i tink u shud just shut ur mouth and stop defending ursef over dis, its so obvious u r probably having an affair wit ur so called boss or u are caring for him because of ur selfish interest so dat he can develop interest in you... so its better for you to keep d good work of luring him into ur ungodly life and be quiet abt it than to be accusing d poor woman of not caring for gim, even my 8year old baby knows wat to do at d right time not to tok of a grown up man (if not a father)
SMH for your so called fiancee too, anyways who knows maybe another girl is probably telling him d type of playpants that will fit him since u probably dnt av time to notice that
someone u'v known 4 up to five years yet he still choose to look unkept evrytime, its now u started realising dat u r a life changer... dey carry another person matter for head like gala seller
busy body oshi..........mtcheeeeew

This is serious

Instead to face the Topic they're busy shooting the messenger.

Ur story neva finish na, wen U 4low am reach hotel kum tel us.

@ OP, Take cc's advise, it is the most balanced view i see here.

Truth be told, when a woman fails to do her job, other women will gladly step in and take the reins. However, you should flee from all appearances of evil and ignore your boss. Perhaps, he'll learn when clients begin to desert him.

People will always talk so you can't stop OP from expressing her view.

For those saying how could she da da da? .... I don't think we'd be having this convo had the hubby said a straight and polite thank you to OP but he chose to act dumb and disrespect his wife instead.

Bootylicious: Men will forever b babies and need care. I'm not married,i see some married men leave for work looking unkempt, unshaven beards and co.. it's so pathetic. Using my boss as a case study, he is wealthy buh OMG he comes to work most times looking un cared for and I wonder if his wife saw him leave d house, most times I have to say oga ur beards I Tink u shld shave and I always end up accompanying him 2d salon, some times I hold myself and not talk,den b4 closing hrs i'll ask him 2 shave b4 coming to work 2morrow, d finger nails too long and some times he comes 2 work wit dirty shirt, today I was so disgusted I had to go get him a new shirt and requested he shld change Wat he was wearing cos he'll b having a very important meeting.. on several occasions he even eats out b4 going home to meet his wife and kids,obviously he knows he won't meet food at home and Shez a full time house wife. This is so unfair.. later some women will b. hitting dre heads on d wall saying they have a cheating husband, dis little tins matter.. let ur husband leave d house wit a feeling hez got a wife at home I beggg!!!

Busy body things. What is your concern in all of these and No men are not Babies. Men are Men.

I am waiting for the day I will read a thread here were a man comes here to complain that his co worker's husband does not give her enough to care for herself so he has taken it upon himself to spoil her and buy her the latest Brazilian hair and more appropriate clothes.

the op has said her intention is to disturb her peace, its a free world, she should continue buying her bosses shirts and whatever else she can afford, she should also be sure to announce on nl anytime she does so, if she boosts seun's traffic enough, she might become a mod and maybe get a non-nagging boyfriend from among the bipolar ones in romance section.


so, carry on disturbing your peace, since you have loads of cash, keep doing your good work, if your boss refuses to shave you can even shave him sef, keep omo detergent on hand in the office so you can wash his shirts, have a shoe supplier visit you regularly to provide shoes for your pastor (but do not bring story of how you went to his hotel room for 7 days marathon sex, that's your own beeswax and your own bad belle misfortune).

so, since you have no other life besides scrutinizing other people's lives, make sure you do it well while the cash is still flowing!!!!!

at least you'll have something to look back to.

however, your boss needs to hire someone else who can do your job since you're too busy checking his beard and washing his clothes, imo. Abi you still get time to do the stuff that was in your job description?


lord have mercy, too many satanic agents with their monitoring spirit.

and yes, you forgot to mention how you knew the shirt and shoe sizes to buy, abi you get magic eye ni?

jidegirl12: People will always talk so you can't stop OP from expressing her view.

For those saying how could she da da da? .... I don't think we'd be having this convo had the hubby said a straight and polite thank you to OP but he chose to act dumb and disrespect his wife instead.

I don't want to assume and speculate here on hundreds of reasons why the man didn't turn down op's helping hands. Op has stated hers and she is here so no need to bother with the boss though he played a passive role in all these.

