golddust6000:
I repeat, that is her thought, where else can i go if its not staying at home after my study, she wasn't the one that gave me residency, it's my daughter document i am using not hers, i am still paying my school fee, and child support, house bills. What else did she want? she told her friend right from the very start that she will hide our marriage certificate, this is common with European women.

Like I pointed out earlier, you never accept you are wrong. You told us you married her to get your documents. Then you got it through your daughter and which according to you means you did not get it through your wife. Let me ask you, if she never married you and birth that child, would you have used the child for any document? And to think this is the same child you don't even want to pay 150euro child support to the mum. Poor child who is only good enough to grant the father residency.

babygirlfl:

Like I pointed out earlier, you never accept you are wrong. You told us you married her to get your documents. Then you got it through your daughter and which according to you means you did not get it through your wife. Let me ask you, if she never married you and birth that child, would you have used the child for any document? And to think this is the same child you don't even want to pay 150euro child support to the mum. Poor child who is only good enough to grant the father residency.

I did not say i wont pay child support, but her mother is so eager about it. she is my child, i love her i will take any responsibility for her upbringing.

golddust6000:
But she did not give me the paper.

You still don't get it, you married her for the wrong reason.

dustydee:

You still don't get it, you married her for the wrong reason.

Accepted

What's the purpose of the video??
You have not accepted any responsibility for the part you played in the breakdown of your marriage,then you play a video where you are in control to show she is a bad person while you are an angel and in front of your child??
It takes 2 for a marriage to break down, she's tired of you and wants you out.You married her for your selfish reasons,she's on to you and doesn't want again.Can't blame her..who wants to be with a man who married her for his own personal gain?

European women are authoritarian?? Because they won't accept the rubbish you dish out in the name of 'African' man??

Pay your child support and be a good father that's all.Dont know what you hope to achieve with the video.

golddust6000:
Thank you for your advice, she has her own flat, she has a good job, she knew that i am just a scholar she want to use it as advantage getting control over me.

So why are you saying she kicked you out just for 150 euros. Whch country is this that they earn 300euro a month.

She kicked you out because she had reason to believe that you are cheating on her and she probably realised that you married her for papers. Not for 150euros.

Apologize , drop the ego and carry your cross.

If you're cheating on her, you better move out so you can continue to see your kid, before she file for restraining order & nail your azz to hell, witnessed Nigerian men that aren't given visitation rights as a result of this.

You can't be smart with them. They know all the right corners to cut and take you off the picture.

Be wise.

P.S.. I won't be surprised to hear that same Nigerians are the culprit behind her suspicions. Smh

fem29:


So why are you saying she kicked you out just for 150 euros. Whch country is this that they earn 300euro a month.

She kicked you out because she had reason to believe that you are cheating on her and she probably realised that you married her for papers. Not for 150euros.

The reason she asked me to move out from her house is because i am not going to village with her any more, like i said i am doing my thesis now. divorce is normal in Europe, i am not the first person. a lot Foreigners that got married here don't last long. google Lithuania divorce rate.
http://top5ofanything.com/list/e279c234/European-Countries-with-the-Highest-Divorce-Rates

golddust6000:
The reason she asked me to move out from her house is because i am not going to village with her any more, like i said i am doing my thesis now. divorce is normal in Europe, i am not the first person. a lot Foreigners that got married here don't last long. google Lithuania divorce rate.
http://top5ofanything.com/list/e279c234/European-Countries-with-the-Highest-Divorce-Rates

But you married her for her papers, did you mean to be married to her forever, do you love her?. Did you ever love her . What we are saying is stop blaming her for the demise of your marriage. Your foundation was very shaky

Ewuro4:
Apologize , drop the ego and carry your cross.

If you're cheating on her, you better move out so you can continue to see your kid, before she file for restraining order & nail your azz to hell, witnessed Nigerian men that aren't given visitation rights as a result of this.

