have ever loved guys that are much older than me, even if my ex-boy friend bleeped me up, he is 30 while am 19 I was calling him bro. Kelvin, he often told me that he loves me and he will build my future together and which he did we also sang together create music for ourselves we were so much in love, but unknown to me that he has a serious date that is very rich, to cut it short, when the cat was out of the basket she threaten my life, I have to leave the guy for good, the guy is still coming around for me to accept him back. Can some one advice me. Should I go ahead or not?.

cos am scared, But am happy that am more prettier than her.

My dear, in a relationship, being prettier than the next girl is not what counts.
You also sound like you dont have a strong mind of your own. His "other" girl threatened you and you took to your heels.
You are better off without him, then because she will threaten you again and again.

Looks has little or no role to play in this. . . .Where the dude's heart lies, matters most.

As for taking him back after the threat. . . . .It depends on how much risk You're willing to take.

_{*Thinking aloud. . . .30-19, that's much mehn*.}

Second chances should be given very rarely, in this case, I wouldn't.

ibkaye:

Second chances should be given very rarely, in this case, I wouldn't.

u might end up having a billion exes.

@ OP

No one is worth dying for. . , definitely not a bf or gf.

noetic2:

u might end up having a billion exes.

Depends on what he is guilty of, if the offence is highly inexcusable, I will not tolerate it.

Ibukun love. You are growing up like I thought you would o

my nairalanders, the girl said she will deal wif me if i don't leave the guy she also called my dad warning him to tell his daughter to leave her boyfriend that i will end up losing my life. after the call my dad has to beat the hell out of me, so i decided to leave him, but the guy and I are so in love with each other, am like an healing herbs to him when ever he is sick, but i cant just continue with him

you are 19 , this is not worth it , you still have a lot of living to do. Pls leave this guy alone and find a boy closer to your age with less drama.

sweetcoint:

my nairalanders, the girl said she will deal wif me if i don't leave the guy she also called my dad warning him to tell his daughter to leave her boyfriend that i will end up losing my life. after the call my dad has to beat the hell out of me, so i decided to leave him, but the guy and I are so in love with each other, am like an healing herbs to him when ever he is sick, but i cant just continue with him

ama small babe like you wey for de think about education na im love de shark like this?
this shagging wey cover you eyes like this eh
think of how many years you still get to do am
time de come you go see man e go be like say make you vomit
you too small wey go de fight for man.
tell the guy say NO!

My sister is also 19yrs old.
I'd be damned if this is what she gets up to.

At 19, you are busy getting your dad worked up over some stupid relationship.

Na inside sulo i go dump you.

Sweetcoint oloriburuku.

well as long as you don't mind his age, and as long as you don't mind sharing (you seem not to have any problems with his "serious date" except she's the one who has problems with u ) then u're good to go!! don't be scared. next time she comes for u, pour hot water and pepper on her. that will teach her a lesson.
dunno why she's coming after u tho. guess u're an easier target than the old man. she sef is stupid. all 3 of you all are weirdos.

couldnt even understand the post

na wa for me sha

na wa for u sha

is OK thanks for your contributions, am grateful am aslo loyal to what ever you say
lol

Why botherin yourself? If the guy isn't a player he'll let go de older lady