Booty, maybe your boss does farming as second job and is Amish? or work at Walmart/Target as folklift operator to buy the best single family home for his family? You never know what their home/plan is.
Maybe making more money is all he cares about not his appearance?.
He might be a strong Christian that is working on his inner self and not outside self?
There are some good points already on the best way to do it. You have a good heart however, temptation is not too far away. Soon boss man may take it to the next level. Just be careful and focus on your work and making money for your own home

Bootylicious: I am glad some1 understands......... d ones that are wise would pick my point and ignore d less important tinss I av said...buh I can't blame most of d women they are guilty of it,they'll spend extra time by d mirror and ignore their husbands and for d men taking d piss it's not my fault u don't have a woman by ur side to correct u wen u were turn boxers around d house... @tpia 1st my boss does strictly polo by ralph and we ain't even in Nigeria so where do I get d bend down select from..most of u just typed to show ure Gud at bashing people guess what i'm not among d type of people u can make feel bad if u don't feel comfy wit my post take a bow or kip hitting ur heads on d wall.. who cares

jidegirl12: People will always talk so you can't stop OP from expressing her view.

For those saying how could she da da da? .... I don't think we'd be having this convo had the[b] hubby said a straight and polite thank you to OP but he chose to act dumb and disrespect his wife instead.[/b]

I agree with you but I think the OP is an attention seeker. This sort of relationships play out in many work places everyday and they typically end up the way they should not. I have encountered situations were (my experiences have been with women though) female co workers were having difficulties in their marriages and they have a male friend at work that at first is just a listening ear then a shoulder to cry on and eventually body to keep warm. Sometimes you see those relationships and you know it is only a matter of time.

soul_glo: I am waiting for the day I will read a thread here were a man comes here to complain that his co worker's husband does not give her enough to care for herself so he has taken it upon himself to spoil her and buy her the latest Brazilian hair and more appropriate clothes.

Lmao!

Me I'm just wondering, if I go to work with dirty, rumpled clothes and I don't brush my hair properly, is it my husband's responsibility?

soul_glo: I am waiting for the day I will read a thread here were a man comes here to complain that his co worker's husband does not give her enough to care for herself so he has taken it upon himself to spoil her and buy her the latest Brazilian hair and more appropriate clothes.

I am waiting with you jor, I also hope the bottom line will also be "If he doesn't take care of his wife another man will step in and do it".

For the records, my problem was not the OPs concern but the total disrespect for the wife.

How many times have we shared here how people are amazingly dirty and sometimes you get tired and let them live in their dirts, nag all you want they won't listen.
She could have done her good samritan without running down a woman who she hasn't met or heard from, what's the part about "she is a housewife" lol

I ask men too, look around for peoples wives coming to work with unkepmt hair and squeezed clothes, take them shopping and to the salon, let's all be good samaritans.

Anyways op,I think by now you would have already known that pple will always make bullish comments on nl.
The purpose of this thread was to discuss the importance of keeping your partner's hygeine in check but for some apparent reasons known to these pple,the've decided to change that and attack the op.
I think your personal hygeine should be your personal responsibilty but if you can't take it up,than your partner can step in and if both of you still fail at it,then I think it is unavoidable and you should not see anything bad in that a close colleague been concerned about it.
I think we all tell our close friends and colleagues attitude,behaviour and things we don't like abt them and it is obvious she is close with her boss,so why are pple just accusing her unnecessarily

And na wa for this tilapia woman o,why are you always bullish and aggressive with your comments

Thorgan: Anyways op,I think by now you would have already known that pple will always make bullish comments on nl.
The purpose of this thread was to discuss the importance of keeping your partner's hygeine in check but for some apparent reasons known to these pple,the've decided to change that and attack the op.
I think your personal hygeine should be your personal responsibilty but if you can't take it up,than your partner can step in and if both of you still fail at it,then I think it is unavoidable and you should not see anything bad in that a close colleague been concerned about it.
I think we all tell our close friends and colleagues attitude,behaviour and things we don't like abt them and it is obvious she is close with her boss,so why are pple just accusing her unnecessarily

you sound like you're a pig , in that case, tell your partner (if any) to help you with your hygiene, stop making a monkey of yourself on the internet.

Thanks, they are doing so cos of 2 tins, some are dirty and neglect dre husbands and some are used to screwing dre boss....and ure indeed wise to have noticed I am close to my boss.......

Thorgan: Anyways op,I think by now you would have already known that pple will always make bullish comments on nl.
The purpose of this thread was to discuss the importance of keeping your partner's hygeine in check but for some apparent reasons known to these pple,the've decided to change that and attack the op.
I think your personal hygeine should be your personal responsibilty but if you can't take it up,than your partner can step in and if both of you still fail at it,then I think it is unavoidable and you should not see anything bad in that a close colleague been concerned about it.
I think we all tell our close friends and colleagues attitude,behaviour and things we don't like abt them and it is obvious she is close with her boss,so why are pple just accusing her unnecessarily

It's obvious u lack home training for calling people names unnecessarily attention monger

tpia@:



you sound like you're a pig , in that case, tell your partner (if any) to help you with your hygiene, stop making a monkey of yourself on the internet.