You can't be smart with them. They know all the right corners to cut and take you off the picture.

Be wise.

P.S.. I won't be surprised to hear that same Nigerians are the culprit behind her suspicions. Smh

I know how to deal with her, she even text me few minute ago, try to beg me to come back, but i wont go, because i know that my hands are clean. She just framed things up to nail me down, but i am smart enough to hold all document with me, she can't do nothing.

golddust6000:
I know how to deal with her, she even text me few minute ago, try to beg me to come back, but i wont go, because i know that my hands are clean. She just framed things up to nail me down, but i am smart enough to hold all document with me, she can't do nothing.

Okay oh. Good luck with that. Your kid is very cute. Don't mess her life up please. She needs you.

And be careful who you talk to. Even Nigerians.

fem29:


But you married her for her papers, did you mean to be married to her forever, do you love her?. Did you ever love her . What we are saying is stop blaming her for the demise of your marriage. Your foundation was very shaky

First, i married her for love to be sincere, when i knew that she lack respect. she believes she is wealthy she can do whatever she likes, i don't have say, she has to be the one to tell me what to do and how to do it. bro, i know that we will not last for long but i don't expect it to happen now, i am tired, we can go our own separate ways.

golddust6000:
I did not say i wont pay child support, but her mother is so eager about it. she is my child, i love her i will take any responsibility for her upbringing.

Ok

Ewuro4:


Okay oh. Good luck with that. Your kid is very cute. Don't mess her life up please. She needs you.

And be careful who you talk to. Even Nigerians.

Thanx for your advice.

golddust6000:
First, i married her for love to be sincere, when i knew that she lack respect. she believes she is wealthy she can do whatever she likes, i don't have say, she has to be the one to tell me what to do and how to do it. bro, i know that we will not last for long but i don't expect it to happen now, i am tired, we can go our own separate ways.

Hmm pele, it's sad that a child is caught up in this, I hope you guys can put your differences aside and co parent in harmony

golddust6000:
First, i married her for love to be sincere, when i knew that she lack respect. she believes she is wealthy she can do whatever she likes, i don't have say, she has to be the one to tell me what to do and how to do it. bro, i know that we will not last for long but i don't expect it to happen now, i am tired, we can go our own separate ways.

This is not what you told us in your first post. You told us you married her for her papers and even explained why you had to do it.

babygirlfl:


This is not what you told us in your first post. You told us you married her for her papers and even explained why you had to do it.

yeah! But i did not get same paper, co's am still using child permit because i am paying child care support.

golddust6000
Why are you exposing yourself? You owe no one explanation in regards to your motive whatsoever. Your conscience will take care of that.

What exactly do you want from NLers besides mockery please? Pls tell me.

golddust6000:
yeah! But i did not get same paper, co's am still using child permit because i am paying child care support.

Ok good luck

golddust6000:
HAHA, Sandra and phone number is not her problem, she caught me with Sandra 2 years bank when we were not married, to be sincere i dont have any girl friend what so ever. i am a psychology student, most of the time i need to focus on research, more over i am doing my thesis 92 pages.

You were double dating ? Just typical.
Meanwhile why did you marry her after you had a child together. The child could have given you a permit to stay since that was your motive? Or maybe you wanted a fast way to citizenship.

Anyway, work things out and stay in your girls life. Crying here for child support won't do you anygood. If you think the system is not fair to you, you can as well return back to the place where you will rule as a king in jungle.

You got your stay and it comes with a price. Sort the ish with your wife.

Btw. See as you gentle for the video. If na nigerian woman na beat you for beat her as she drag the phone with you.

