JacksonD7:


I don't know about you but I didn't wear makeup and dress like a girl when I was a boy. The nephew is probably gay I'm thinking the uncle has a hand in this.

your uncle made his son gay?

Wonderful

martynsnet:
First am not against gay people but considering our Nigeria of today, I fear for this kid.

I recently moved in with my uncle to spend 2 months because of a job am seeking. I noticed his 11yr old son acts funny, first he likes physical contact with me, as in he just likes to hold me, cares my hands at every chance. He cares my legs which i initially thought maybe he just likes playing with the hairs on my legs but i noticed he was going higher my knee. A few male visitors have complained of his unusually physical attitude but his parents think he's just being a kid...

He likes dressing up as a girl, wears his elder sister's clothes and sometimes her heels.

He has remix Rihanna's "work" song to "twerk, twerk.....", u need to see him gyrating his butt to the song.

He acts like a sissy and cries like a girl, first time i heard him cry I was like WTF? You need to hear him complain when he's upset, his choice of words, attitude and body language all exhibits feminine traits.

There are just too many incidents and attitudes that am just not comfortable with, he's got 2 sisters and 1 brother. His brother is every bit a brut, a real salt give it to u kind of tough guy so I dont understand where this one is coming from...

I yell at him whenever i see him acting funny, I dont think yelling is a good option but i have little options as I dont know what to do.......

First of all stop your nephew from caressing you that's just weird, you can find ways to help your nephew raise his testosterone levels that would bring down the feminine traits.

FunkyMetahuman:
your uncle made his son gay?

Wonderful

Who's talking about my uncle, in case you don't know childhood experiences can influence sexual orientation.

well. that's how Jamal in Empire started.
how u gonna go about it now. speak out or keep looking and focus on your job hunt

JacksonD7:


Absolute BS, there's no such thing as a gay gene plus are very capable of choosing which side they want to flow to.

You do know there is no such thing as a heterosexual gene right?

And since you're so convinced about choices, please can you tell me when you chose to become an heterosexual?

I ain't gay, so don't even try to switch to expletives. Simply answer the questions.

-Lord

JacksonD7:


First of all stop your nephew from caressing you that's just weird, you can find ways to help your nephew raise his testosterone levels that would bring down the feminine traits.

Such as?

-Lord

All these gay trash are all learned...it is never instinctual and for those who will try to tell you about animals engaging in homosexual acts please help me ask them why a human being with a fully functional brain will just wake up and start taking moral cues from animals?

He needs to unlearn the gay crap he must have learnt through TV,Abuse or other boys around him.

JacksonD7:


Absolute BS, there's no such thing as a gay gene plus are very capable of choosing which side they want to flow to.

i just said what I know for a fact.... I've seen homosexuals that's as young as 5. actually he's the youngest I've ever seen... because of his nature, his parents always forced him to sleep in their family church almost every Friday for deliverance - they tot he was possessed- ..long story short the guy is 25 now and he's still as gay as the day is long.

cupidhero:
All these gay trash are all learned...it is never instinctual and for those who will try to tell you about animals engaging in homosexual acts please help me ask them why a human being with a fully functional brain will just wake up and start taking moral cues from animals?

He needs to unlearn the gay crap he must have learnt through TV,Abuse or other boys around him.

Please can you back this up with facts?

It's like saying that introversion is never instinctual; because humans are by nature social animals and going by that logic we should all be extroverts.

Morality is man-made. Morality is NOT natural. Sexual orientation is natural. It is not man-made.

Amongst cannibalistic societies, it is perfectly moral to eat other human beings. In non-cannibalistic societies like ours, it is morally reprehensible to eat other human beings.

The definition of sexual morality has gone on a roller-coaster ride since the beginning of time. But I'll concentrate on recent history.

