. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by aderonkedeborah(f): 6:56am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Yes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by LordReed(m): 6:57am On Sep 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: I would go if invited. I would go in your place since the wife insisted on the invite unless of course the invite has malicious intent ie to rub it in your face. But I don't think that's the case or do you think so? |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 6:59am On Sep 07, 2015 |
doskie:One thing I try my best to do is not to be in malice with anyone, I find my heart isn't built for such, btw, it's not like he and I talk often, calling me to invite me is the only time we've talked this year. As per having his contact, there are some contacts you don't even need to store in your phonebook, his digits is one of such and I'm sure he has mine stored in his brain too. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by johnpraise(f): 6:59am On Sep 07, 2015 |
of course I would....in a similar situation and am attending |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by mattfeuter(m): 7:01am On Sep 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: Free Jollof rice HELL YEAH |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by jnrbayano(m): 7:01am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Freecocoa, He didn't invite you, the wife-to-be did albeit through him. He won't have the moral rights to accuse you of turning down his invitation. Do you know the wife? No you dont. So why would she want you to attend her wedding? I don't know. Do you know? I doubt you do but I know you can afford a plate of rice and a bottle of wine. Yes I am sure. If I must attend, that's if I'm in your shoes, I will arm myself with my partner/lover. Otherwise, meeting those old friends which I think may lure you there can wait to be reunited with. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:03am On Sep 07, 2015 |
LordReed:Walai if I was sure, I wouldn't have opened this thread, from how we left things, he was still into me and kinda angry about the breakup, I don't know who his wife is so I was surprised with the manner of invite, it seems rude to me. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by balogunsam(m): 7:04am On Sep 07, 2015 |
I attended my first and ever gf's wedding last month and it was awesome. Never met the husby but heard much about him. I attended with my fiancee who was all dolled up and we walked majestically....she had a front table prepared for us!! And treated us real good...now, that was a great relationship that just didn't work out as we grew up and found differences. It was hurting at first breaking up but with time we realized it was for the best...and yes, I left there feeling super cool as she was all smiles when I walked in and she actually stood up from the stage and came to greet us! Soooo.....you had the relationship, you know the guy...if it was a beautiful "Union bank" for you two that just didn't work, then please go. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by justi4jesu(f): 7:07am On Sep 07, 2015 |
ronald4lif: This got me thinking too |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by nenade: 7:08am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Nehiiiiiiiiii, Dont go oh. The lady sees you as a possible competition in the future and wants to settle your case once and for all but if you must go, dont eat the food, dont drink the water and make sure you dont piss anywhere around there. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by darlenese(f): 7:10am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Babe the only reason the wife wants u to be there is becos she thinks both of u are secretly keeping in touch, for God sake she doesn't know u, and she doesn't care about ur feelings , she just want u to be officially notified that "HE IS MARRIED , BE WARNED" so that u don't claim u never knew he was married, in case he wants to play double games. You should know women better nau. PLS DO NOT GO. Except you are goimg there with ur FIANCE also |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:13am On Sep 07, 2015 |
megawax8:The only thing that happened was him trying to make us get back together to no avail and it's not like we are still friends, he just checks in once in a long while, nothing out of the ordinary at all. There never was or will be a battle as I was the one who ended things, so wanting to rub whatever in my face is highly misguided if that's the case. Thanks for the advice. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Acidosis(m): 7:14am On Sep 07, 2015 |
I don't talk with exes, so no room for invites. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by drnairalov: 7:17am On Sep 07, 2015 |
thats how one of the most beautiful girl have dated called my mom to tell her that that shes getting married and shes inviting me..of course i didnt go.. ve not called her since. she married a richer dude sha. wedding was classy.. still not seein someone as pretty as her.. created a topic on her years back self.. long story short i still single. anyways babe dont go.. wish him well daz all |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:18am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Truckpusher:Lol, you wey wan marry as many wives as possible because you believe a man should if he can afford to, if that's not misogyny, tell me what is. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by kandiikane(m): 7:21am On Sep 07, 2015 |
freecocoa: Trust me, it is likely the wife wants you to go to show off that she finally got him. Maybe throughout their relationship, the guy has been mentioning you in passing by saying good things about you and using you as an example. It is not the wife you dated, so if your ex does not seem like he wants you there, do not go. If you want to go to reunite with people, go with your own boyfriend or hire someone to pretend. It is up to you sha. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:22am On Sep 07, 2015 |
allcomage:How can a person call another's name that kind time? That one too much abeg and I don't know the lady to start thinking in the direction you are going, she may really be a nice person but I won't attend anyways, thanks. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Orikinla(m): 7:29am On Sep 07, 2015 |
I have attended the weddings of three ex-girlfriends. They married the men, because I was not ready for marriage. |
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