Who says civilization is bad

golddust6000:
Don’t call your country a shit hole on till you travel out.
What I am about to shear with you people is my story about living with European woman (Caucasian) .
My journey started in august 22, 2011. I left Nigeria to study in Europe, due to the fact that gaining admission in Nigeria University is like living in hell on earth. I gained admission in one of the top university in Europe, after the school has promised me conducive atmosphere for learning in their university, when I arrived the country I realized that this country is not for me, because the environment, the society is not friendly at all. My school fee was 2000eur, which I was struggling to pay, as a naija guy I started looking for any means to secure my resident permit, I mean getting married to a European lady so I will stop paying school fee. I hit the club, dating site, looking for any means to look for a woman, thank God I got one. We dated for almost a year, what I realized about European women is that 90% of them are authoritarians, I can’t cope with most of them as an African, I had problem dating them. After dating so many ladies, Finally I got married February 2014, before I got married I’d already had a baby girl. Right from the day we got married, that was the starting point of our conflict. What I realized about European lady is that when you have baby with them they will try their possible best to frustrate you to the extend you will have no choice than to divorce her so they can live with the baby alone, During that process the government will ask you to be paying 150 euros for child support every month whether you are working or not, a country that the minimum wage is not up to 300eur. (73 percent of married women in that country are single mothers). My wife accused me of dating another woman wish she didn’t have any evidence to proof to back up the past 7 months, still will are sleeping on same bed. She has been looking for ways to divorce me so I will be remitting 150euro for child support that was her aim. I have tried all my possible best to secure our marriage but still no avail. She asks me to leave her house yesterday being 22nd of April. Now we are heading to court.
You can watch the 7 minute video that I recorded about our quarreling last night.
If you have any advice you can shear, thanx.
PLEASE MODERATOR CAN YOU DO THE NEEDFUL FOR ME? SO PEOPLE CAN SEE THE PROBLEM WE ARE FACING IN EUROPE. [b][/b]

Dude you are not alone.
White girls are beautiful and charming but believe me they like authority.
They love it so very much.
Not just European,Australia and Americans are included.


But are you sure your not cheating on her?

9ja guys do that a lot. So eotteoke!

golddust6000:
I know how to deal with her, she even text me few minute ago, try to beg me to come back, but i wont go, because i know that my hands are clean. She just framed things up to nail me down, but i am smart enough to hold all document with me, she can't do nothing.

Your story no get head.
In one mouth you said she is rich, in another you said she wants to nail you down with 150 euro child support.

150euro? Is she that desperate ?

So what are you afraid of? The child support, your own child or the documents you might be losing.

Chillisauce:


You were double dating ? Just typical.
Meanwhile why did you marry her after you had a child together. The child could have given you a permit to stay since that was your motive? Or maybe you wanted a fast way to citizenship.

Anyway, work things out and stay in your girls life. Crying here for child support won't do you anygood. If you think the system is not fair to you, you can as well return back to the place where you will rule as a king in jungle.

You got your stay and it comes with a price. Sort the ish with your wife.

Btw. See as you gentle for the video. If na nigerian woman na beat you for beat her as she drag the phone with you.

Who says civilization is bad

Haha, na true oo, if i try am hmm 5years in jail with injected food that courses brain damage.

golddust6000:
Haha, na true oo, if i try am hmm 5years in jail with injected food that courses brain damage.

Hahaha.

This guy you funny.

On a serious note, look after that little girl. She needs her dad. No matter what the mother is doing. You are entitled to a right to that child.

and pls, taake off that video for the child's sake. Quite embarrassing.

See your strong face too

Optimall:




Dude you are not alone.
White girls are beautiful and charming but believe me they like authority.
They love it so very much.
Not just European,Australia and Americans are included.


But are you sure your not cheating on her?
9ja guys do that a lot. So eotteoke!

I did not cheat on her, her main problem was that i am know more going to her village again during weekends, she really miss me on that aspect, i dey surfer dey pack pig shit, cut grass, pluck apple from trees, still yet she no appreciate

Chillisauce:

Your story no get head.
In one mouth you said she is rich, in another you said she wants to nail you down with 150 euro child support.

150euro? Is she that desperate ?

So what are you afraid of? The child support, your own child or the documents you might be losing.

