vivian chinaza:

Pls follow the argument.

vivian chinaza:

I'm happy about that........but u can test drive him to know what he will do? He might give you a gold medal you know?

Beync:
should a man slap you when you wrong him, what will you do to him when he wrong you?
My dear i don't expect a slap from my man when i make mistake, i espect him to correct me and i'll take correction
not the other way round. he can only slap me when he must have tested the slap on his face and confirm that it's good.

Eze Promoe:
Sholly, you lie Vivian is a responsible woman and she just told you the attributes of a responsible woman. No woman in her right sense will fight a man no matter what. You might get yourself injured you know.

Beync:
should a man slap you when you wrong him, what will you do to him when he wrong you?
My dear i don't expect a slap from my man when i make mistake, i espect him to correct me and i'll take correction
not the other way round. he can only slap me when he must have tested the slap on his face and confirm that it's good.

Shollypopz:
Your level of st*upidity or should I say shock of ur mental slavery is so dumbfounding! Almost unbelievable!

Now, it's st*upid to say a woman should tiptoe, do as her husband says at all times, to never get into an argument that could result into trading of insults because she's trying to prevent him from hitting her. Is she a psychologist??

Why do u think she's the one to fix the problem of low-self esteem, anger issues and psychological problem that resulted from her husband watching his father beat his mum?? Is tip toeing and not trading insults the cause for the husband's tendency for violence??

Is tiptoeing going to solve the real mental and psychological issue the husband has??

vivian chinaza:

Go and learn how to fight fair and win! No woman agrees with her husband all the time but it shouldn't degenerate to insulting him.

I guess that will be a mirage to you cos in your world is all about "fucck yous."

carefreewannabe:

respect!

Shollypopz:
Your level of st*upidity or should I say shock of ur mental slavery is so dumbfounding! Almost unbelievable!

Now, it's st*upid to say a woman should tiptoe, do as her husband says at all times, to never get into an argument that could result into trading of insults because she's trying to prevent him from hitting her. Is she a psychologist??

Why do u think she's the one to fix the problem of low-self esteem, anger issues and psychological problem that resulted from her husband watching his father beat his mum?? Is tip toeing and not trading insults the cause for the husband's tendency for violence??

Is tiptoeing going to solve the real mental and psychological issue the husband has??

candieangel12: Lol hell no! If a man ever makes the mistake of beating me, I wont fight back. Ill just keep pretendin to love him n wen he doesn't see it comin, ill just cut off his manhood. No man that beats a woman is befitting to be called a man

candieangel12: When a woman and man are arguing and the woman says somethings to anger the man, the only sensible thing a man can do is just calmly walk away. That right there differentiates a real man from a coward because a coward will stay back and beat the woman.

vivian chinaza:

Yes, but I have also seen women who go as far as holding their husbands or blocking his way not to go out. Haven't you seen it before?

vivian chinaza:

Go and learn how to fight fair and win! No woman agrees with her husband all the time but it shouldn't degenerate to insulting him.

I guess that will be a mirage to you cos in your world is all about "fucck yous."

carefreewannabe:

No, she said MOST TIMES and 70 % of NIGERIAN women "help men" to give them beatings. That's the difference. I am definitely not on the same page with her.
It's very nice of you that you want to make peace but I see no problem in disagreeing with people. And I will never compromise my view on domestic violence, coming from whichever side, male or female.

carefreewannabe:

How many?

Rocktation:

Powder your cheeks and accept some slaps still.

Rocktation:

Powder your cheek and accept some slaps still.

vivian chinaza:

A lot! Just be an eye witness someday.

vivian chinaza:

Yes, but I have also seen women who go as far as holding their husbands or blocking his way not to go out. Haven't you seen it before?

uyiekpenm: Vivian chnaza u are a very reasonable woman.

No one should support and/or condone physical abuse. At the same time women/men should not provoke their partners.

candieangel12: When a woman and man are arguing and the woman says somethings to anger the man ie insults, the only sensible thing a man can do is just calmly walk away. That right there differentiates a real man from a coward because a coward will stay back and beat the woman.

hornipipe: gross

candieangel12:

Ive seen it happen n Ive done it before but that still doesn't warrant the man to beat her. When me n my bf argue, n I would block his way, he would just tell me that he isn't going to argue with me anymore n just ignore me till i get tired. Nothing a woman does should warrant a beating. There was even a couple times he would just pick me up and get me out of his way and then leave.

centje: Vivian chinaza is jst bn realistic. She never supported men beating woman or the other way round. We are humans with emotions,not everyone can control them well.

All tru my life i hv never know wat it feels like to see dad and mum fight. The only close scenario waz one day my dad and mum quarrelled,dad waz already angered to the point of hitting my mum. As he decided to leave the house to avoid such,mum blocked door. This vexed him so much that he raised his hand to hit her buh he recalled himself and went back into the room. Mum started crying,i fink my dad cried too. Later on mum went to him and apologised. The rest is history...lol.

Wat am trying to say frm this short story is that sometime men can be pushed to the wall,buh how they handle the situation and control of their emotion defines kind of man u are. If dad went ahead to hit mum it wuld hv bn a different case. Some cant control such situation,dnt blame them,we are made differently. Each partner shuld try and know their partner's temperament. However,wen law is bn applied no one is interested in ur temperament.

If a man abuse u nt only physically buh mentally and emotionally pls for ur own good leave him,u two rnt compatible.

Eze Promoe:
Reverse was the case here. If the man stays back and beat her, he isn't a coward but if he walks away, he is. Don't you think so?

centje: Vivian chinaza is jst bn realistic. She never supported men beating woman or the other way round. We are humans with emotions,not everyone can control them well.

All tru my life i hv never know wat it feels like to see dad and mum fight. The only close scenario waz one day my dad and mum quarrelled,dad waz already angered to the point of hitting my mum. As he decided to leave the house to avoid such,mum blocked door. This vexed him so much that he raised his hand to hit her buh he recalled himself and went back into the room. Mum started crying,i fink my dad cried too. Later on mum went to him and apologised. The rest is history...lol.

Wat am trying to say frm this short story is that sometime men can be pushed to the wall,buh how they handle the situation and control of their emotion defines kind of man u are. If dad went ahead to hit mum it wuld hv bn a different case. Some cant control such situation,dnt blame them,we are made differently. Each partner shuld try and know their partner's temperament. However,wen law is bn applied no one is interested in ur temperament.

If a man abuse u nt only physically buh mentally and emotionally pls for ur own good leave him,u two rnt compatible.

vivian chinaza:

That's your boyfriend.....try it in ur marriage.

candieangel12:

So does marriage give the man legal rights to beat his wife, when she provokes him?