The Church (Catholic Church, the dominant denomination in the past) had a very distinct view of sexual morality that influenced much of the known world in the past and more than 1 billion people today. Only sexual acts that could lead to procreation was acceptable. All other sexual acts were deemed SEXUALLY IMMORAL. Masturbation, check. MouthAction that you now cherish, it was SEXUAL IMMORAL. Sodomy, check.

In fact how married partners had sex was heavily regulated. Missionary style was the preferred style of course. Most of the styles you prefer now such as doggy and bend-down select or whatever you call them were IMMORAL and counted as sins you had to confess. The basic premise was that you had sex to procreate, every other reason such as to connect or have fun was SEXUALLY IMMORAL. Reason why to this day, the Catholic Church refrains church members from using contraceptives.

Today, most of these acts are no longer considered SEXUAL IMMORAL. This calls to question the entire concept of sexual morality.

In fact, as late as 1901, the Dorland’s Medical Dictionary defined heterosexuality as an “abnormal or perverted appetite toward the opposite sex.”

By 1923, the Merriam Webster’s dictionary similarly defined it as “morbid sexual passion for one of the opposite sex.”

But just over a decade after in 1934, heterosexuality was graced with the meaning we’re familiar with today: “manifestation of sexual passion for one of the opposite sex; normal sexuality.”

In fact having sex with 12 years old kids that was once accepted as sexually moral is now deemed sexually immoral (and not even in all societies around the world).

Within 30 years, humanity's definition and understanding of sexual orientation and morality had changed drastically. What was once abnormal, perverted, and immoral are now deemed normal, acceptable, and moral.

Our understanding is still shifting and evolving, and you can bet your hat that in the future, our view of heterosexuality will be drastically different from what it is today. Heck, heterosexuality as a concept may no longer exist.

The animal kingdom gives us a very clear overview of something we often fail to acknowledge--that variety is the spice of life. There are heterosexual animals as they are homosexual animals. There are asexual animals as there are sexual animals. There are polygamous animals as there are monogamous animals. I could continue.

No one is taking moral advice from animals. We are understanding ourselves better from looking at our evolutionary past. Exactly the same way we use animal models to device treatment procedures for human beings.

Homo sapiens is a 7-billion member specie. We are only just confirming from research that introverts and extroverts may have been same from birth, even though we certainly cannot explain how genetics, environment or other pre- and post-natal factors influence who becomes an extrovert or an introvert. Sexuality, like temperament and personality is a spectrum within our species. Understanding that is the key to tolerance and accepting that variety is indeed the spice of life.

Everybody must not be exactly like you. We are all different.

-Lord

I see nothing bad in been gay..... Gay rocks.... Leave the little kid alone! Brother visiting his uncle, mind your biz.....one's Sexuality shouldn't be another person's problem or issue

LordAdam16:


You do know there is no such thing as a heterosexual gene right?

And since you're so convinced about choices, please can you tell me when you chose to become an heterosexual?

I ain't gay, so don't even try to switch to expletives. Simply answer the questions.

-Lord

I grew discovering I was straight, I also grew up watching porn so much that it fvvcked up my brain, it got so bad that I started reading gay erotica and watching transgendered porn.

After a while I started checking out guys and couldn't get off anything besides transgendered porn. I wasn't happy about this so I made a choice to stay away from gay porn, I stopped checking guys out after that.

Years later after rolling in the dark depths of transgendered porn and thinking that I was bisexual, I woke up one morning and decided to give up porn and masturbation forever and close to 90 days down the line I'm straighter than I have been since my early teens.

If this is not a story of a man making choices to preserve his heterosexuality then what is it.

LordAdam16:


Such as?

-Lord

More testosterone = more masculinity

That's basic man science, even butch lesbian are known to have abnormally high testosterone levels.

uzoclinton:
i just said what I know for a fact.... I've seen homosexuals that's as young as 5. actually he's the youngest I've ever seen... because of his nature, his parents always forced him to sleep in their family church almost every Friday for deliverance - they tot he was possessed- ..long story short the guy is 25 now and he's still as gay as the day is long.