Chai chilli see, as you come bring chilli to fire up the whole matter and I had started to feel sorry for him .

Na true u talk I too wondered why you would chase your hubby out for 150euro lasan lasan but he says they earn 300 euro a month there

Chillisauce:


Hahaha.

This guy you funny.

On a serious note, look after that little girl. She needs her dad. No matter what the mother is doing. You are entitled to a right to that child.

and pls, taake off that video for the child's sake. Quite embarrassing.

See your strong face too

I will, i love my lil kid so much, i will graduate this autum, i have nothing to worry about, i be comfirm strong man

fem29:


Chai chilli see, as you come bring chilli to fire up the whole matter and I had started to feel sorry for him .

Na true u talk I too wondered why you would chase your hubby out for 150euro lasan lasan but he says they earn 300 euro a month there

I didn't chilli up anything here.


The woman says he is always with his pc and phone and he says he is doing his 99 pages thesis.

Abeg who dey use phone do thesis?
Now he said she is rich but same time wants to nail him for 150 euro child support.

I tire for the man. Sandra is chilling somewhere now waiting for him to get citizenship from his new wife. No wonder she De activated fast fast.


Op Na confirm guyman

Chillisauce:


I didn't chilli up anything here.


The woman says he is always with his pc and phone and he says he is doing his 99 pages thesis.

Abeg who dey use phone do thesis?
Now he said she is rich but same time wants to nail him for 150 euro child support.

I tire for the man. Sandra is chilling somewhere now waiting for him to get citizenship from his new wife. No wonder she De activated fast fast.

, as in ehn, Nigerian men can be so obtuse. Instead of being honest with himself as to why they broke up, he is saying its cos of 150euros, which woman would want to be angle mum just cos of 150 euros a month nth, if u say 15,000 euros ehen, now ur talking

berekete86:
The woman even tried sef......don't think of marrying a Nigerian woman after you divorce her, cos no well-thinking Nigerian woman will put up with that shit........YOU are the one that has to change.
* She kept telling you to move out......like she owns the place or pays for the rent....and you were saying "i will move out", what are you not telling us....cos i know no woman will like to have a free-loader for a husband, Oga pay your rent.
*you are not straightforward, in the video it appears you're really hiding something, maybe a side-chick or so, no woman will be happy with that
*you were arguing in front of that ADORABLE baby.....how could you? Don't mess that child up psychologically with your drama abeg...huge NO
*All through your video, you were on the defensive, a simple i'm sorry would have calmed things down, but no, YOU are always right.

I can't type again.......it's not too late.....call her to say you're sorry and leave your computer and get something doing, it doesn't matter if na Oyibo or Naija woman, woman na woman, treat her right and she'll never leave your side.........

i know shes not perfect, but two wrongs don't make a right......just apologize and end this madness please....thanks.

Beautiful!

Chillisauce:


I didn't chilli up anything here.


The woman says he is always with his pc and phone and he says he is doing his 99 pages thesis.

Abeg who dey use phone do thesis?
Now he said she is rich but same time wants to nail him for 150 euro child support.

I tire for the man. Sandra is chilling somewhere now waiting for him to get citizenship from his new wife. No wonder she De activated fast fast.


Op Na confirm guyman

Sandra is my x, more over she is a white lady. Oh you believed all what she was saying right? were you there? paying 150 euros for child support. The minimum house you can get here starting from 170euro per month with utility, and you are here spewing jagbajastic

You did not need to marry her to get your papers. You married her or her money and the convenience.
Ye sadly you were and are not prepared to play the role of husband.

I have to commend this woman. She is very calm! She really is well mannered and always remained calm and polite, no abuses no insults.

Mr OP 150 Euro child support is peanuts. You should be ashamed to mention it. That money is not enough to take care of a child.

FAZIT You are a let down!

And putting your daughter in the public glare is awful ! It tells so much about you.

Women are the same everywhere and with every color. They need tender loving care!