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Re: Where Do I Go From Here by Orikinla(m): 9:50pm On Aug 20, 2008 |
As I said, only the truth can solve the problem. I know that divorce is not the first option, but the last resort. The husband should be able to defend his wife for life. They have their life to live. If possible, they should relocate to a place where the in-laws cannot come to disturb them. I have seen horrible and terrible things many in-laws or out-laws have done to matrimonial homes. The fact is, a man can call the shots and keep the hounds at bay. If the man is afraid of the family and relations, then it is a pity. It is always good to investigate the family and relations before marriage. The Igbos do that before even the introduction. When you want to marry in Africa, please investigate the family background of your partner. Check out whether there are lunatic fringe elements among the members of the immediate or extended family. Everybody deserves peace of mind. |
Re: Where Do I Go From Here by Sisikill: 12:23am On Aug 21, 2008 |
@ Orikinla I'm sorry oh but I have a question. You keep saying "they should". . . Who, where and What is this they? Don't you see, she is ALONE in this. Is not when two people are on the same wavelength "THEY" can do something together? The only THEY I can see here is her husband and his family. I'm sorry but my sister getting hypertension, needing surgery all because of a man's family wahala is a no no for me. For what reason? Why are we making this a life or death issue? Must someone die in marriage before we can say they loved? If that is the case, TO HELL with love, marriage and the whole shebang , I say. @ OP You are absolutely right, this is not your marriage alone, why should you have to carry the load mean for 2? If he isn't ready, abeg let it be the back of your head he sees from yonder as you go buh-bye. Seriously, He's out there having his fun, enjoying his life and being happy and you are expected to what. . . Sit around in limbo waiting for him to come to his senses. . . that's if there is even any sense to come back to. [B]I'll repeat, life is too freaking short to keep twisting yourself into a pretzel, trying to please a man who by all account, couldn't care less about you.[/b] Haba! |
Re: Where Do I Go From Here by adefash(m): 12:32pm On Aug 21, 2008 |
eyaaaaaaaaaaaa we have to follow what d bible tells us. divorce is not biblical and we should not think about it not to talk of doing it.my prayer is that God will help you in time of distress(AMEN) |
Re: Where Do I Go From Here by tammyswits(f): 12:42pm On Aug 21, 2008 |
What you need to do is sit that hubby of yours down and those witches you call your inlaws and maybe a good pastor, lay all the issues on the table and let everyone say what they feel, come to an agreement, if things dont change, Make your move. |
Re: Where Do I Go From Here by adefash(m): 2:22pm On Aug 21, 2008 |
sister if you still have trouble solving this problem alone try have some one clse by who can have more personal and closer counselling with you.if you dont mind you can contact me on 08034386765 so that we will have to fight it 2gether in spirit.Bible says if 1 chases 1000, 2 shall chase 10000.maybe you need some one closeby to fight the ba2 together. SHLOM, IT IS WELL |
Re: Where Do I Go From Here by Zendinho(m): 7:16pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
tope2000:...are u givin her advice or u r repeating her ordeal? So which one has she nt done frm ur write up...mtchewwwww |
Re: Where Do I Go From Here by Nobody: 10:07pm On Sep 07, 2015 |
deejnr:Play some Jim Revese song, I reckon that will help to relieve some of ur pain |
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