There's still a choice factor in it, some people are born as kleptomaniacs but they can still train themselves to end the cycle of compulsive stealing.

JacksonD7:


I grew discovering I was straight, I also grew up watching porn so much that it fvvcked up my brain, it got so bad that I started reading gay erotica and watching transgendered porn.

After a while I started checking out guys and couldn't get off anything besides transgendered porn. I wasn't happy about this so I made a choice to stay away from gay porn, I stopped checking guys out after that.

Years later after rolling in the dark depths of transgendered porn and thinking that I was bisexual, I woke up one morning and decided to give up porn and masturbation forever and close to 90 days down the line I'm straighter than I have been since my early teens.

If this is not a story of a man making choices to preserve his heterosexuality then what is it.

Your story sounds like BS! But let's assume it's true.

Most heterosexuals I know including myself puke at gay (especially male gay) porn. Why do you think many heterosexuals hate homosexualism so much. Many can't even imagine it much less veer into a porn site to view them. It's like Ewww!

Even the sight of two guys kissing can seem offensive to near-complete heterosexuals.

If you like we can do a poll on this site. Most of these vaseline crew that masturbate all day do not veer into the gay section of XNXX, XVIDEOS, PORNHUB or any other niche porn site you can think of.

So, you aren't an heterosexual. You are probably a bisexual or pansexual who identifies as a heterosexual. You want people to see you as an heterosexual because you are very much aware that our society is heavily homophobic. That's not who you are, that's what you want people to see.

Porn did not Bleep up your brain that you started enjoying gay and transgendered porn. You were exploring your sexual desires like most young males do and found something that ticked your box--gay and transgendered porn.

Don't believe me? There are over 100 porn niches. Bestiality, pissing, defecating, bondage, foot fetish, just to mention a few. If you say you were so engrossed in porn at some point, then I can with absolute certainty that you encountered some or all of these niche fetishes. What was your experience? Why didn't your twisted brain (since you want to blame it on your twisted brain) also like to see animals do humans (or vice versa) or get aroused at people pissing on each other (or spy photos of people pissing) or get aroused at people playing with faeces?

You see where I am going. For a bisexual who is both interested in straight, gay, and transgendered porn; of course you can decide (although difficult) to forgo one or all of them because you are pressured by your immediate homophobic environment and religion to conform to heterosexuality. That doesn't make you who you are, that's what society made you.

You are a bisexual or pansexual good for you. But the kid in the OP didn't start watching straight porn then veered to gay porn and felt satisfied with gay porn then started acting gay. The kid doesn't even know what straight and gay is all about. We are the ones placing the label on him.

He is a normal kid. He isn't abnormal, nothing out of the ordinary (I mean in social, academic, or developmental context). His only crime is that he has homosexual behavior. I'm pretty certain he is already been bullied at school, if not (maybe because he attends private school), then more of it is coming as he grows older. He'd be made to feel depressed, unwanted, and ashamed of something he didn't get to choose while being perfectly normal in all sense of the word.

Everyone must not be like you. I identify as an heterosexual. I am an heterosexual. And I sure as hell am nothing like you. That you believe you are sort of the perfect, ideal human being in whose image all 7 billion other human beings evolved (or created, depending on which school of thought you belong to) is the most arrogant, myopic, intolerant thing I've heard anyone say in my lifetime.

I'm pretty sure you do not know that 1%-2% of humans are asexuals. People who are not sexually attracted to other people (be them same-sex or opposite sex). Most of which puke at the very thought of having sex. I don't mean the religious monks who forego sex for religious reasons. I mean people without societal or religious obligations who in an overly sexual world see the rest of us are rabid sexually-bemused animals.

If I ask you about when they made the choice, I'm pretty sure you will cook up another story of how you've been celibate for X years and so it's all a choice.