I rarely comment but am not in d class of people she can bullshit she obviously lacks home training and manners.

Thorgan: And na wa for this tilapia woman o,why are you always bullish and aggressive with your comments

raqueal:

I don't want to assume and speculate here on hundreds of reasons why the man didn't turn down op's helping hands.

Please go ahead and state the obvious reasons, I think that's why we're all here. No point holding back.

Op has stated hers and she is here so no need to bother with the boss though he played a passive role in all these

.

@bolded you should be ashamed of yourself for that statement. y'all get petrol and lighter and burn OP and pamper the idiota you call a man who deliberately humiliated his wife abi?

Ofcourse 'no need to bother' because men are babies right?

He played a 'passive role'?? Cos he's stûpid right?

Are you for real?

Somebody get me a pacifier and lock it in that lifeless Mumu's dirty mouth to suck.

Shoir!

OP I agree with you

That man maybe he doesnt even change his boxers can you check it and possibly change it for him

Does he bath? You might also need to bath him and wash his smelly balls as well since apparently the wife isnt doing it

tpia@:



you sound like you're a pig , in that case, tell your partner (if any) to help you with your hygiene, stop making a monkey of yourself on the internet.

Wow,are you tilapia ,I know you derive joy in engaging pple online,so henceforth,you are ignored

oops!

dayokanu: OP I agree with you

That man maybe he doesnt even change his boxers can you check it and possibly change it for him

Does he bath? You might also need to bath him and wash his smelly balls as well since apparently the wife isnt doing it

Tpia@ & Bootylicious , use of abusive language on each other is against the rules of the forum. Tone it down ladies.

You have been warned!

^^ Sorry Boss

dayokanu: OP I agree with you

That man maybe he doesnt even change his boxers can you check it and possibly change it for him

Does he bath? You might also need to bath him and wash his smelly balls as well since apparently the wife isnt doing it

Yes o! Since, you know, he's a baby, he's an imbe*cile and his hands are broken. So he can't be responsible for doing it himself!

*My only gripe in this thread is how someone else can be expected to be responsible for a mentally sound, unparalyzed grown man dressing cleanly and appropriately to work. Truely mind boggling.*

An adult is responsible for his own decisions.
That said, some people are comfortable in their dirty state. The wife can talk and talk, beg, cry and only God knows what she has put up with in this 8 years, maybe even family meetings have been called and she was adviced to leave him alone and "pray" that he changes.

I shared here how my friend was dating someone who was very comfortable living in feaces and urine, with rats and coakroaches as roomates, she cleaned and cleaned only to return and meet the house in worse states.
Now if someone whould come there and see the shit stained toilets and walls, shebi na her them go accuse? Meanwhile the man loved his house like that.

A man here also sued for divorce because his wife was dirty, I said the same thing, some people love dirt, you can't force them.

Why blame someones choices on another?

Dayo I want some of that thing you are smoking, Doctor said some medical MJ is good for me, lol.

I still await the thread for a concerned colleague who will take his female married unkempt co worker to a boutique and salon because the husband is not doing enough.

I worked with someone who made millions yet believed roll on, mouth wash and body spray is for "Oyibo", I use to pity his wife because you could see the look of "I give up" in her eyes

ileobatojo:

Yes o! Since, you know, he's a baby, he's an imbe*cile and his hands are broken. So he can't be responsible for doing it himself!

*My only gripe in this thread is how someone else can be expected to be responsible for a mentally sound, unparalyzed grown man dressing cleanly and appropriately to work. Truely mind boggling.*

ileoba is simply jealous.

BTW have you checked your own boss to see if he takes his bath? you can also help out with his hygiene. Dont forget men are babies we love to be cared for by single women especially secretaries

dayokanu:

ileoba is simply jealous.

BTW have you checked your own boss to see if he takes his bath? you can also help out with his hygiene. Dont forget men are babies we love to be cared for by single women especially secretaries

Yessir! Going right now to go and sniff his butt to make sure he washed it well.... Oga Matthew, where are you?!!

sniff and inhale, hopefully wifey fed him eggs for breakfast, shebi she is the care taker .

ileobatojo:

Yessir! Going right now to go and sniff his butt to make sure he washed it well.... Oga Matthew, where are you?!!