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Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Nov 09, 2012
Ocutegan: I said it before and ama say this girl vivian or whatever or stoopid name implies, is the dumbest girl on earth. See human thinking faculty, o girl I fear you o. God no go let me have anything do with you for real life cos for you to sit down and take your time in writing all these unbelievable posts then I can only imagine how backward your thinking is. I thought women are now empowered to stand up for their right. See you have no place in this era of the world, all you'll ever be is a man's servant. Showed my gf all your posts and I expected her to laugh but she was angry at your level of stupidity. All the guys wey go marry this kind nigerian girls I hail una o.
*spits on her head and walk out*
My brother, there are our some of our Nigerian brothers that'll marry her That exactly what they're looking for, women in mental slavery!

Abeg tell ur G.F that I understand how she feels, the chic makes me feel that way too. smiley
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Nov 09, 2012
Crown Prince:

Yes... just like Rihanna and Chris Brown.
Did Chris Brown justified his prison term on Rihanna? Hell NO.

You rant, rave, curse , hit and had the temerity to flung my car keys into a snake infested shrubs because you are a woman.

Bleep you, folk America, I will disorganized your appreance momentarily because I know where it will end. While I am cooling my as$ in jail, you are undergoing medical(plastic) surgery to recapture your original identity.

lwkmd....guy calm down now...you dey vex o...buwahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahah
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Nov 09, 2012
Crown Prince:

Yes... just like Rihanna and Chris Brown.
Did Chris Brown justified his prison term on Rihanna? Hell NO.

You rant, rave, curse , hit and had the temerity to flung my car keys into a snake infested shrubs because you are a woman.

Bleep you, folk America, I will disorganized your appreance momentarily because I know where it will end. While I am cooling my as$ in jail, you are undergoing medical(plastic) surgery to recapture your original identity.

Ok, we heard you.
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by vivianc(f): 2:10pm On Nov 09, 2012
sub_zero: When u were eatin his money, were ur brodas thr? What if he's a superior "NIGGA" dan ur brodas?

grin grin dude my name is Vivian Chinaza......and I can proudly say I have got my own money....I foot my bills ok and endure the ones I can't afford. No man! I repeat no man would say he is the reason I'm still living! So if I'm with a man, it is for the sake of love.
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Nov 09, 2012
carefreewannabe:
Yet, a woman will say that she worked for a "NGO" that did research and found out that most women are guilty of their men beating them up. A soap opera is more realistic. Even a fairy tale is more true.

Madness!
N.G.O my a*ss!! Ain't nobody believe that sh1t!
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Nov 09, 2012
Shollypopz:
My brother, there are our some of our Nigerian brothers that'll marry her That exactly what they're looking for, women in mental slavery!

Abeg tell ur G.F that I understand how she feels, the chic makes me feel that way too. smiley

Good! Just imagine all these men not having the chance to find a perfect match. Crime rates on the rise!
Let them marry each other and leave REAL MEN to the rest of the ladies. wink
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Beync(f): 2:13pm On Nov 09, 2012
lalaosky:

that movie is a must watch...it pained me that that humbled and hardworking woman lost her kids to that villain.reall touching.i nearly cried.

As sexkills would always say, know the type of men/women you date thoroughly before starting a relationship/marraige with them.i've never dated any gurl that will scream or threaten to kill me or make me act thugishly cos' it aint my style so i do make i sure we're compactible before any stuff will happen btween us...

Keyword:COMPACTIBLE
true. Knowing someone well before going into relationship is better.
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 09, 2012
lalaosky:

yeah, you're right...i always apply the golden rule when it comes to situations like this.i won't be happy for a woman to beat me up or slap me cos' i erred, neither will i wanna do such to her.what's GOOD for the goose is also GOOD for the gander...shikena!!
Exactly!!! I find her logic very faulty. What she is implying is that whenever a woman errs and pushes her man to the wall and he hits her, it is justified.
With a mindset like this, it is easy to remain in an abusive relationship because with the belief that whenever you offend him and he hits you, it can be justified, leaving will become a herculean task. Humans are not above making mistakes, we'll continue to make them over time and for that singular fact, nothing, absolutely nothing justifies a man hitting a woman or anybody hitting anybody at all.
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Nov 09, 2012
Ocutegan: I said it before and ama say this girl vivian or whatever or stoopid name implies, is the dumbest girl on earth. See human thinking faculty, o girl I fear you o. God no go let me have anything do with you for real life cos for you to sit down and take your time in writing all these unbelievable posts then I can only imagine how backward your thinking is. I thought women are now empowered to stand up for their right. See you have no place in this era of the world, all you'll ever be is a man's servant. Showed my gf all your posts and I expected her to laugh but she was angry at your level of stupidity. All the guys wey go marry this kind nigerian girls I hail una o.
*spits on her head and walk out*
lol
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Nov 09, 2012
Beync: true. Knowing someone well before going into relationship is better.

knowing someone well solves all this wahala IMHO.a leopard they say, doesn't change its spot.so we shouldn't expect an irresponsible nagging female or a woman-beating, easily angered man to change overnight cos of LOVE!!...thaose stuff exist in dreams
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 09, 2012
ItsModella:
Humans are not above making mistakes, we'll continue to make them over time and for that singular fact, nothing, absolutely nothing justifies a man hitting a woman.

well said!!
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by abiL2: 2:22pm On Nov 09, 2012
I've missed a lot!