Well I'm sorry to break it to you. For most of us, it is not a choice. I did not choose to start noticing the bums of ladies and ignore the bums of guys at some point in my life. I've always been that way. I didn't even ever grow to the point where I started noticing at the bum of guys, then one day decided I didn't want to any longer. Only bisexuals are able to do that, not heterosexuals. And yes, bisexuals can choose to identify as heterosexuals or homosexuals, which fits you perfectly. They can choose to slap whatever identity they like on themselves, it only makes them bisexual not heterosexuals who only have one identity--heterosexuality or homosexuals who only have one identity--homosexuality.

Again, everyone is not like you. We are all different.

-Lord

JacksonD7:


There's still a choice factor in it, some people are born as kleptomaniacs but they can still train themselves to end the cycle of compulsive stealing.

Comparing kleptomania and homosexuality is comparing apples to oranges. Kleptomania is excessive stealing, homosexuality is simply ONE TYPE of sexual orientation.

The only thing you can compare kleptomania to in sexuality is nymphomania or high sexual libido.

Homosexuality is only one type of sexual orientation. Others are heterosexuality, bisexuality, asexuality, pansexuality, and the list keeps growing as the suppression and pressure to conform wears off.

Stealing is wrong. It hurts other people. After all, you don't steal from yourself. It promotes inequality and condemns hardwork. The objective in rehabilitation is not to make kleptomaniacs steal less, it is to make them not steal anymore.

Homosexuality is not wrong. It doesn't hurt other people. Homosexuals are encouraged to only have sex with other same-sex adults who give their CONSENT. Heterosexuals are encouraged to do same. An homosexual raping anyone (whether the person is homosexual or not) is arrested and imprisoned as an heterosexual would. An homosexual abusing kids is arrested and imprisoned as an heterosexual would.

So, you can see your logic is flawed.

-Lord

JacksonD7:


More testosterone = more masculinity

That's basic man science, even butch lesbian are known to have abnormally high testosterone levels.

I meant to ask, what are the ways he could increase his cousin's testosterone levels?

I'm waiting to hear the child abuse examples you are so eager to share.

-Lord

JacksonD7 , common, u aint straight..... A heterosexual watching gay porn? Common you have a fantasy of the gay world.... You are bisexual.

He is not gay just a transvestite...

electricpole:
JacksonD7 , common, u aint straight..... A heterosexual watching gay porn? Common you have a fantasy of the gay world.... You are bisexual.

No mind am. And e 1 advice person.

You could sense the arrogance in his replies. The absolute certainty. Like he was God himself.

Which is sad because the B in LGBTQ is Bisexual. Protection of the rights of people who are a lot like him is being championed by the very people he detests. The irony!

-Lord

Jadoskii:
He is not gay just a transvestite...

Some transvestites are gay mate. Why are we so quick to attach labels and say with absolute certainty what identity fits a KID we haven't seen before. Let the kid grow and be himself. It's not like heterosexual transvestites are not treated worse than the average heterosexual male.

The kid cannot be what you want him to be. He'd be what he is. Stop playing God.

-Lord

he's exhibiting traits

kimbra:
I don't think the parents are oblivious of these traits you noticed. They know their child better than anyone. Do what you went there for and find your square root when you're done.

If it sings like lala then it is lala

uzoclinton:
Sexual orientation is not a choice.... some people are born Gay some are born straight.....

is this bs genetically. proven the nephew has "xy " as his sex determinant chromosome, so just spare us this your fallacious statement. The guy is still young and can still be made to understand the need to be a boy/man he was meant to be.

martynsnet:


I may have, as a kid we all MAY, but guy am not talking about a one time thing, or acting like a woman during play (all those mama n papa kinda), am telling u this kid is just like that, as in its his life style. He's not playing.... cant really describe it for u.

brother shout at him and yab him whenever he's acting all sissy around you...that will make him toughen up.

Op just find a way to relate things with the mum,or the elder sister,tell them what you've observed and if at the end they still insist he is just been a kid then let him be..........

He be like say no be 9ja mother o,because if na dey na from pastor house the pikin go take they go school or in fact stay church..

