Optimall:




Dude you are not alone.
White girls are beautiful and charming but believe me they like authority.
They love it so very much.
Not just European,Australia and Americans are included.


But are you sure your not cheating on her?

9ja guys do that a lot. So eotteoke!

golddust6000:
I did not cheat on her, her main problem was that i am know more going to her village again during weekends, she really miss me on that aspect, i dey surfer dey pack pig shit, cut grass, pluck apple from trees, still yet she no appreciate

fem29:


, as in ehn, Nigerian men can be so obtuse. Instead of being honest with himself as to why they broke up, he is saying its cos of 150euros, which woman would want to be angle mum just cos of 150 euros a month nth, if u say 15,000 euros ehen, now ur talking

golddust6000:
Sandra is my x, more over she is a white lady. Oh you believed all what she was saying right? were you there? paying 150 euros for child support. The minimum house you can get here starting from 170euro per month with utility, and you are here spewing jagbajastic

Anyi3:


Haba I don't cheat

Expecting your retraction and apology in two national dailies

Chillisauce:


My dear I tire for the guy.
Only the babies milk for 4 weeks is like 50 euro.
If she stays in creche, it's like 500 per month.
Oh I forgot. Abeg which kin country you land wey minimum wage is 300 euro.



What do you want to achieve.i don't get it.
You don't pay rent.
You married for papers
You double date and still keep in touch with Sandra
You don't want to pay child support for your own child.

Why are you actually complaining.
Nagging?

You get luck N'a only nagging she give you. I for Don throw you out in the cold tay tay.
Carry your Yeye dishonest attitude and arrogance dey parade everywhere .

golddust6000:
you don finish? okay i hear you.

Optimall:


I know how authoritative they can be..

Shollypopzz:
@golddust6000: Please take down that YouTube video before someone steals it. Do it for your daughter, it is very embarrassing.

Who is Sandra? What did Sandra tell your wife? Your wife waited 6 months to bring up the Sandra issue, what do you think happened in March/April that might have sent her down memory lane.

She said you spend more time on your phone and laptop than you do with your daughter. Why??

Why have you refused to go to the village? Explain in detail. E.g: When you stopped, If your initial refusal made her angry......

Have you moved out? Has she reached out to you since you moved out?

Shollypopzz:

Chillisauce:



Oh I forgot. Abeg which kin country you land wey minimum wage is 300 euro.



W

Shollypopzz:

cococandy:
OP did you honestly from the depth of your heart want to be married to her till death do you part?

cococandy:
OP did you honestly from the depth of your heart want to be married to her till death do you part?

golddust6000:
Never, that is impossible. Relationship in Europe is not for better for worse, but i don't want us to break up now.

golddust6000:
Never, that is impossible. Relationship in Europe is not for better for worse, but i don't want us to break up now.

Chillisauce:
You don carry your polygamous attitude enter obodo Oyibo.

Let's believe you weren't cheating on her, why are you always in your pc or phone 24hrs and you say you are a student.
Hope you are not into Fraud?
Instead of you to be bothered about how to make sure you reconcile and be with your child, you are here shouting [/b]150 euro child support.[b]

Someone called her and disconnected the no. You are here asking her of evidence again.

Anyway, if she tired of your arssss, move out and get your life sorted out. Get a good lawyer and get a visitation right f or your child while paying for child support.
This way you can have more time for your nigerian girlfriend Sandra

golddust6000:
Never, that is impossible. Relationship in Europe is not for better for worse, but i don't want us to break up now.

bebe2:


Can u imagine? 150€ for a month? For a whole pikin?

Dat can't even feed a chihuahua and he is shouting.

Well I don't blame him, just dat oyinbo too dey mum, if aliens ever come to this earth na oyinbo e go first give belle.

cococandy:

Really? So people who get married in Europe never Intend to live the rest of their lives together? That mindset is what you went Into the marriage with and I'm not surprised it affected the marriage.
What you want and what actually happens are not always the same thing hence my question.
If you actually wanted to be with her till death do you part but it didn't work out then that wouldn't be entirely your fault.
But you didn't even want the marriage for real.

ok you wanted to break up when you've become settled and stable.
If really you believed all along that it wouldn't last, then I don't know what you're complaining for.
She must have sensed in your attitude that you weren't in it for the long haul.
You probably weren't emotionally available too.

You for just tell her say Na business arrangement so that you will pay her and she will overlook anything else you do. I learned that's how some guys do it to avoid being asked to be a real husband or father when all they actually want is just a stepping stone to paper and stability.

golddust6000:
75% of Lithuanian couples are divorcee, What i meant about " don't want to divorce now" was that i knew that she has been acting funny since we had our baby, i went through her Facebook messages, charting with her friend about our marriage, telling them that she Thank her god that she have a baby now that time is not on her side. even she went and hide our marriage certificate so that she can divorce easily. Well she is begging me now to come back, but i wont.

golddust6000:
Don’t call your country a shit hole on till you travel out.
What I am about to shear with you people is my story about living with European woman (Caucasian) .
My journey started in august 22, 2011. I left Nigeria to study in Europe, due to the fact that gaining admission in Nigeria University is like living in hell on earth. I gained admission in one of the top university in Europe, after the school has promised me conducive atmosphere for learning in their university, when I arrived the country I realized that this country is not for me, because the environment, the society is not friendly at all. My school fee was 2000eur, which I was struggling to pay, as a naija guy Istarted looking for any means to secure my resident permit, I mean getting married to a European lady so I will stop paying school fee. I hit the club, dating site, looking for any means to look for a woman, thank God I got one. We dated for almost a year, what I realized about European women is that 90% of them are authoritarians, I can’t cope with most of them as an African, I had problem dating them After dating so many ladies, Finally I got married February 2014, before I got married I’d already had a baby girl. Right from the day we got married, that was the starting point of our conflict. What I realized about European lady is that when you have baby with them they will try their possible best to frustrate you to the extend you will have no choice than to divorce her so they can live with the baby alone, During that process the government will ask you to be paying 150 euros for child support every month whether you are working or not, a country that the minimum wage is not up to 300eur. (73 percent of married women in that country are single mothers). My wife accused me of dating another woman wish she didn’t have any evidence to proof to back up the past 7 months, still will are sleeping on same bed. She has been looking for ways to divorce me so I will be remitting 150euro for child support that was her aim. I have tried all my possible best to secure our marriage but still no avail. She asks me to leave her house yesterday being 22nd of April. Now we are heading to court.
You can watch the 7 minute video that I recorded about our quarreling last night.
If you have any advice you can shear, thanx.

golddust6000:
Never, that is impossible. Relationship in Europe is not for better for worse, but i don't want us to break up now.

2good:
My advice for you is to get your degree and leave the country. The child is technically not yours because the woman can bar you from seeing the child and the government will not do anything. Divorce her and move on with your life.