abiL*:



I won't

This a serious issue. Many women have lost their lives and their self-esteems due to men thinking they own their partners and can turn them into punching bags.


Missed you too

Have you finished your exams now?

lalaosky:

na so but don' go all chris brown on her weak arsè...you can scold her with your voice or ignore her but please don't lay your hands on her.women will always be women.you don't have to beat her to pulp to pass your message across

*Kails*:
Right now i could say "hell no!" and type an essay of how strong I am and what I would or would not accept...but ladies and gentlemen if you are not in the shoes of someone who has been through it, you cant say what you would do. Its easier said than done.

Remember all physically abusive relationships start off as emotionally abusive, this is right after the "honeymoon/toasting" phase. This is when the passive partner is drawn in. By the time the beatings start its too late for them to retract and let go. This is why many are quick to take their abusers back.

So again its easier said than done. Dont judge ppl who go through this. We must Accept its a sickness and very common. It takes time to leave a relationship like that.

carefreewannabe:

por favor.
pero soy una amiga

carefreewannabe: Crown Prince and Vivian seem to be THE PERFECT MATCH!
I hear the wedding bells ringing

Shollypopz:
Someone asks a question earlier modella , he said; so if the man is to hit the woman when she wrongs him what happens when he wrongs her?? What does she do?? She clearly can't beat him

vivian chinaza: I don't support a guy physically abusing a lady but most ladies should check themselves. Most times the ladies are not completely innocent in the case. No guy has ever raised his hands on me before and I have never done anything to warrant that. So if I really did something wrong and he slaps me? I'd suck it up. But if he lay his hands on me for no just cause? I'd end the relationship, his azz will be thrown in jail or my brothers will give him the beating of his life.

Shollypopz:
lol, the whole post was hidden anyway. I was about to light her a*ss up in this b1tch.....I hv fvcking low tolerance for mental slavery. She tried threatening the chic, what rubbish?? Not when I'm here!

lalaosky:

yeah....finished on tuesday...glad you remembered...thats why i hold you in high esteem...lol

vivian chinaza: I will keep on saying it.......men don't beat your wives.....wives control your mouths and actions!

Crown Prince:

Yes she is a capable woman who knows her boundary(maturity) and I am a Man who will respect her dispositions(love).

Do you want me to marry you with no GUARANTEE for peaceful existence?

Answer me now!

Idowuogbo:
Pardon?

Vivi! Like seriously? For real?

Shollypopz:
U are in mental bondage, serious one!!

Does ur father hit ur mum?? That could be the root of ur problem.

lalaosky:

walayi, when she quoted you, i knew you were about to go gaga.sholly try dey calm small....i wish you could up your tolerance level a bit.you too dey vex gan

vivian chinaza:

Menh.....lala you are yet to see some women.....sometimes I wonder if they are really women? They are beast in women's clothing!

Most of them come here to type trash and still fall victims...rubbish!

ItsModella:
where have you been? that statement is the reason for the 7 pages and counting.

vivian chinaza:

Menh.....lala you are yet to see some women.....sometimes I wonder if they are really women? They are beast in women's clothing!

Most of them come here to type trash and still fall victims...rubbish!

carefreewannabe:

Vivian, you can keep repeating it but you are not saying anything that REASONABLE people don't know.
And it doesn't make your very first statement right or less DANGEROUS.

abiL*:



Just because some of us are against your view point don't meant we get beats. A man has never laid his hands on me before. Never.

I've slapped a couple of waste guys for touching what they shouldn't be touching


We're not trash talking. I just hope that you will find a man that will treat you right. When you start justifying cheating and physical aggression, I start to wonder what could have triggered your thought processes with such impact (negatively) that you think a man is always right even when he's wrong.

freecocoa: Badosky what's up you na?

Shollypopz:
No be me she quote. I would love to see her threaten to scatter a thread while directing her comment to me. I would really love to see that. I don't tolerate cheap things, women with low self-esteem and women in mental slavery.

Crown Prince:

Yes she is a capable woman who knows her boundary(maturity) and I am a Man who will respect her dispositions(love).

Do you want me to marry you with no GUARANTEE for peaceful existence?

Answer me now!

lalaosky:

i've seen them....like kails said, untill we found ourselves in such conditions, we can't truly judge.but i will still handle myself better like my dad did.nobody is perfect so the women shouldn't push the men to the wall and the men should know that beating a woman can't be justified(at least to me).there are many ways to prove to a woman, that you are the captain of the ship and BEATING is surely aint one IMHO

vivian chinaza:


Btw, carry yourself as a lady and you will be treated like one. Carry urself as a goat and will be handled like one.

lalaosky:

i've seen them....like kails said, untill we found ourselves in such conditions, we can't truly judge.but i will still handle myself better like my dad did.nobody is perfect so the women shouldn't push the men to the wall and the men should know that beating a woman can't be justified(at least to me).there are many ways to prove to a woman, that you are the captain of the ship and BEATING is surely aint one IMHO

vivian chinaza:

Carefreewannabe, why don't you go home, argue with your husband, hit him bellow the belt in the process then come back and tell us how it goes. Then you will make perfect sense.

Btw, carry yourself as a lady and you will be treated like one. Carry urself as a goat and will be handled like one.

abiL*:



Just because some of us are against your view point don't meant we get beats. A man has never laid his hands on me before. Never.

I've slapped a couple of waste guys for touching what they shouldn't be touching


We're not trash talking. I just hope that you will find a man that will treat you right. When you start justifying cheating and physical aggression, I start to wonder what could have triggered your thought processes with such impact (negatively) that you think a man is always right even when he's wrong.

vivian chinaza:

Carefreewannabe, why don't you go home, argue with your husband, hit him bellow the belt in the process then come back and tell us how it goes. Then you will make perfect sense.

Btw, carry yourself as a lady and you will be treated like one. Carry urself as a goat and will be handled like one.

freecocoa: Mba vivi don't tow that line.
Actually I don't really get it, are you saying women in abusive relationships are the cause of the abuse?