LordAdam16:


Some transvestites are gay mate. Why are we so quick to attach labels and say with absolute certainty what identity fits a KID we haven't seen before. Let the kid grow and be himself. It's not like heterosexual transvestites are not treated worse than the average heterosexual male.

The kid cannot be what you want him to be. He'd be what he is. Stop playing God.

-Lord

I'm not condemning him or anything.that's just wah it is.'transvestite'. I dnt care abt dis gay stuff..my best friend can as well be gay nd I wldnt give a hoot..

JacksonD7:


There's still a choice factor in it, some people are born as kleptomaniacs but they can still train themselves to end the cycle of compulsive stealing.

some people are born kleptomanic... How can you say that... the habit of stealing is something you pick up... that's why its called a habit, no one is born with it.

ozoebuka1:
is this bs genetically. proven the nephew has "xy " as his sex determinant chromosome, so just spare us this your fallacious statement. The guy is still young and can still be made to understand the need to be a boy/man he was meant to be.

Has your heterosexuality being genetically proven? If it has, please point the research paper out to me.

You have no right to ask for genetic proof for homosexuality when you haven't provided a genetic proof for heterosexuality.

The definite research that point towards genetic markers for extroversion and introversion was completed recently in 2005. It still has holes in the narrative and doesn't tell how much these genetic markers influence extroversion and introversion. Yet, modern social scientific study on extroversion/introversion started over 100 years ago. The Watson and Crick DNA model came out in 1953 more than 50 years before this seeming genetic confirmation.

The search for a genetic marker for sexual orientation didn't start until less than 2 decades ago. It has always been a taboo topic. These things take time. But we aren't going to wait until we find a marker because it wouldn't stop you guys from even pointing out that if there is a genetic marker then it must be an aberration of the heterosexual marker. You see closeted minds like yourself aren't waiting for science to prove you wrong, you're waiting to poke holes in science.

Preliminary scientific research has said nothing is wrong with homosexuals. That homosexuality is a normal variation of heterosexuality, like asexuality, bisexuality, pansexuality, and other queer-ities. Did that change your perception? NO!

For a while, you guys said even the animals don't practice homosexuality, so why humans. That homosexuals were worse than animals. Then peculiar instances of animal homosexuality were documented and shown. Did that change your perception? NO!

Let's just put it straight. Homophobic bigots live in the same bubble as racists and supremacists. There is nothing science will do that will change your perception if you aren't even ready to open your mind up for discussion. Discussion starts when there is tolerance. You guys can't even tolerate homosexuals.

There is nothing wrong with that boy. And if he grows to be a heterosexual transvestite or homosexual, he'd still not be any less than a boy/man than any average full-on heterosexual male out there. You cannot be any more of a man than Elton John or Domenico Dolce or Stefano Gabbana or Peter Thiel or Michael Kors. Each of these men are more successful than you could ever be. They are the men they are meant to be. They are homosexuals.

It doesn't mean they are better than you. It also doesn't mean you're better than them. We are all humans doing our little to better humanity.

Your sexual orientation doesn't make you a normal functioning male. It's understanding, tolerance, compassion, empathy (qualities you clearly lack) that makes true men. Homophobic men like yourself are poor excuses of what an ideal man should be. Stop projecting your failure on your others. You are no different from racist KKK members who think Black Africans are apes.

ozoebuka1:
[s]brother shout at him and yab him whenever he's acting all sissy around you...that will make him toughen up.[/s]

That will make him avoid you and become a recluse. Shout and yab (verbally mock) a kid for something he can't control NOR IS HURTFUL to anyone is your idea of help? Toughening up doesn't make a person less gay. Butch homosexuals would make an example of you in a fight any day and take more abuse while you're already tearing up.

Wake up and smell the coffee. Heterosexuals may be in the majority. It doesn't make us the poster children of sexuality. Maybe that's coming as a shock to you. And you are still in denial phase and trying your best to fight it. I can assure you it's a fight you've already lost. Minorities have fought and put the rim on slavery, racism, and sexism. Violence and discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity is the new frontier. It is a tougher (and I imagine longer) fight, but the odds are in our favor.