Vivian, the same way a woman should watch her mouth, likewise a man should watch his actions so as not to provoke a woman to anger.

Even if a woman is in the wrong, the man should never result to physical aggression.

Leaving marks on her body isn't going to get your point across. It just makes u look like an aśs who should be locked up in jail and get ànally penetrated every time he drops his soap in the shower.
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Nov 09, 2012
shollypopz, thanks for the editing of your posts....
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Nov 09, 2012
ItsModella:
Sholly, you don dey use your hand find trouble o.

hopefully, this thread won't get locked...mehn, everything na fight this days
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by abiL2: 2:26pm On Nov 09, 2012
lalaosky:

hopefully, this thread won't get locked...mehn, everything na fight this days


Na u sabi tongue
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Nov 09, 2012
ok people, I do not support domestic violent. I will love my wife, adore her, cherish her, protect her, and love her hoping she became an angel, guardian, model, virtuous, and motherly to me not been biitchy, troublesome, nagging, or engage in any anything that will shortened my life span.

If she does the former than the later, we are good. If she encompass the later than the former in her matrimonial itinerary I will definitely show her that I am the President and Commander In Chief of the ARMED FORCES of my home.
Abi no be so?
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Nov 09, 2012
abiL*:
It just makes u look like an aśs who should be locked up in jail and get ànally penetrated every time he drops his soap in the shower.

lwkmd...abiL and her foul mouth
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Nov 09, 2012
lalaosky:

sh!!t!!...i saw this coming...sholly calm down abeg...javascript:void(0e never reach this level...chillax pretty lady

You're really cool. You make me smile smiley wink smiley
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by abiL2: 2:27pm On Nov 09, 2012
Crown Prince: ok people, I do not support domestic violent. I will love my wife, adore her, cherish her, protect her, and love her hoping she became an angel, guardian, model, virtuous, and motherly to me not been biitchy, troublesome, nagging, or engage in any anything that will shortened my life span.

If she does the former than the later, we are good. If she encompass the later than the former in her matrimonial itinerary I will definitely show her that I am the President and Commander In Chief of the ARMED FORCES of my home.
Abi no be so?



Show her how? Physically or through verbal retributions?
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Nov 09, 2012
carefreewannabe:

Good! Just imagine all these men not having the chance to find a perfect match. Crime rates on the rise!
Let them marry each other and leave REAL MEN to the rest of the ladies. wink
Lol, u're damn right!! cheesy
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Nov 09, 2012
abiL*:



Na u sabi tongue

abiL, i know your plans...lol...badt gurl...don't come up with another E-fight jor..missed you...oya calm down please
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 09, 2012
Crown Prince and Vivian seem to be THE PERFECT MATCH!
I hear the wedding bells ringing wink

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Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 09, 2012
carefreewannabe:

You're really cool. You make me smile smiley wink smiley

am humbled senorita...gracias amigowinkwinkwinkwink
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by abiL2: 2:30pm On Nov 09, 2012
lalaosky:

abiL, i know your plans...lol...badt gurl...don't come up with another E-fight jor..missed you...oya calm down please


I won't tongue

This a serious issue. Many women have lost their lives and their self-esteems due to men thinking they own their partners and can turn them into punching bags.


Missed you too kiss

Have you finished your exams now?

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Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 09, 2012
ItsModella:
Exactly!!! I find her logic very faulty. What she is implying is that whenever a woman errs and pushes her man to the wall and he hits her, it is justified.
With a mindset like this, it is easy to remain in an abusive relationship because with the belief that whenever you offend him and he hits you, it can be justified, leaving will become a herculean task. Humans are not above making mistakes, we'll continue to make them over time and for that singular fact, nothing, absolutely nothing justifies a man hitting a woman or anybody hitting anybody at all.
Someone asks a question earlier modella , he said; so if the man is to hit the woman when she wrongs him what happens when he wrongs her?? What does she do?? She clearly can't beat him
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 09, 2012
Right now i could say "hell no!" and type an essay of how strong I am and what I would or would not accept...but ladies and gentlemen if you are not in the shoes of someone who has been through it, you cant say what you would do. Its easier said than done.

Remember all physically abusive relationships start off as emotionally abusive, this is right after the "honeymoon/toasting" phase. This is when the passive partner is drawn in. By the time the beatings start its too late for them to retract and let go. This is why many are quick to take their abusers back.

So again its easier said than done. Dont judge ppl who go through this. We must Accept its a sickness and very common. It takes time to leave a relationship like that.
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Nov 09, 2012
lalaosky:

am humbled senorita...gracias amigowinkwinkwinkwink

por favor. wink
pero soy una amiga smiley
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Nov 09, 2012
Crown Prince: ok people, I do not support domestic violent. I will love my wife, adore her, cherish her, protect her, and love her hoping she became an angel, guardian, model, virtuous, and motherly to me not been biitchy, troublesome, nagging, or engage in any anything that will shortened my life span.

If she does the former than the later, we are good. If she encompass the later than the former in her matrimonial itinerary I will definitely show her that I am the President and Commander In Chief of the ARMED FORCES of my home.
Abi no be so?

na so but don' go all chris brown on her weak arsè...you can scold her with your voice or ignore her but please don't lay your hands on her.women will always be women.you don't have to beat her to pulp to pass your message across
Re: Ladies, Will You Stay With A Guy Who Physically Abuses You? by vivianc(f): 2:33pm On Nov 09, 2012
I will keep on saying it.......men don't beat your wives.....wives control your mouths and actions!

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