Homosexuals, asexuals, bisexuals, and every other minority non-heterosexual groups have proven to be law-abiding, normal people capable of achieving success, contributing immensely to humanity, and have the compassion, tolerance, and doggedness that also make heterosexuals human. They may be murdered, maimed, imprisoned, discriminated against, denied rights, and jeered at for the meantime; but the RAINBOW (symbol of the LGBTQ+ movement) shines after the rain.

Heterosexism is an EVIL. “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”

I will not "DO NOTHING."

-Lord

LordAdam16:


Has your heterosexuality being genetically proven? If it has, please point the research paper out to me.

You have no right to ask for genetic proof for homosexuality when you haven't provided a genetic proof for heterosexuality.

The definite research that point towards genetic markers for extroversion and introversion was completed recently in 2005. It still has holes in the narrative and doesn't tell how much these genetic markers influence extroversion and introversion. Yet, modern social scientific study on extroversion/introversion started over 100 years ago. The Watson and Crick DNA model came out in 1953 more than 50 years before this seeming genetic confirmation.

The search for a genetic marker for sexual orientation didn't start until less than 2 decades ago. It has always been a taboo topic. These things take time. But we aren't going to wait until we find a marker because it wouldn't stop you guys from even pointing out that if there is a genetic marker then it must be an aberration of the heterosexual marker. You see closeted minds like yourself aren't waiting for science to prove you wrong, you're waiting to poke holes in science.

Preliminary scientific research has said nothing is wrong with homosexuals. That homosexuality is a normal variation of heterosexuality, like asexuality, bisexuality, pansexuality, and other queer-ities. Did that change your perception? NO!

For a while, you guys said even the animals don't practice homosexuality, so why humans. That homosexuals were worse than animals. Then peculiar instances of animal homosexuality were documented and shown. Did that change your perception? NO!

Let's just put it straight. Homophobic bigots live in the same bubble as racists and supremacists. There is nothing science will do that will change your perception if you aren't even ready to open your mind up for discussion. Discussion starts when there is tolerance. You guys can't even tolerate homosexuals.

There is nothing wrong with that boy. And if he grows to be a heterosexual transvestite or homosexual, he'd still not be any less than a boy/man than any average full-on heterosexual male out there. You cannot be any more of a man than Elton John or Domenico Dolce or Stefano Gabbana or Peter Thiel or Michael Kors. Each of these men are more successful than you could ever be. They are the men they are meant to be. They are homosexuals.

It doesn't mean they are better than you. It also doesn't mean you're better than them. We are all humans doing our little to better humanity.

Your sexual orientation doesn't make you a normal functioning male. It's understanding, tolerance, compassion, empathy (qualities you clearly lack) that makes true men. Homophobic men like yourself are poor excuses of what an ideal man should be. Stop projecting your failure on your others. You are no different from racist KKK members who think Black Africans are apes.



That will make him avoid you and become a recluse. Shout and yab (verbally mock) a kid for something he can't control NOR IS HURTFUL to anyone is your idea of help? Toughening up doesn't make a person less gay. Butch homosexuals would make an example of you in a fight any day and take more abuse while you're already tearing up.

Wake up and smell the coffee. Heterosexuals may be in the majority. It doesn't make us the poster children of sexuality. Maybe that's coming as a shock to you. And you are still in denial phase and trying your best to fight it. I can assure you it's a fight you've already lost. Minorities have fought and put the rim on slavery, racism, and sexism. Violence and discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity is the new frontier. It is a tougher (and I imagine longer) fight, but the odds are in our favor.

Homosexuals, asexuals, bisexuals, and every other minority non-heterosexual groups have proven to be law-abiding, normal people capable of achieving success, contributing immensely to humanity, and have the compassion, tolerance, and doggedness that also make heterosexuals human. They may be murdered, maimed, imprisoned, discriminated against, denied rights, and jeered at for the meantime; but the RAINBOW (symbol of the LGBTQ+ movement) shines after the rain.

Heterosexism is an EVIL. “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”

I will not "DO NOTHING."

-Lord

I don't know what you guys enjoy by writing long uncorrelated epistle just to prove a point... writing a long note doesn't make your argument superior. To prove that, believe you me, I did not read one thing from that long sh.it you wrote up there...now, how do you feel?

Jadoskii:
I'm not condemning him or anything.that's just wah it is.'transvestite'. I dnt care abt dis gay stuff..my best friend can as well be gay nd I wldnt give a hoot..

I apologize if I was hasty to allude that you were condemning him. The OP's account and in subsequent replies clearly dismissed it as the kid simply being a transvestite. The OP said and I quote "He acts like a sissy and cries like a girl, first time i heard him cry I was like WTF? You need to hear him complain when he's upset, his choice of words, attitude and body language all exhibits feminine traits."

The definition of transvestite is

A person, typically a man, who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes primarily associated with the opposite sex.

From the definition, the kid is not purely a transvestite. You could call him that, but it doesn't paint the full picture. It's like calling a bisexual an homosexual. It may be technically correct, but it doesn't paint the full picture.

That kid could very well be a transgender.

For the avoidance of doubt, this is the definition of transgender

denoting or relating to a person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex.

And aside the part where the OP talks about the kid getting uncomfortably close to him and rubbing his hair, none of these things really speak of his sexual orientation.

The problem as I said earlier is the eagerness to attach an identity or badge on the kid. Especially when we don't know the kid that well. For all we know, the kid could have a girlfriend or alternatively be part of one of the all-female cliques in his school with an A+ for gossiping.

His gender identity and sexual orientation have nothing to do with his academic performance, mental development, cognitive functioning, or emotional balance. He is the average kid you'd find playing in the background, taking a stroll from school, being mischievous, or throwing annoying tantrums. The labels aren't going to help him, rather they're going to classify him, like a jar in the school chemistry lab.

We're talking about a kid for "whatever you worship" sake.

I'm not even sure about the OP's intention for this thread. He starts off with the classic "First am not against gay people", then ends with the classic homophobic "I yell at him whenever i see him acting funny." You see the irony.

You said with certainty that the kid is not gay but a transvestite. I quickly pointed out that you really can't be sure that the kid isn't gay, since you obviously missed the part of the OP narration that alludes to the kid being a transgender. And especially when we're just making inference based on a subjective account.

Clearly, you can understand why my response was necessary.

-Lord

ozoebuka1:
I don't know what you guys enjoy by writing long uncorrelated epistle just to prove a point... writing a long note doesn't make your argument superior. To prove that, believe you me, I did not read one thing from that long sh.it you wrote up there...now, how do you feel?

Like I don't give a sh*t if you decide to use your brain or not.

The reply is not just for you. It's also for the other people who would appreciate an expose on sexuality. Most of us are too busy with our lives, work, family, surviving, and other issues to carefully read multiple blogs, research papers, op-eds and other publications, or even engage in open discussions about sexuality.

Well-detailed posts like the one you quoted are relatively abridged content forms to better inform this category of people.

Don't flatter yourself unnecessarily. All the talk and conversation of racism doesn't get to the heads of the light-skinned people killing blacks in Libya, Russia and elsewhere. Nor does all the talk and conversation about women emancipation get to the heads of the Shieks and Alfas in the Middle East, Northern Nigeria and elsewhere.

Some people are condemned from birth to be irredeemable bigots. If you are one of such people, I can't waste my pity on you or pander to your ego (however inflated).

The LGBTQ+ movement does not have a pause button and is only growing stronger. How do you feel?

-Lord

Well...I don't have anything to say......


but one thing is certain, keep your nephew dafuq far away from me..... cause.......